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How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Ebelelivinston: 9:31am On Apr 02, 2023
I got married to my virgin wife two years ago and she gave birth last year December which means my daughter is for months old now
Myself and my wife aren't staying in the same state, though I opened a shop for her where she's residing.Am the type that is addicted to checking my wife's phone each time I visit her.So,one day that I visited her, as usual,I went to her phone and saw a love chat on her Whatsapp with one man, like usual ,I asked her about the chat she told me everything between she and the guy.
The guy is her neighbor but he is not residing at the place where my wife is but that's the family house and he comes back every weekend.He has been disturbing my wife who is holding a baby for sex.We decided to set him up and I told my wife to invite him yesterday when he isn't aware that I'm around.Finally,he came and I caught him red-handed,but instead of attacking him,I decided to advise him.He was thankful I didn't disgrace him.My fellow nairalnders,did I act weak or right?

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by ArcFresky(m): 9:35am On Apr 02, 2023
No, you are strong.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Nobody: 9:36am On Apr 02, 2023
This thread is going to be a very long one! grin grin grin

Man defending his home, something alien to most boys here grin grin

Op wait for it!

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Pathfinder2090: 9:39am On Apr 02, 2023
Na Man u b

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Ted4real: 9:42am On Apr 02, 2023
The same guy you didn't attack will come back to taste the bowl he didn't get yesterday.

Wait for it as your wife will not tell you.

Some married virgins often than not explore outside their matrimonial homes to balance the equation of what they will have done before marriage.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Rokiat(f): 9:44am On Apr 02, 2023
Who’s gonna tell him? grin grin grin grin grin cheesy

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Bluezy13(m): 9:46am On Apr 02, 2023
You did well.
But some things are not straight and I will not question the lacuna so as not to demoralize your already fulfilled and happy mood. Perhaps others will ask those questions.

Only with your permission Will I point them out. And I hope in the nearest future, the monkey's hand does not become a human hand inside the pot of soup because it was overlooked.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by IbrahimSkiba(f): 9:46am On Apr 02, 2023
LOL

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by obinna58(m): 9:48am On Apr 02, 2023
What’s the essence of the organized plan when you know you don’t have boldness to execute it’s consequences


Why waste your time instead of telling your wife to block all access to him and stay away

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by BigYash: 9:53am On Apr 02, 2023
Hmmmm. You’re not weak sha .. but why will your wife be chatting with him to that extent of asking for sex? You even said it was love chat...Advice your wife o,cux I see no reason of giving him that space to be suggesting sex. She might give a bad player that opportunity next time,before you know them don chop her clean mouth o.. She will only come back to tell you,she didn’t know how it happened.. Some men bad for romance and seduction o.. Your wife should be careful and you need to up your game. Cux as she don know say u dey check her phone now,she go up her game too,god forbids devil enters her..

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Zonefree(m): 9:56am On Apr 02, 2023
So,one day that I visited her, as usual,I went to her phone and saw a love chat on her Whatsapp with one man

Why would a married woman be responding to a love chat from another man? The truth is, the man will still lash your wife since your wife is already into him.

Remember, she didn't tell you about the man until you searched through her phone. No matter how you try, you cannot curtail a promiscuous woman. They will lash, and you'll not know.


Shalom.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by gbadexy(m): 9:59am On Apr 02, 2023
Ted4real:
The same guy you didn't attack will come back to taste the bowl her didn't get yesterday.

Wait for it as your wife will not tell you.

Some married virgins often than not explore outside their matrimonial homes to balance the equation of what they will have done before marriage.
You based assumption on what premise.
Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by gbadexy(m): 10:00am On Apr 02, 2023
BigYash:
Hmmmm. You’re not weak sha .. but why will your wife be chatting with him to that extent of asking for sex? You even said it was love chat...Advice your wife o,cux I see no reason of giving him that space to be suggesting sex. She might give a bad player that opportunity next time,before you know them don chop her clean mouth o.. She will only come back to tell you,she didn’t know how it happened.. Some men bad for romance and seduction o.. Your wife should be careful and you need to up your game. Cux as she don know say u dey check her phone now,she go up her game too,god forbids devil enters her..
Why did she give a guy her number and exchange chats with him. Did she honestly believe they would be discussing politics and religion.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Yugoslavia247(m): 10:02am On Apr 02, 2023
Na man you be.

Now your wife will find it easier to open up to you in the future because she can trust.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by BigYash: 10:02am On Apr 02, 2023
gbadexy:

Why did she give a guy her number and exchange chats with him. Did she honestly believe they would be discussing politics and religion.
My Brother,the wife no clear.. She was almost falling or she fell already sef..

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Zonefree(m): 10:03am On Apr 02, 2023
Bluezy13:
You did well.
But some things are not straight and I will not question the lacuna so as not to demoralize your already fulfilled and happy mood.

Only with your permission Will I point them out. And I hope in the nearest future, the monkey's hand does not become a human hand inside the pot of soup because it was overlooked.
We're adults here. Be blunt and tell him the truth, he may be hurt, but, it's better he's aware of what will play at his back.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by gbadexy(m): 10:07am On Apr 02, 2023
BigYash:
My Brother,the wife no clear.. She was almost falling or she fell already sef..
She would be more careful next time. Me thinks she is bored and lonely. The husband should stay in the same place as the wife to "reduce" encroachment if the wife doesn't wish it.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Zonefree(m): 10:08am On Apr 02, 2023
Persephone1:
This thread is going to be a very long one! grin grin grin

Man defending his home, something alien to most boys here grin grin

Op wait for it!
Ari, a man cannot defend a home anchored with a promiscuous woman. The man of the house is in the dark. He fails to understand that his beloved wife's eyes are still outside the reason she's engaging with a love chat with another man.

A virtuous and loyal wife suppose block and delete the man the moment he starts engaging with love chats and also inform her husband.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by greenermodels: 10:09am On Apr 02, 2023
Ebelelivinston:
I got married to my virgin wife two years ago and she gave birth last year December which means my daughter is for months old now
Myself and my wife aren't staying in the same state, though I opened a shop for her where she's residing.Am the type that is addicted to checking my wife's phone each time I visit her.So,one day that I visited her, as usual,I went to her phone and saw a love chat on her Whatsapp with one man, like usual ,I asked her about the chat she told me everything between she and the guy.
The guy is her neighbor but he is not residing at the place where my wife is but that's the family house and he comes back every weekend.He has been disturbing my wife who is holding a baby for sex.We decided to set him up and I told my wife to invite him yesterday when he isn't aware that I'm around.Finally,he came and I caught him red-handed,but instead of attacking him,I decided to advise him.He was thankful I didn't disgrace him.My fellow nairalnders,did I act weak or right?
OGA, your problem is with your wife not the man and you're yet to solve that problem, why would she engage in such a chat with the man and didn't even bother to inform you of her landlord's sex demands from her? Your problem is bigger than you realise. The stupid man should have been arrested and charged to court,the Nigerian police always ready made charges for such people starting with 'engaging in action capable of breaching public peace'.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Nawttiboi007(m): 10:10am On Apr 02, 2023
This life wey we Dey so ehn very very deep... maybe u shud have made it open by reporting him just for future reference.. what if he eventually hypnotize ur wife and have his way without ur knowledge... omo life deep o

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by busybay: 10:10am On Apr 02, 2023
You for scatter the man head....you no try. Can you imagine he came to your house?

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by SenecaTheYonger: 10:13am On Apr 02, 2023
Ebelelivinston:
I got married to my virgin wife two years ago and she gave birth last year December which means my daughter is for months old now
Myself and my wife aren't staying in the same state, though I opened a shop for her where she's residing.Am the type that is addicted to checking my wife's phone each time I visit her.So,one day that I visited her, as usual,I went to her phone and saw a love chat on her Whatsapp with one man, like usual ,I asked her about the chat she told me everything between she and the guy.
The guy is her neighbor but he is not residing at the place where my wife is but that's the family house and he comes back every weekend.He has been disturbing my wife who is holding a baby for sex.We decided to set him up and I told my wife to invite him yesterday when he isn't aware that I'm around.Finally,he came and I caught him red-handed,but instead of attacking him,I decided to advise him.He was thankful I didn't disgrace him.My fellow nairalnders,did I act weak or right?

First I must applaud your wife for allowing you check her phone regularly, it truly shows she has nothing to hide.

Nigerian Girls don’t usually allow that

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by BigYash: 10:15am On Apr 02, 2023
gbadexy:

She would be more careful next time. Me thinks she is bored and lonely. The husband should stay in the same place as the wife to "reduce" encroachment if the wife doesn't wish it.
Yes,she is still a young woman and she needs her husband around.. Loneliness and boredom can make her fall easily.. So the ball is in op’s court.. Carry your wife follow body ,before another man start use am art Porn o

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 02, 2023
Zonefree:

Ari, a man cannot defend a home anchored with a promiscuous woman. The man of the house is in the dark. He fails to understand that his beloved wife's eyes are still outside the reason she's engaging with a love chat with another man.

A virtuous and loyal wife suppose block and delete the man the moment he starts engaging with love chats and also inform her husband.
You are right on this. Why were they chatting in the first place, so tey e reach to Dy ask for sex from her. Hmmm na WA ooo

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by SenecaTheYonger: 10:18am On Apr 02, 2023
Most people here saying that she shouldn’t have replied are people that take social media screenshot as real fact.

An example is the image below, probably written by some masturbator but people with one-brain cell will read it and take it as fact just because Future’s face is on it.

There are many truths in this word, one truth cannot apply to 3 billion women. Engaging the guy in a chat doesn’t mean her mind is there. And it’s not every chat that leads to sex, unless you’re saying you’ve fvcked every woman you chat with.

Please guys start thinking for yourselves, don’t allow whatsapp screenshots to think for you.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by brain54(m): 10:21am On Apr 02, 2023
Nice strategy/approach…


You handled the situation calmly and mature enough. The man is likely to stay away from your wife. No be everything be gra gra.

But some men are useless. Why chase a woman who is 1. Married and 2 even nursing a four month old baby?

Reminds me of a school principal who was pestering a pregnant ( pronounced pregnancy o) corper for sex in the school I served.

Seems when it comes to sex some people’s brain shut down. He even go person house because he wan poke person wife. See risk.

Na wah!

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Nobody: 11:00am On Apr 02, 2023
Zonefree:

Ari, a man cannot defend a home anchored with a promiscuous woman. The man of the house is in the dark. He fails to understand that his beloved wife's eyes are still outside the reason she's engaging with a love chat with another man.

A virtuous and loyal wife suppose block and delete the man the moment he starts engaging with love chats and also inform her husband.
Her eyes are not outside, she was a young firrgin probably 22 when she got married,according to you guys, firrgin don't cheat, they are saints who are worthy of marriage. How can her eyes be outside? Huh?

A virtuous and loyal wife suppose play hide and seek with him husband's brain. It's being smart, something Nigerian girls lack. I bet Op wife must be from somalia grin grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Zonefree(m): 11:08am On Apr 02, 2023
Persephone1:
Her eyes are not outside, she was a young firrgin probably 22 when she got married,according to you guys, firrgin don't cheat, they are saints who are worthy of marriage. How can her eyes be outside? Huh?

A virtuous and loyal wife suppose play hide and seek with him husband's brain. It's being smart, something Nigerian girls lack. I bet Op wife must be from somalia grin grin cheesy grin cheesy grin
Dey go abeg cheesy

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Nobody: 11:12am On Apr 02, 2023
Zonefree:

Dey go abeg cheesy
😂
Na wetin una dey type for here I echo o. I no do bad. 🤷

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by superCleanworks(m): 11:17am On Apr 02, 2023
i wonder what the look on his face was like.

that guy was steeeeewpid. going to a woman's house not to talk of a married woman.

Your wife only agreed to the plan to victimize the guy because you caught her so she had no option than to play along. SHE IS NOT INNOCENT

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by MasterJayJay: 11:19am On Apr 02, 2023
Ebelelivinston:
Mate her during our 100l at university of Jos,then,she provided me with all I wanted but never allowed me had sex with her.She had money then simple because she was dating a very rich sugar daddy.While we entered final year, though I never trusted her because I already admitted she was sugar daddy girl,I found out she was a virgin, after everything,I took her virginity, she's pregnant for me and I want her to claim is her sugar daddy so that I could get work because am about to finish my service year,but she's refusing.What do I do people?

You guys are wasting your time advising the clown.
Learn to check previous topics of some people before dropping comments. Cos some people ehhh.

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Re: How I Handled A Man After My Wife by Samuelnze(m): 11:23am On Apr 02, 2023
You caught an animal in your trap and let it go?.
you should have taught him the greatest lesson of him stupid life but no you chose to advice someone who is hell bent in seeing what is under your woman's skirt.. You should have reported him to the police or brought him to my area make boys fracture his di*ck.. Ain't you gonna leave you wife all alone again? He is gonna come again and this time he might rape her or she gives something to him wholeheartedly..

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