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| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by stainny: 1:19pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
yes i think it is possible when men stop asking for sex as a prove of love. true love does not "make demand" |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by KDULAR: 1:27pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
May be in the next galaxy  |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by mayorwumi(m): 1:30pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
It depends on the way One present yourself at first impression to them i.e if you present yourself as a big boy no shaking ladies ready to sweep al ur cash. |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Akeen90(m): 1:50pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
the truth is most Nigerian girls cant date a guy without begging for something,actually BEGGING is in their DNA .in fact after few days of meeting her she will start asking for recharge card,-does this ring a bell? .But of course there r very few that wont ask for nothing,but they r very very rare  |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by dayokanu(m): 1:54pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
To those who are equating sex to monetary demands. Hope you know the type of people who give sex in exchange for money or gifts? The question you should ask those girls is How much do I need to give you/pay to phock/have sex with you just like you ask a hooker |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nayah(f): 1:59pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Hello Dano, but some girls just need love and only love, and sometimes it's hard to get from some of our brothers |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by dayokanu(m): 2:04pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Nayah, These girls posting on here say categorically they dont need Love alone, they need money/gifts Those that need love alone I pray you find the right man and those that need money for sex, I hope they find it or better still relocate to the nearest brothel |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
mayorwumi: The problem is that if, at first impression, you present yourself as a 'small boy shaking dey' (i.e. a struggling dude with nothing but bare-bones 'love' to offer), do you think you have any chance to even get her number (let alone her body or love)? Unless you look like a Trey Songz that is experiencing personal economic recession she would most likely hiss past you. That's Naija babes for you. |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Fokativ: 2:20pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
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| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nayah(f): 2:23pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
lol Dayo  |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by olajide8(m): 2:40pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
the shame we have been trying to cover up in Nigeria what a disgrace we have amongst our girls the funnest thing is they are the ones that cause most men to want to be corrupt as i sit to write the post i left my office for a follow up in another persons office and the person i came to see was quite busy but a text message appeared o his phone and because of the closeness he said plz help me read out the message it read "eku ojo meta eku irin ibire eni"- "it has been a while thank you for not asking after me", well i know yo are the only person i can turn two i need 400K to pay my house rent, while the person she was asking this favor from only earns about 65K a month he has 2 kids and a wife he has to feed etc, she on the other hand has refused to look for a job or what ever job she is into isn't sufficient to carry her expenses so she has to source else where, the problem of most Nigerian girls is selfishness and greed and the in ability for them to cut their coats according to their sizes if you come to my part of Nigeria girls normally dress up around 3pm to visit guys in the office around 4pm towards closing time what next! Nigerian women are the worst set of women you can ever have any relationship with as truly speaking if they are not asking form you they are definitely ask fro another person |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Igosun: 2:41pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Of cos yes! |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by estrella(f): 2:43pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
sure,why not? as long as a man can date me for a whole year without asking me for sex or without trying to feel me up! |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
This confirms yet again that there is little, if any, difference between pros.t.i.t.u.tes and the 'regular' ones. Since money/gifts = sex, then why do we even need the ordeal of dating one bore and carrying all her wahala? She could as well name her damn price and let the willing-to-pay man mutilate her a.r.s.e with no useless strings attached. . . . .and that is even assuming that they don't enjoy sex, that they only give sex to do the man a favour without gaining any kind of pleasure from the very act. What a laugh. |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Outstrip(f): 3:03pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
For the average NIgerian female I think it is impossible |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nayah(f): 3:07pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
^^ like others African sisters they should less be demanding |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by InkedNerd(f): 3:10pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
rhymz: Well, the OP made it sound like all Nigerian girls are like that. There is only one man in my life that I ask for money and that is my father--lol yes, I'm a bit too old to be asking him for money but he is the only man I ask. I was raised to be independent so this whole notion of asking a man for money is nonsense to me. This argument goes both ways though, because a lot of Nigerian men on this forum make it seem like they're the only ones suffering. What about all those girls who have given themselves to a man sexually, only to have the guy use her? Do you not think that they are feeling what you're feeling? How many people do you know who like to be used then disregarded? olajide_07: How wonderful!!! Another man here blaming women for the corruption and shortcomings of his menfolk. So, lemme ask you something, these men that are supposedly driven to corruption, did these women hold a knife to their throat or a gun to their heads and force them to do it? Are they not grown free thinking individuals who are very much capable of knowing right from wrong? Do not sit here and point fingers when you as a man know that your menfolk play a major role in this distorted perception you seem to hold on to. |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Outstrip(f): 3:27pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Nayah: It is not different for other african women. I know Ghanaians and senegalese girls who live the same lifestyle. I rarely speak of other africans because I have not really lived or dealt with from an early age other africans. I am sure Nigerian females are not the exception |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nayah(f): 3:35pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Oustrip sister, re read I said "like other African sisters", means I know this is not a Nigerian trend and I used to say it here |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Am dating someone now 4 over a year, she has never asked me 4 a kobo, infact she gives me, though i use my discretion to buy her stuffs. She's 'ok' and working. Sad part, church girl, no intimacy yet. |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by DaDoctor: 4:04pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
GALS? ASKING ? MONEY? THEY ARE ALL SYNONYMS MOST OF THEM THINK THEY MUST BE PAID FOR BEING LAID, LOVE OR NO LOVE. BUT IF YOU SAY WIFE, THEN ITS A DIFFERENT BALL GAME |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by agitator: 4:07pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
lol, see nayah d lawyer defending Nigerian ladies. It is quite funny how someone who has not been to Nigeria is defending all the Nigerian babes. While the Nigerian babes don't have any reasonable defense other than the men are demanding for sex. |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nayah(f): 4:19pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
^Agitator, I'm not defending anyone here, my point is I don't really like blaming without considerating some facts and I prefer having a balanced opinion because generalization leads to mistakes The fact than I'm a non Nigerian is not a point, I'm African too and I know our culture, and in this case Nigerian women are the not exception |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by dayokanu(m): 4:45pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
estrella: So the money is in exchange for the sex? Inked nerd you also insinuated the money is in exchange for the sex on the first page or I am misunderstanding you? |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by agitator: 4:49pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
dayokanu: yes na money for hand back for ground |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by beeman80: 5:11pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Mhhhh! |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by dayokanu(m): 5:16pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
agitator: And do you know the name they call those in that profession? |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by MENTORCH(m): 5:19pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Some girls can stay more than a year without demanding, coz dy get more than enough from der parents or other people,but as a guy u av 2 represent sometimes mehn!!!atimes some girls would prefer 2 collect from dere bf instead of dere parents,dy feel itz sweeter.My boyfriend paid for dz or bought dz.lol |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Outstrip(f): 6:02pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
Nayah: I get what you are saying now Nayah. I was reading with my feet |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
You want to kill them?  |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by oobim(m): 6:41pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
my girl never does,but i make surei spoil her with gifts.giving is part of my life,i just love givin |
| Re: Can Girls Date A Whole Year Without Making Demands? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Sep 20, 2011 |
my brother if u mean a naija babe then that is highly inpossible oo!!.The main reason a naija babe gets into a relationship is mainly for material things.This is why many of them have up to six or eight boyfriends.Just imagine eight guys sending 10k each in a single day no be hammer u don hammer be that? .Anyway most naija babes consider guys as their maga and that is why when a foolish bobo sends her money she refers to the guy as a ;Dmumu or olodo. |
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