If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

Females are not naturally stupid, you dolt. The fact that you would even make such a statement shows that you have very few brain cells left. That girl should better run away from you

Any man who barks and yells at ladies like the man above me must be imprudent.

Women shouldn't be treated like u are doing. Pamper and treat her like u would treat a sister.

I have a wife whom I treat like my mum and she has never disappointed me one day...my parents have never been disappointed in her either.

So,na the name wey u call ur dog e go anwer.

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

What if you birth girls all through
Will you still reason like this

If you reason so, will you still blame their mum

And if you blame their mum then you did not do your job well being with such as a wife and mother of your girls

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

I guess your mother who is also a representation of the girl child is naturally stupid, going by your perception.

Reading your post, gives an insight of who your father is/was and how he perceive/d your mother and you copied the bad behaviour.

You don't need a wife, you need psychiatric evaluation.....you will be the death of any woman who unfortunately falls into your trap of marriage.

OP. Kudos to u and ur opinion
But u sounded like a scumbag, a nitwit and a crazy ass mo'fucker.

Peace ✌🏼

Y'all criticising the OP are the one's that should have your brains checked because obviously y'all have zero ability to reason properly. Well I'm not surprised anyway cos most Nigerian are actually stupid! Y'all just displayed it! (P.S: don't come at me unless the shoe fits). All he said up there is a fact if we are to remove hypocrisy, just that he's wrong with the 90% he quoted. Most of the ladies criticising probably falls into the category of the type of women he mentioned and the guys criticising are simps and an hypocrite. Nigerians need to learn more about constructive arguments/criticism actually cos why the heck will someone post a personal observation and if you seem not to agree, instead of replying with your own observation from your own point of view, you'll prefer to attack like a mad dog. We can do better FFS!!!! Imagine some people even bringing his mother into this, chaiii!!! I want to believe it's the situation of the country that probably makes people get angry unnecessarily!

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

let me break it down to you

whether girl or boy your mother is the first women you trust in your life, on mostly we take them as our role models and it takes years to admit thats she is wrong in certain things or things she taught you

So being the first women
we trust in general we tend not to see their bad part in your case disrepecting a son in law, your wife might not see it as such

And remember it goes both ways it might be your mum disrespecting her daughter in law but you might not see it that way

ZIMDRILL:


let me break it down to you

whether girl or boy your mother is the first women you trust in your life, on mostly we take them as our role models and it takes years to admit thats she is wrong in certain things or things she taught you

So being the first women
we trust in general we tend not to see their bad part in your case disrepecting a son in law, your wife might not see it as such

And remember it goes both ways it might be your mum disrespecting her daughter in law but you might not see it that way

First person to reason properly! Well you're right with your points. I belive smart children will see their mother mistakes on time and make adjustments quickly but in respect to what the OP is saying, most ladies find it difficult to realise this, maybe not smart enough to see it or they just don't want to see it, and that can be defined as stupidity like he stated.

Remove the log in your eye before trying to remove the splinter in another's.
You hypocrite!
Your writeup reeks of misogyny. You need to check yourself, or better still, see a therapist.

Mindlog:


I guess your mother who is also a representation of the girl child is naturally stupid, going by your perception.

Reading your post, gives an insight of who your father is/was and how he perceive/d your mother and you copied the bad behaviour.

You don't need a wife, you need psychiatric evaluation.....you will be the death of any woman who unfortunately falls into your trap of marriage.

I'm telling you.

Baff and chop first before meeting your imaginary wife and in-law scallawag

Hehehe nothing more to add, sane peeps has done justice to Op.

My own is to like your comments.i have dashed all the commenters likes.

ibechris:
Any man who barks and yells at ladies like the man above me must be imprudent.

Women shouldn't be treated like u are doing. Pamper and treat her like u would treat a sister.

I have a wife whom I treat like my mum and she has never disappointed me one day...my parents have never been disappointed in her either.

So,na the name wey u call ur dog e go anwer.

Who is this one? This one that will claim 2b married but will go abt carrying small girls that are old enof 2b his daughters is making noise.

As a guy if u like go nd marry a girl whose mom insults her husband anyhow she likes what you'll see in the marriage will dash u sense 4 free but by that time the deed had already been done. Maybe divorce has now given unprepared married men like u lots a soft landing that's why u rarely make findings abt the girl u wanna marry b4 going into it now. Some of u just wanna marry just 2b respected in the society with a hidden intension of divorcing the person at any slight provocation. 4 those of u attacking me lemme tell u that i don't wanna divorce 4 any reason so i can never marry a girl that has such a mother. I value my peace of mind above any other thing. 90% of girls whose mothers insult their husband at will will repeat the same mistake on their husbands taking it 2b a normal thing.

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

Any guy that can proudly come online to tag 90% of women as “naturally stupid” lacks respect for women, is likely abusive and is a walking red flag. The girls you’re assessing should actually run from you.

SyrusdeHansome:
Who is this one? This one that will claim 2b married but will go abt carrying small girls that are old enof 2b his daughters is making noise.

you don feed yourself before talking about marriage!

Marriage is not for teenagers and boys.

Skyview01:


you don feed yourself before talking about marriage!

Marriage is not for teenagers and boys.

Below the belt punchline

SyrusdeHansome:
Who is this one? This one that will claim 2b married but will go abt carrying small girls that are old enof 2b his daughters is making noise.

Well,I am not like ur father who trained a man to behave like an unwise boy.

I respect women and I think if u are angry because of that u can as well eat shit. I don't care how u feel but maltreating women is wrong in all facets and it is only men,like u that would continue to make good men appear like bad men.

Werey dey see himself like alpha male...

ibechris:



Well,I am not like ur father who trained a man to behave like an unwise boy.

I respect women and I think if u are angry because of that u can as well eat shit. I don't care how u feel but maltreating women is wrong in all facets and it is only men,like u that would continue to make good men appear like bad men.

Werey dey see himself like alpha male...

Are you for real with your stand on women

SyrusdeHansome:
As a guy if u like go nd marry a girl whose mom insults her husband anyhow she likes what you'll see in the marriage will dash u sense 4 free but by that time the deed had already been done. Maybe divorce has now given unprepared married men like u lots a soft landing that's why u rarely make findings abt the girl u wanna marry b4 going into it now. Some of u just wanna marry just 2b respected in the society with a hidden intension of divorcing the person at any slight provocation. 4 those of u attacking me lemme tell u that i don't wanna divorce 4 any reason so i can never marry a girl that has such a mother. I value my peace of mind above any other thing. 90% of girls whose mothers insult their husband at will will repeat the same mistake on their husbands taking it 2b a normal thing.

My focus is that. it is a two-way street.

A boy who grows up seeing his father demeaning his mother in both words and action, even in the presence of their children and outsiders, sees his father repeatedly beats his mother and his mother still remained in the marriage......modelling and normalization will be nurtured in that boy's mind.

He is most likely to grow to be a man who sees nothing wrong in demeaning women, beating the girlfriend/wife as the surest way to exert authority in the relationship because that was what his father modelled to him and he has normalized it as he comfortably identifies it as being masculine.

In all, toxic marriage tends to mess up the children as they tend to carry over the toxicity into their relationships except for some who recognize the toxicity and are very intentional not to repeat their parents' toxicity.

Reason it is a must for any professionally trained marriage therapist to explore the childhood of the couple at the first/second session.

ahnie:

Are you for real with your stand on women

I don't think there is anything wrong in what I stand for.

ibechris:



I don't think there is anything wrong in what I stand for.

I m impressed,dazzall

ibechris:



Well,I am not like ur father who trained a man to behave like an unwise boy.

I respect women and I think if u are angry because of that u can as well eat shit. I don't care how u feel but maltreating women is wrong in all facets and it is only men,like u that would continue to make good men appear like bad men.

Werey dey see himself like alpha male...

See this idiot. Go thro all my threads whether you'll ever see me make mention of the alpha beta nonsense. What i wrote is as a result of the research i started carrying out after my secondary schl education. This days u rarely see a chaste female teenager nd untill the society starts paying attention the world will keep getting bad. Do a little findings abt the kinda female celebs we keep churning out, their values nd belief system nd tell me where we're headed as a pple. Go to social media nd read what small girls keep posting every minute nd tell me wer we're goin

ibechris:



Well,I am not like ur father who trained a man to behave like an unwise boy.

I respect women and I think if u are angry because of that u can as well eat shit. I don't care how u feel but maltreating women is wrong in all facets and it is only men,like u that would continue to make good men appear like bad men.

Werey dey see himself like alpha male...

Where i work i see old men pick nd drop teenage girls every minute nd it's becoming a norm now. Tell me what the society will turn into if ur teenage boys start pursuing after pple's wives the same way this small girls pursue after pple's husbands. Two yrs ago one of my secondary schol classmates kept pestering me to help her connect her with my dad all because she thought my dad is a rich man. Some months ago one of my church girls made the same statement which i jokingly dismissed. It's high time we started asking ourselves some valid questions abt our female children

SyrusdeHansome:
Where i work i see old men pick nd drop teenage girls every minute nd it's becoming a norm now. Tell me what the society will turn into if ur teenage boys start pursuing after pple's wives the same way this small girls pursue after pple's husbands. Two yrs ago one of my secondary schol classmates kept pestering me to help her connect her with my dad all because she thought my dad is a rich man. Some months ago one of my church girls made the same statement which i jokingly dismissed. It's high time we started asking ourselves some valid questions abt our female children

And you have no words for those pedophiles who are sexually exploiting those minors?

SyrusdeHansome:
If i find out the girl i want to marry has a mother that has a tendency of disrespecting the husband i can never marry such a girl. Nobody can tell me that she'll be different frm her mom. 90% of the girl child are naturally stupid. They tend to copy bad behaviours faster than the good ones.

Truthfully true

Mindlog:


And you have no words for those pedophiles who are sexually exploiting those minors?

One of the reason i wanna be wealthy is because of issues like this. I wanna build a large skills acquisition centres where teenage boys nd girls can be trained so as 2b independent b4 the ages of 22. At least that will help them in some ways to be able to afford some of the things the old men may be promising them. I knw i made a mistake using the 90% analogy because i wanted to write 60% but i guess my fingers were faster than my brain.

SyrusdeHansome:
One of the reason i wanna be wealthy is because of issues like this. I wanna build a large skills acquisition centres where teenage boys nd girls can be trained so as 2b independent b4 the ages of 22. At least that will help them in some ways to be able to afford some of the things the old men may be promising them. I knw i made a mistake using the 90% analogy because i wanted to write 60% but i guess my fingers were faster than my brain.

For me it is not about the percentage but the perception itself. In saner climes, where you work would have been closed down for providing the setting for the thriving of teenage prostitution while those pedophiles would be cooling off behind bars by now when caught.

I must commend that it is noble to have the desire to have these adolescents skilled as a way of having them focused in life but we need to also focus on getting adults, be it male or female who sexually exploit adolescent boys and girls are being called out, arrested and prosecuted, then get their faces plastered across social media.

Even if a minor is a sexual deviant, the adult in the picture is the offender. That a 13 year old girl have had sex with all the men in the community, does not mean the judge would set free the man who was caught and arrested for having sex with her.

SyrusdeHansome:
See this idiot. Go thro all my threads whether you'll ever see me make mention of the alpha beta nonsense. What i wrote is as a result of the research i started carrying out after my secondary schl education. This days u rarely see a chaste female teenager nd untill the society starts paying attention the world will keep getting bad. Do a little findings abt the kinda female celebs we keep churning out, their values nd belief system nd tell me where we're headed as a pple. Go to social media nd read what small girls keep posting every minute nd tell me wer we're goin

In as much as you are making a point.

What about the Male Gender? Because from my findings, They are much Worse than the Female Gender.

Take this to the Bank.

SyrusdeHansome:
Where i work i see old men pick nd drop teenage girls every minute nd it's becoming a norm now. Tell me what the society will turn into if ur teenage boys start pursuing after pple's wives the same way this small girls pursue after pple's husbands. Two yrs ago one of my secondary schol classmates kept pestering me to help her connect her with my dad all because she thought my dad is a rich man. Some months ago one of my church girls made the same statement which i jokingly dismissed. It's high time we started asking ourselves some valid questions abt our female children

What do you Expect?

Old Generations Of Men who destroyed this country are Capitalizing on the Current Situation.

It was when I was young and naive I usually blame people without doing my proper findings. Now that I have deep Insights into most things going on in the World. I'll Just put on a Smile lol☺