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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ednut1(m): 4:14pm On Apr 02, 2023
If her womb gets damaged from multiple abortions. You will dump her
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by alizma: 4:14pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences
I will be crude as possible, the only advise you need is to quit that relationship, there is nothing good for both of you in that journey. You can be best of friends. Not all relationship most lead to marriage. Go your way and let her do the same. You guys will be happy in future knowing you once had something in common but had to go separate ways do to circumstance beyond your control.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ibkenny2(m): 4:15pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while .
My friend my since advice for you is to look for what is right from onset. Foetus screening is not something you can just be doing at intervals. What are the chances of your wife safety during abortion. It's better for you to do the right thing now. Don't marry because of feeling, pity but for yourself and your family. Look forward for right partner. Sickle cell is not easy to manage. Remembered El- rufai governor of Kaduna state he said is the only one in their family that reached the age of 45years. All the others siblings died before thst 45 years because they are sickler.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Niyonice(m): 4:15pm On Apr 02, 2023
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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by folake4u(f): 4:16pm On Apr 02, 2023
If you nor get money to do the foetus testing or raising SS children, nor put body.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by pikechukwu6(m): 4:17pm On Apr 02, 2023
who the cap fit let them wear it grin grin grin No adviser here. You better use your head. no come bring being Childless talk in future
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by folake4u(f): 4:17pm On Apr 02, 2023
ednut1:
If her womb gets damaged from multiple abortions. You will dump her

So accurate!!!
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Vitalist(m): 4:18pm On Apr 02, 2023
If the couple is lucky, when the concieve their babies may be AA and AS genotypes and the not require termination of pregnacy.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by grandstar(m): 4:19pm On Apr 02, 2023
advanceDNA:

U want somebody's daughter to be doing abortions till u randomly get AA or AS... is okay ooooo.... if its ur sister or daughter..i know u wont support it

make una just do anyhow for this country

I too don't support abortion. I can't decide for him. Wish him the best
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by iFESTAC680(m): 4:19pm On Apr 02, 2023
Your write up and contributions shows you already made up your mind

So congratulations sir!!
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by xtocom: 4:20pm On Apr 02, 2023
Normal normal to bang your wife go the fear you, this is a good time for you to leave though it pains, my daughter is 5 now but we both agreed to find our separate ways. During pregnancy, I was desperate to know my baby's geno, as the man told me that the test was around 250k them (when this was normal) that the sample will be sent outside, now so I kuku come relaxed.......As for me, After Babe
what is name, the next thing is what is ur Genotype.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 02, 2023
Their first two kids might not be SS
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by mercyland93(m): 4:22pm On Apr 02, 2023
What's the wahaala gaan. Guy, try to prevent urself from the suspected problem that could emanates in future.
Pls, look for AA lady to ensure compability for ur sake and the generation yet unborn.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by lotkyes200: 4:22pm On Apr 02, 2023
From what you said you have not starting working yet my brother be calm down ooo first get the Job and secondly this thing the Doctor told you is not as easy as it sound. Wish you good luck thou

But i tell you the pain of having a child with SS is not something you wish an enemy self because u will hate the word love.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Nonywendy(m): 4:24pm On Apr 02, 2023
lebron7:

Wonderful career path
If I was in your shoes I'd marry her
What is wonderful about chemist she is learning? First she is 18yrs and the love he and peace he thinks he is experiencing now might be temporary, secondly why not she gain admission and study pharmacy instead of learning chemist work.

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by adexmuhyi(m): 4:25pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences
if truly the love you have for her is pure and great then let her go, you can decide to have many wives in future but she having two husbands will be a thing of partial shame or traumatizing, imagine you abort the first, second, third and fourth. This is pure gambling all in the name of love, LET HER GO
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by jaxxy(m): 4:25pm On Apr 02, 2023
girl is only 18 and u are already thinking of marriage?
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ogbuebo(m): 4:25pm On Apr 02, 2023
My wife and I are both AS and we have three children (one AA and two AS). It was a very hard decision and we didn't exhale until the genotype result of the last child came in. We married young and I am convinced our ages played a part in making us gather the liver to do something that risky. I'll not advise another to do that, ours was exceptional good luck. lipsrsealed

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by DMerciful(m): 4:27pm On Apr 02, 2023
1/4=25%, it doesn't mean 1 out of 4 children but a probability of 1 out of 4 possible outcomes. You really need the calibration
advanceDNA:


Calibrate me?? Lol....guy...Try not to sound condescending because u want to pass a point to someone u dont know....

U are mentioning 1/4 probability but u have no knowlege of how the body makes its gene selection outcome during embryogenesis...

..in reality, the 1/4 probability used in secondary school biology is rightly stated as 25% probability..... because humans can birth more than 4 children at once or at different birthing cycles........whats worse is that the body can choose out of the probability pool of 25 AA, 50 AS and 25 SS whenever it wants cos embryogenesis is on autopilot...

So ....two AS couples can have 3 children and they can all be AS, SS, or AA... they can also be mixed..

.news flash... my aunts 3 children are all SS...


Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Emmyson99(m): 4:27pm On Apr 02, 2023
Pls I beg you in name of God, desist from the plan you want take.since your genotype won't work pls face your life, they are so many loves out there. I don't want tomorrow you will be saying Had I know.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Naruto87(m): 4:27pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

I was faced with the same issue.. for the sake of your unborn children and your girlfriend's health just end the relationship.. I know the feeling very well but don't do it.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by franchasofficia: 4:28pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences
If you have the money yes what the Doctor told you is true, a brother is in it and money saved them.



So if you have the financial muscle and emotional determination to do as the specialist told you then both of you can go ahead and marry, if not abort the mission now.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by onome2013: 4:29pm On Apr 02, 2023
The mental torture this decision will lead you to, will be regrettable in all the days of the relationship. If you both love each other and you love your unborn children, then drop that dangerous deadly plan of As +AS
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by sexuential: 4:31pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we terminate,

Now, ask the medical personnel of the financial implications as well as the emotional trauma the lady would face over numerous pregnancy terminations. Also, consider the tendency of an error that results to the birthing of a SS child.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Snitch24(m): 4:32pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zico5:
I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute.
My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her.
We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step.

This is the best reply so far
The rest are far from being sensible

It amaze me how alot of people think on this platform
I surpose we are literate
It appears we don't make a proper use of our access to the internet
We jst listen to leyman pont if view and jump into conclusion
This situation is one of the most a man can ever Face in his life time
As for the OP actually in the same shoe with you
I'm trying everything possible to make sure whatever ever decision I make we should not be married and living in Nigeria

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by damilarelr(m): 4:33pm On Apr 02, 2023
Seems like the script of THE BRIDGE (Yoruba movie).

The couples went against everybody's advice and got married - because they are dunk in love for each other. They did lots of genotype testing for the fetuses, and they kept aborting each time. The woman was taking it in until one day, she got tired of life and the whole abortion trauma. As fate would have it, they were lucky to get an AS at their 5th attempt or so. The woman, being a career woman, she was working from home and out of tiredness, she accidentally suffocated the baby at 2 months or so. All hell broke loss.....

Well, as for OP, I don't wish you eveik but if you can do away with getting married, for the sake of your conscience and extended family (in-laws inclusive), you need to let go. Go and find another lady. But if you insist, you can try getting either egg/sperm donor for yourself/wife (from an AA donor of course) then followed by IVF to transfer the developing baby into your wife's womb each time you want to have a baby. It sounds crazy though and it will cost you lots of money - I believe your love is worth more.

Ire ò.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ChybuzzDD(m): 4:33pm On Apr 02, 2023
DMerciful:
The probability of getting a sickler is 1/4, just to calibrate you. However, he should have broken the relationship before it started by asking the right questions

That 1/4 or 25% is for each pregnancy, not the entire lifetime pregnancies.

There's a possibility of each of her pregnancies yielding an SS foetus.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by INDOMIE9090(f): 4:35pm On Apr 02, 2023
excel101:
[/b]What about if a situation where the first 10 babies is SS[b], you'll terminate abi.....you guys should better separate now before it's too late.
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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by SMARTMOTORS(m): 4:36pm On Apr 02, 2023
No mind the fools!....if I meet a girl and I wish to take it serious with her, one of the major questions I do ask is her Genotype! I don't play with it! And not n of my children will ever play with such!...... infact it's a sin! And total act of wickedness to even go on with such thing, I can even label such person as a murderer! Nonsense!!!!!
Lastpharoah33:



The thing tire me o, person go just bring suffering for himself and children just because of some thingy emotion branded love.

This reminded of one big name in patent medicine production and retail at headbridge,osha. I won't mention any names, but this man had a son that happens to be a sickler.

I know how much he spends on this boy of about 24 on monthly basis in terms of drugs, therapy.

Long story short, that boy died shortly after marking his 25yrs of age.


Agreeing to be a serial murderer of souls you can't create?


You think it's love?,
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by xtocom: 4:36pm On Apr 02, 2023
[quote author=AbdulMagaji post=122244585]Their first two kids might not be SS[w/quote]


Forget that story, no one know which.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ogbuebo(m): 4:37pm On Apr 02, 2023
ogbuebo:
My wife and I are both AS and we have three children (one AA and two AS). It was a very hard decision and we didn't exhale until the genotype result of the last child came in. We married young and I am convinced our ages played a part in making us gather the liver to do something that risky. I'll not advise another to do that, ours was exceptional good luck. lipsrsealed
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by DMerciful(m): 4:38pm On Apr 02, 2023
1/4 or 25% is ofcourse each of the pregnancy, its based on the chance of one event happening. Its a simple sturv cheesy
ChybuzzDD:


That 1/4 or 25% is for each pregnancy, not the entire lifetime pregnancies.

There's a possibility of each of her pregnancies yielding an SS foetus.

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