I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

Every child has the right to life.
Foetus testing is good. I know of one.
I'll advise you open a special account in that regard now so that you won't make any bloody mistake. Good luck

Zeal0000007:

According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet

U want somebody's daughter to be doing abortions till u randomly get AA or AS... is okay ooooo.... if its ur sister or daughter..i know u wont support it

make una just do anyhow for this country

Hmmm......Genotype mismatch be dealing with some partners since time immemorial....

Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

Pls no matter the love, for the sake of the love you'll have for your unborn kids.... Do not try it!!!

Hope you wouldn't not start complaint in future cos this act will not allow you to plans for better things

Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

You should have asked the Doctor the possible cost of such procedure that's where you would have started with

Then you can compare it with your income

Alternatively, you guys will can adopt a child pending when you can afford the cost of that medical procedure including all expenses and drugs

Meanwhile enjoy your relationship till you find your way out

dawnomike:
Pls no matter the love, for the sake of the love you'll have for your unborn kids.... Do not try it!!!

did u read what he said? He isn’t not planning to birth as kids. He is taking the necessary precaution to avoid what you r thinking

frozen70:


You should have asked the Doctor the possible cost of such procedure that's where you would have started with

Then you can compare it with your income

Alternatively, you guys will an adopt a child pending when you can afford the cost of that medical procedure including all expenses and drugs

Meanwhile enjoy your relationship toll you find your way out

well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while .

Divoc19:
Every child has the right to life.
Foetus testing is good. I know of one.
I'll advise you open a special account in that regard now so that you won't make any bloody mistake. Good luck

thanks my dear for your advice

akube34:
did u read what he said? He isn’t not planning to birth as kids. He is taking the necessary precaution to avoid what you r thinking

In Nigeria, hospitals sometimes get one's genotype wrong, how much more that of a foetus?
Aside from the above, imagine the case of the 1st been SS ad got terminated, the second one also SS and terminated... Try to comprehend such trauma

Zeal0000007:
well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while .

For the fact that you are satisfied staying with her for the rest of your life

Pls follow your heart so that you will be satisfied for thr choice you made

In the issue of child bearing, you musnt go up to 4 children unless you love children

So now you are aware of the medical procedure that awaits you any time she is pregnant,

Start saving towards that from now and carry her along so that she too will contribute what she can

frozen70:


For the fact that you are satisfied staying with her for the rest of your life

Pls follow your heart so that you will be satisfied for thr choice you made

In the issue of child bearing, you musnt go up to 4 children unless you love children

So now you are aware of the medical procedure that awaits you any time she is pregnant,

Start saving towards that from now and carry her along so that she too will contribute what she can

thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, as soon as I do that there will be inflow of cash.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, u might even doubt her age because of her maturity. she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

dawnomike:
In Nigeria, hospitals sometimes get one's genotype wrong, how much more that of a foetus?
Aside from the above, imagine the case of the 1st been SS ad got terminated, the second one also SS and terminated... Try to comprehend such trauma

but prenatal testing isn’t the only option. Haven’t you heard of pgd? See, medicine done advance oooooo. Just make your research. If you have money, all dis As tin no go affect u. Na the poor e Dey affect.

Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm a sailor currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, the license program is a six months course we started January to finish by July and least any company can pay as soon as u get the license is 500k upward, it's as not really being easy coping cos currently u need to be in class without working, I have not.been working.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

You have a good plan for her, your marriage and your future

God will approve them for you

Ok

You are seeing fire, you have been warned but you have a believe in fire fighters, why dont you totally let go of the fire by preventing it.

Deep inside me, am not convinced if the lady will buy the idea of fetus genotyping and I hope you are away that feotal geotype detection can be a pain in the thorn let alone the results, so think about that.

E be like say una dey mad?
Why not avoid these needless stories and abortions by just leaving each other?
Which business two AS get together?

U better don't take any useless risk...leave your babe and look for AA

Do you have the financial capability? If not...

Mr op and his girlfriend, there is no good news in the counselling u got. Did he also tell u that it is a criminal offence for a medical personnel to purposefully terminate a pregnancy on the mere ground that the genotype of fetus is SS?
Moreso, all this love love go clear for your eyes if u get to have just one SS child, u will regret it, this is not a curse.
Moreso, do u realise u are about making a decision to incur burden on an innocent soul because the pain and rigor that seeming avoidable SS child will go through is because of u? U might spend the money, time but won't be the one to feel the recurring pain and disability that could span a lifetime.
Have a rethink op.
A word is enough for the wise.
Note - I'm a doctor working in Haematology department and my job is to manage sickle cell disease patients.

Please don't add foreseen problem into your life.

You better leave that girl and go and find someone else. If you be person wey get sense and wey no like wahala

Alright

Ok

Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm a sailor currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, the license program is a six months course we started January to finish by July and least any company can pay as soon as u get the license is 500k upward, it's as not really being easy coping cos currently u need to be in class without working, I have not.been working.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

Wonderful career path
If I was in your shoes I'd marry her

Egoat:
E be like say una dey mad?
Why not avoid these needless stories by just leaving each other?
Compatibility comes first.
You two are stupid if you had left what should come first for the last.

guy be calming down na😂

marry her and simply adopt children.... and you are forever with the love of your life.

dawnomike:
In Nigeria, hospitals sometimes get one's genotype wrong, how much more that of a foetus?
Aside from the above, imagine the case of the 1st been SS ad got terminated, the second one also SS and terminated... Try to comprehend such trauma

You are speaking to a cold hearted murderer under the guise of love

I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute.
My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her.
We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step.