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Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by DaCharis2016: 4:07pm On Mar 30, 2023
Cyril009:


NewestNigerian good evening sir....

I need advice I want to start working as a dispatch rider but I don't know where to start
Don't have a bike and don't have any experience with bikes but been learning since last month...
Hope to start working come may....
Can I send you an email 🙏🏾🙇🏾‍♂️
Don't venture into dispatch rider all sudden yet. Learn to ride Okada first.
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by Nobody: 12:25am On Apr 01, 2023
NewestNigerian:
This thread isn't meant for kids, alright🥺


See this odeh way woman divert. Woman kpekus makes you to loss your sense just to spoil your plans.

Mumu
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by Dedeity: 5:19am On Apr 01, 2023
NewestNigerian:
I was working as a dispatch rider where I was able to gather more than 500K for a business startup. I have digital skills I plan to carve a niche. I was living in a Pako House in a Ghetto here on the Island. My lofty dreams is to leave this Ghetto for an apartment in VGC or an high profile estate on the Island in a shortwhile.


I met a pretty but useless lady of 26years May last year 2022. At first, I wasn't attracted to her as my biggest focus was to gather enough funds for my business startup. She drew my attention by always wanting to get close.

We started talking and she told me about her plans. Me being 30yrs and no girlfriend as at then, with my family on my neck to get married, I thought I could join hands with the lady who also claimed to be out of relationship for months before we met.

We agreed to start a mini restaurant inside Osapa London. I wasn't suppose to divert my plans, but I did thinking the restaurant would fetch back the money. I got a space in Osapa London and built a fancy wooden shop which costs me 260K to build plus the space 70K, only for the lady(my ex) to tell me she doesn't like the shop and location, saying I should dismantle it. I abandoned the shop(it was eventually vandalised) and searched for a new space inside Orchid Hotels Road.

I eventually found a space in Orchid which cost 120K and I had to build Aluminium Kiosk for the Business. I achieved all the goals. But I was getting broke already because I've spent all my savings and was only using my weekly cashouts to run the project. My Ex told me she'll get money from her family and friends to support me, she couldn't get ordinary 10K from any of them. I didn't complain cos I've braced up my mind never to be afraid of responsibilities.

I began to lose it for the lady when I planned to partner with Bolt Foods cos the restaurant I was delivering for doesn't have much packages like before again, so I had to plan ahead. I already booked an appointment with Bolt for training. Unfortunately, I lost my smartphone a day before the training(smartphone is a necessity). I asked my Ex to lemme use her phone to run the training and work for like a week plus till I acquire a new smartphone, she refused blatantly. She said I should find other means that she can't release her iPhone 6(ordinary iPhone 6 o). A lady colleague at the restaurant I was delivering for borrowed me her iPhone X for 2 grand weeks.

I completed the training, started working with Bolt and earning. 2 weeks after, my Ex phone fell and screen damaged, I bought her a new Infinix phone(can't remember the model type).
Unfortunately, a very good friend of mine asked to borrow my bike to deliver in Ikoyi, on his way, he had a ghastly accident that cost his leg and my bike damaged beyond repair.

I was home for 2 months doing nothing.
I wouldn't continue being idle, I decided to start all over again by acquiring another bike on Hire Purchase. My Ex was already working and earning 40K monthly. I applied for a new bike and I needed to pay a Mandatory deposit payment of 25K(an amount I lacked). I was confident my Ex was gonna lend me the money. To my greatest surprise, she said she can't borrow me the said amount. I was shocked to my marrow, she told me to find other means.

I am so furious rightnow that I have decided already to run the restaurant myself and collect back my phone from her. I'll rather dash an im.becile the phone than that ungrateful soul.

Tomorrow Thursday is her off day, we've agreed to meet and she have no idea I wanna breakup with her. Not just that, am collecting my phone from her without letting her copy a single thing out of it. She's the one at loss, not me. She only succeeded in wasting my time and delaying my plans. But it's all good and nice cos I feel free in my soul already with the thought that a parasitic girl is finally out of my life.


UPDATED

I told her I want out of our relationship, she started laughing, thinking it's a joke.

She didn't take me serious until I started listing number of times she leeched on me. She couldn't believe I knew all her tricks. The smile on her face faded away when I demanded her return my phone, she began to realise am serious.



Then, she responded by saying "fine, what about the Aluminium Kiosk?".
I told her am selling the Kiosk, and she became furious. She started yelling, saying "what's her gain if I sell the Kiosk". She was actually expecting me to dash her the Kiosk. She threatened not to allow me sell the Kiosk and other items, even though I dint plan to sell them but put them to usage.

I told her my mind is madeup and the business isn't holding anymore. She broke down in tears and started labeling me Wicked and said she won't return my phone to me, she was ready to fight (I won't assault her, so I left the phone with her). She claimed am wicked for me to have pulled out of a relationship that doesn't favor me, I laughed.




I left the scene telling her not to call me ever again. She kept calling time to time, telling me I can't leave her just like that, claiming am everything to her and all that😄. Since then till this moment, she have been calling and begging me not to leave and misunderstand her. She called 2 of my friends telling them the ruckus happening between us, dudes called me and like I should rethink it and pardon the girl. Her elder Sister called me and pleading on her behalf. She's presently in my place pleading and crying profusely. I left her in the house with my friends cos am not having the whole drama and my decision is final.
If you ever take that gurl back I can tell you that you're doomed. Don't let anyone make you to change your mind
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by Aklee4994(m): 6:42am On Apr 01, 2023
NewestNigerian:
I was working as a dispatch rider where I was able to gather more than 500K for a business startup. I have digital skills I plan to carve a niche. I was living in a Pako House in a Ghetto here on the Island. My lofty dreams is to leave this Ghetto for an apartment in VGC or an high profile estate on the Island in a shortwhile.


I met a pretty but useless lady of 26years May last year 2022. At first, I wasn't attracted to her as my biggest focus was to gather enough funds for my business startup. She drew my attention by always wanting to get close.

We started talking and she told me about her plans. Me being 30yrs and no girlfriend as at then, with my family on my neck to get married, I thought I could join hands with the lady who also claimed to be out of relationship for months before we met.

We agreed to start a mini restaurant inside Osapa London. I wasn't suppose to divert my plans, but I did thinking the restaurant would fetch back the money. I got a space in Osapa London and built a fancy wooden shop which costs me 260K to build plus the space 70K, only for the lady(my ex) to tell me she doesn't like the shop and location, saying I should dismantle it. I abandoned the shop(it was eventually vandalised) and searched for a new space inside Orchid Hotels Road.

I eventually found a space in Orchid which cost 120K and I had to build Aluminium Kiosk for the Business. I achieved all the goals. But I was getting broke already because I've spent all my savings and was only using my weekly cashouts to run the project. My Ex told me she'll get money from her family and friends to support me, she couldn't get ordinary 10K from any of them. I didn't complain cos I've braced up my mind never to be afraid of responsibilities.

I began to lose it for the lady when I planned to partner with Bolt Foods cos the restaurant I was delivering for doesn't have much packages like before again, so I had to plan ahead. I already booked an appointment with Bolt for training. Unfortunately, I lost my smartphone a day before the training(smartphone is a necessity). I asked my Ex to lemme use her phone to run the training and work for like a week plus till I acquire a new smartphone, she refused blatantly. She said I should find other means that she can't release her iPhone 6(ordinary iPhone 6 o). A lady colleague at the restaurant I was delivering for borrowed me her iPhone X for 2 grand weeks.

I completed the training, started working with Bolt and earning. 2 weeks after, my Ex phone fell and screen damaged, I bought her a new Infinix phone(can't remember the model type).
Unfortunately, a very good friend of mine asked to borrow my bike to deliver in Ikoyi, on his way, he had a ghastly accident that cost his leg and my bike damaged beyond repair.

I was home for 2 months doing nothing.
I wouldn't continue being idle, I decided to start all over again by acquiring another bike on Hire Purchase. My Ex was already working and earning 40K monthly. I applied for a new bike and I needed to pay a Mandatory deposit payment of 25K(an amount I lacked). I was confident my Ex was gonna lend me the money. To my greatest surprise, she said she can't borrow me the said amount. I was shocked to my marrow, she told me to find other means.

I am so furious rightnow that I have decided already to run the restaurant myself and collect back my phone from her. I'll rather dash an im.becile the phone than that ungrateful soul.

Tomorrow Thursday is her off day, we've agreed to meet and she have no idea I wanna breakup with her. Not just that, am collecting my phone from her without letting her copy a single thing out of it. She's the one at loss, not me. She only succeeded in wasting my time and delaying my plans. But it's all good and nice cos I feel free in my soul already with the thought that a parasitic girl is finally out of my life.


UPDATED

I told her I want out of our relationship, she started laughing, thinking it's a joke.

She didn't take me serious until I started listing number of times she leeched on me. She couldn't believe I knew all her tricks. The smile on her face faded away when I demanded her return my phone, she began to realise am serious.



Then, she responded by saying "fine, what about the Aluminium Kiosk?".
I told her am selling the Kiosk, and she became furious. She started yelling, saying "what's her gain if I sell the Kiosk". She was actually expecting me to dash her the Kiosk. She threatened not to allow me sell the Kiosk and other items, even though I dint plan to sell them but put them to usage.

I told her my mind is madeup and the business isn't holding anymore. She broke down in tears and started labeling me Wicked and said she won't return my phone to me, she was ready to fight (I won't assault her, so I left the phone with her). She claimed am wicked for me to have pulled out of a relationship that doesn't favor me, I laughed.




I left the scene telling her not to call me ever again. She kept calling time to time, telling me I can't leave her just like that, claiming am everything to her and all that😄. Since then till this moment, she have been calling and begging me not to leave and misunderstand her. She called 2 of my friends telling them the ruckus happening between us, dudes called me and like I should rethink it and pardon the girl. Her elder Sister called me and pleading on her behalf. She's presently in my place pleading and crying profusely. I left her in the house with my friends cos am not having the whole drama and my decision is final.
This is the way ubunja and others preach in the Redpill thread not bullying the f gender....since nothing lead to birth or marriage Na joy...I read everything in this thread and I know you’re high in vibration and your level of consciousness is top notch.

Am happy you know when to work away from the situationship....Even without no shoes 👟 still stand on your ten toes not to accept her back brother...


What I like about you is that you make her to live to regret all her hanky lanky panky lifestyle in the course of the relationship.

I think 💭 she will respect and believe you more till eternity after becoming an EX.she lost an EXTRAORDINARY BEING.

Note:E pain me for the girl because she made a bad KARMA.
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by NewestNigerian: 1:46pm On Apr 01, 2023
Thanks so much for checking on here, and your panegyrical statements are well appreciated.

No matter how best a man appears, there are facets of his life that needs revamping. I can only improve🙂.

Aklee4994:
This is the way ubunja and others preach in the Redpill thread not bullying the f gender....since nothing lead to birth or marriage Na joy...I read everything in this thread and I know you’re high in vibration and your level of consciousness is top notch.

Am happy you know when to work away from the situationship....Even without no shoes 👟 still stand on your ten toes not to accept her back brother...


What I like about you is that you make her to live to regret all her hanky lanky panky lifestyle in the course of the relationship.

I think 💭 she will respect and believe you more till eternity after becoming an EX. she lost an EXTRAORDINARY BEING.

Note:E pain me for the girl because she made a bad KARMA.
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by NewestNigerian: 1:51pm On Apr 01, 2023
The topic has long shifted from taking her back, it has sailed to meeting more friends, openness and life enjoyment.

Life is too short to be worried about one below average human when there are great amount of better humans waiting to be associated with.

Thanks for checking this space.
Dedeity:
If you ever take that gurl back I can tell you that you're doomed. Don't let anyone make you to change your mind
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by NewestNigerian: 1:55pm On Apr 01, 2023
Just build up yourself dude.

eDarlling:


See this odeh way woman divert. Woman kpekus makes you to loss your sense just to spoil your plans.

Mumu
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by Kogbakogba: 3:49pm On Apr 01, 2023
NewestNigerian, please brother have a dispatch bike and a rider,which company or organization one can partner with to make good money.
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by Aklee4994(m): 5:53pm On Apr 01, 2023
NewestNigerian:
Thanks so much for checking on here, and your panegyrical statements are well appreciated.

No matter how best a man appears, there are facets of his life that needs revamping. I can only improve🙂.

you’re welcome 🙏
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by NewestNigerian: 8:48pm On Apr 01, 2023
Kogbakogba:
NewestNigerian, please brother have a dispatch bike and a rider,which company or organization one can partner with to make good money.


It depends on your location but am used to the Island. Here on the Island, delivering food is one of the smartest and coolest way to cash out. Its best to start by partnering Bolt or Glovo, those are sure points to raft in some few thousands.

If you are on the Mainland, I think Kwik and Gokada are nice too. If you are on the Mainland, you can create a market for your Rider, go into major markets, meet store owners and tell them about your delivery guy being their first choice delivery person.
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by ONNYX: 12:40pm On Nov 15, 2023
Cyril009:


Thank you sir email been sent awaiting your reply...

Quite me on a dead thread with your phone number. I want to refer you to someone.

Only if you are resident in Lagos please.
Re: It's Over Between Us UPDATED by Xxx123xxx(m): 8:36pm On Nov 16, 2023
Queenttoast01:


Firstly, you need to give your life to Jesus Christ, He would direct you on kind of woman to marry for your dream to come thru. Secondly, Her character was consequential to you that why you were drained to nothing.

You need to pray and move on with your life.
where did Jesus ever promise to help anyone find a wife.

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