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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by cpu2006(m): 3:47pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm a sailor currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, the license program is a six months course we started January to finish by July and least any company can pay as soon as u get the license is 500k upward, it's as not really being easy coping cos currently u need to be in class without working, I have not.been working.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

You can also send her to school. School & Chemist will help you guys alot.
But, as for AS AS , am not an expert. Pls, consult widelly, to avoid the mistake that you may regret throughout your life.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Thegamingorca(m): 3:48pm On Apr 02, 2023
akube34:
you funny. People do abortion for other nonsense reasons. Then I’d love is the reason, then it’s a good reason. You know how many people Dey do abortion cus say dem get belle by mistake?


Killers and murderers have innumerable reasons for doing what they do, that is why in law, for you to be a convicted murderer there has to be prove that their was the 1. premeditation of the crime in this case, planning to abort if the baby is SS aka actus reus and 2. the actual act of aborting also called mens rea
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Deicide: 3:48pm On Apr 02, 2023
Divoc19:
Every child has the right to life.
Foetus testing is good. I know of one.
I'll advise you open a special account in that regard now so that you won't make any bloody mistake. Good luck
How many times in your entire life have you gone to motherless baby home and give them something there? Make a donation?

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by heykims(m): 3:49pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zico5:
I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute.
My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her.
We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step.
Because u are fortunate u didn't birth a sickle cell child does not mean u should mislead others.

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by zezebabs: 3:50pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

BREAK UP, IT'S HARD BUT IT'S THE SOLUTION, when i was in Secondary school, my class meat was SS, i saw it first hand, it's not worth it to be selffish

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Greggdekor007: 3:51pm On Apr 02, 2023
If you want to take the chance and you truly want to be in this relationship, make sure you have enough money to go for IVF-PGD where the foetus Genotype is screened after IVF. With this, the genotype is checked and the right one is transferred into the woman (can even be surrogate too).

This cost a lot of money, psychological demands, and is stressful for the woman at times, but it completely takes you way out of the trouble.

Even celebrity and rich people don't allow their wives to carry pregnancy nowadays, C-Ronaldo used surrogacy for his child. Mind you, it comes at a cost. If you have the money and you and your partner have a better understanding and knowledge about the challenges, why not if there is love.

Aside from that, the rest is a risk you are taking and the consequence might be too much to bear.

Please avoid ever trying to conceive naturally as it can turn out to be anything (dont try God).
Only science can help with the help of God too.

If not Flee now and enjoy peace later

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Discountsempai: 3:52pm On Apr 02, 2023
advanceDNA:

U want somebody's daughter to be doing abortions till u randomly get AA or AS... is okay ooooo.... if its ur sister or daughter..i know u wont support it

make una just do anyhow for this country

If I understand the guy, they would probably do IVF, and the fetus would be tested before implantation. If it is SS, it won't be implanted.

(Of course, there is the issue that IVF does not always work first time out, but that is another story)
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by smilekid(m): 3:52pm On Apr 02, 2023
Broke up with my partner last month too cuz we were both AS, it was really sad and a tough decision for me to make cuz I really love this girl.

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by attacker321: 3:52pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while .

Think very well. How would you feel aborting ang killing your unborn children? I advise you to call off the relationship. It will hurt a lot but you both will get over it. There are many ladies out there you can marry and vice versa. End it
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Blake755: 3:54pm On Apr 02, 2023
akube34:
but prenatal testing isn’t the only option. Haven’t you heard of pgd? See, medicine done advance oooooo. Just make your research. If you have money, all dis As tin no go affect u. Na the poor e Dey affect.
Please what is pdg I would love to know more about it
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by cpu2006(m): 3:55pm On Apr 02, 2023
Yourprick:
U better don't take any useless risk...leave your babe and look for AA

FIRST step in a relationship is COMPATIBILITY. Before you develop feeling for him or her, first know his or her genotype

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by funkmrflexx(m): 3:56pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

I and my wife are both AS and we have been married for a year now, we already made an appointment with a specialist clinic for foetus testing.
My advice is that you can go ahead if you have the financial capability. Gone are those days when there are no solutions to genotype issues in marriage

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by cpu2006(m): 3:58pm On Apr 02, 2023
smilekid:
Broke up with my partner last month too cuz we were both AS, it was really sad and a tough decision for me to make cuz I really love this girl.

It always sad bcs you failed to do the needful in time.
Hope you have learn the leason now
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by cpu2006(m): 3:59pm On Apr 02, 2023
funkmrflexx:


I and my wife are both AS and we have been married for a year now, we already made an appointment with a specialist clinic for foetus testing.
My advice is that you can go ahead if you have the financial capability. Gone are those days when there are no solutions to genotype issues in marriage
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Aparche(f): 4:01pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences


On one hand you see her as a God sent, on the other hand you are considering aborting any foetus that is SS, and you're not bothered that it's murder - a grievous sin against God.

So you're interested in God's blessing, but you're not interested in obeying Him?

Anyway... are you really sure she's God's will for you, 'cos the blessing of God does not add sorrow.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by bixton(m): 4:02pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences


If the bolded is true.....then put your faith in God and you don't have to depend on any technically medical advancement...
God is way better than any technically medical advancement.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by 1Sharon(f): 4:02pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm a sailor currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, the license program is a six months course we started January to finish by July and least any company can pay as soon as u get the license is 500k upward, it's as not really being easy coping cos currently u need to be in class without working, I have not.been working.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

Don't listen to all these religious hypocrites. You're bold and brave.

Aside termination. There is pre implantation genetic diagnosis. Almost like ivf. The fetuses that don't have ss will be selected and implanted back into your fiancé's uterus.

Can you commit to it though?

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by chiboycue: 4:03pm On Apr 02, 2023
abobote:

Tell them the truth, and stop sugar coating

I have told them the truth from my own perspective. Please share your truth so I can learn as well.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by damosade(m): 4:06pm On Apr 02, 2023
Please abort the mission of getting married. I am a sickle cell anaemia patient. You want me to tell you the full details? You will rather not ..

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Dickcap: 4:08pm On Apr 02, 2023
dawnomike:
Pls no matter the love, for the sake of the love you'll have for your unborn kids.... Do not try it!!!

Prophet of doom, calm down
They have made up dre mind already
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Onyi22(f): 4:10pm On Apr 02, 2023
@op see you, see 'Had I know ' cheesy grin
If Love I'd blind,Marriage go open your eyes cheesy
You are a mumu man
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Lastpharoah33: 4:10pm On Apr 02, 2023
SMARTMOTORS:
Please stop the foolishness and terminate such nonsense!.... Na so people go foolishly and purposely bring souls on earth to suffer for nothing!... NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!


The thing tire me o, person go just bring suffering for himself and children just because of some thingy emotion branded love.

This reminded of one big name in patent medicine production and retail at headbridge,osha. I won't mention any names, but this man had a son that happens to be a sickler.

I know how much he spends on this boy of about 24 on monthly basis in terms of drugs, therapy.

Long story short, that boy died shortly after marking his 25yrs of age.


Agreeing to be a serial murderer of souls you can't create?


You think it's love?,
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Megabig: 4:11pm On Apr 02, 2023
Thegamingorca:



You are speaking to a cold hearted murderer under the guise of love

E de mind them?
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by advanceDNA: 4:11pm On Apr 02, 2023
DMerciful:
The probability of getting a sickler is 1/4, just to calibrate you. However, he should have broken the relationship before it started by asking the right questions

Calibrate me?? Lol....guy...Try not to sound condescending because u want to pass a point to someone u dont know....

U are mentioning 1/4 probability but u have no knowlege of how the body makes its gene selection outcome during embryogenesis...

..in reality, the 1/4 probability used in secondary school biology is rightly stated as 25% probability..... because humans can birth more than 4 children at once or at different birthing cycles........whats worse is that the body can choose out of the probability pool of 25 AA, 50 AS and 25 SS whenever it wants cos embryogenesis is on autopilot...

So ....two AS couples can have 3 children and they can all be AS, SS, or AA... they can also be mixed..

.news flash... my aunts 3 children are all SS...

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by donrexhibites(m): 4:11pm On Apr 02, 2023
It doesn't matter how rich you are.
If you're unfortunate and keep getting SS, at some point your partner will be fed up with the constant probing and abortions.
I had a friend who aborted 4x because of SS, eventually settled to have one go to term, but lost the child after 6 yrs.
There are therapies the child could get also, but I'm sure he/she will spend their life cursing you.
Clear your head, it's generally not worth it.
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by okpurukata(f): 4:12pm On Apr 02, 2023
My dear poster. Please STOP STOP STOP. Stop and exit that relationship now. I and my partner are AS. We didn't even know because I had an AA result from a lab long before marriage. My second son out of three was SS. The boy and the entire family went through hell. Life was from one hospital to the other. My son loved life and was ready to play hard anytime the opportunity came. He was so intelligent, so loved because he was sociable. I lost him last year at almost 15yrs. The pain is indescribable. I do not wish this on my enemy. Please there is no need to challenge nature/God and begin all the prayers and fasting for nothing. No child deserves to go through that pain.

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Vitalist(m): 4:12pm On Apr 02, 2023
advanceDNA:

U want somebody's daughter to be doing abortions till u randomly get AA or AS... is okay ooooo.... if its ur sister or daughter..i know u wont support it

make una just do anyhow for this country
This is a foolish comment. Termination of pregnancy for medical reasons is allowed worldwide. Its saves the unborn child from life long health challenges and low quality of life. The mother and father are also saved from the emotional and financial challenges of bringing a child to hospital every other day.
Somebody's daughter will not be doing abortion by her self. It will be done by specialist doctors and it is very safe.

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by pagimo: 4:14pm On Apr 02, 2023
Bro, I must be honest with you. I don't see anything wrong marrying someone with the same Genotype as u. Technology has made things easy. If you can afford the test whenever she is pregnant, then you are good to proceed with the marriage.
After all, during the time of our ancestors, there was nothing like that.

You can go for pgm testing

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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Megabig: 4:14pm On Apr 02, 2023
Zico5:
I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute.
My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her.
We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step.

This one is called bet9ja kids, congrats on being lucky

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