(1). Spending my entire life with just one woman. (2). What if i end up with a nagging woman? (3). Marrying the wrong lady. (4). Getting married to a stingy lady, as most ladies are naturaly stingy.
Are u also afraid of getting married? Tell me the reason why.

I tell myself the exact same thing sometimes. Marriage is pointless, the only reason most people get married is for procreation.

She might not let me roll my rizzla in peace

OP,

Any Nigerian Girl must have a FLAW.

Either
*Too Lazy
*Can't cook well
*Talks too much
*Addicted to BBN and Telemundo
*Addicted to Tonto Dike, Chioma Davido, and social media gossips
* Has wide Pxssy, etc.

So, you must learn to Overlook.

burp18:
I tell myself the exact same thing sometimes. Marriage is pointless, the only reason most people get married is for procreation.

When i see how wayward most married pple are this days i ask myself what profit we derive in even venturing into marriage in the first place. One day a choir girl told me that sometimes she's afraid of getting married because she can't imagine herself fucking one dick her entire life.

SyrusdeHansome:
When i see how wayward most married pple are this days i ask myself what profit we derive in even venturing into marriage in the first place. One day a choir girl told me that sometimes she's afraid of getting married because she can't imagine herself fucking one dick her entire life.

This and even more. Alot of couples who are married today were better of when they were dating. People gr married and automatically lose interest for one another. They no longer put that effort and go that extra mile they'd have done when they were dating. Commitment is a waste of time. It's why you see men getting better treatment from girlfriends than from their wives.

VinnyBaba:


OP,

Any Nigerian Girl must have a FLAW.

Either
*Too Lazy
*Can't cook well
*Talks too much
*Addicted to BBN and Telemundo
*Addicted to Tonto Dike, Chioma Davido, and social media gossips
* Has wide Pxssy, etc.

So, you must learn to Overlook.

No girl anywhere is perfect. Just like we have bad Nigerian girls we also have bad European, American nd Asian girls. The question is will we be lucky enof to meet the good ones 4 marriage?

You reason like a baby.

Please grow up.

SyrusdeHansome:
(1). Spending my entire life with just one woman.
(2). What if i end up with a nagging woman?
(3). Marrying the wrong lady.
(4). Getting married to a stingy lady, as most ladies are naturaly stingy.

Are u also afraid of getting married? Tell me the reason why.

burp18:
This and even more. Alot of couples who are married today were better of when they were dating. People gr married and automatically lose interest for one another. They no longer put that effort and go that extra mile they'd have done when they were dating. Commitment is a waste of time. It's why you see men getting better treatment from girlfriends than from their wives.

U're right. 2b serious once a girl accepts 2b mine i start losing interest even without sex. This has always been my problem nd it's not as if i like it. I easily frndzone girls once i bcom too farmiliar

imagrg:
You reason like a baby.

Please grow up.

Once u grow up i bliv i'll grow up too.

SyrusdeHansome:
U're right. 2b serious once a girl accepts 2b mine i start losing interest even without sex. This has always been my problem nd it's not as if i like it. I easily frndzone girls once i bcom too farmiliar

it's common with our girls here. Alot of them don't even know what a relationship entails. Most of the get into relationship for money and sex. It's why if you ask most of them why they're in the relationship they're in, they do not know. No plans, no long-term goals. They're jus worth committing to.

1: I know how to cook and I know how to do my laundry , i sabi clean up the house small sef ( so it's not a problem )

I won't get fully emotionally attached to her

The day she cheats is the day we end it ( even the bible supports this )

I'll have another apartment where I'll go to relax alone for a week or 2 occasionally since I'm very introverted

I'll ignore her nags and rants or better still use my airpods /buds ...

Na my own system of coping with marriage ( If I ever ever get married sha ) ...

Have a system of coping bro and forget those fears

Autobot05:
1: I know how to cook and I know how to do my laundry , i sabi clean up the house small sef ( so it's not a problem )

I won't get fully emotionally attached to her

The day she cheats is the day we end it ( even the bible supports this )

I'll have another apartment where I'll go to relax alone for a week or 2 occasionally since I'm very introverted

I'll ignore her nags and rants or better still use my airpods /buds ...

Na my own system of coping with marriage ( If I ever ever get married sha ) ...

Have a system of coping bro and forget those fears

It's all good but not that easy

You need love map.

Relationship is not actually like before as it's now about materials things but there are still decent ladies out there

SyrusdeHansome:
It's all good but not that easy

The key to all this is NEVER GETTING EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO HER . Once you take that , you have conquered .
Play your husband role well tho

Autobot05:


The key to all this is NEVER GETTING EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO HER . Once you take that , you have conquered .
Play your husband role well tho

The truth is the ladies are not that hard to get. Ladies need a guy who is attentive, ready to listen.

Monogamy:


The truth is the ladies are not that hard to get. Ladies need a guy who is attentive, ready to listen.

We are not talking about getting ladies... ladies are the cheapest commodity these days.
Ready to listen to what exactly?? What color of nails will fit or what type of wig they'll buy next??

Autobot05:


We are not talking about getting ladies... ladies are the cheapest commodity these days.
Ready to listen to what exactly?? What color of nails will fit or what type of wig they'll buy next??

I am not referring to materials girls but the decent amongst them.

Relationship is not a job opportunity, a responsible lady should be able to take care of her bills

burp18:
it's common with our girls here. Alot of them don't even know what a relationship entails. Most of the get into relationship for money and sex. It's why if you ask most of them why they're in the relationship they're in, they do not know. No plans, no long-term goals. They're jus worth committing to.

From my observation i bliv African girls are even more committed in relationships than western girls. We think our girls go into relationships for material gains but the truth is that everyone irrespective of gender loves comfort so sometimes i don't blame them. Western girls are independent because their governments have given everyone the enabling environment to thrive. Every gender works nd make money over there that's why we think they're dfrnt. Bring them to Africa nd give them the same conditions our girls are exposed to nd see if they won't be worse.

Monogamy:


I am not referring to materials girls but the decent amongst them.

Relationship is not a job opportunity, a responsible lady should be able to take care of her bills

How many of them are decent these days
How many can pay their Bills ?
Bro make we leave this matter jare. Make person no dey expect too much from women simple and short ..

Since all of them don "woke" .

SyrusdeHansome:
From my observation i bliv African girls are even more committed in relationships than western girls. We think our girls go into relationships for material gains but the truth is that everyone irrespective of gender loves comfort so sometimes i don't blame them. Western girls are independent because their governments have given everyone the enabling environment to thrive. Every gender works nd make money over there that's why we think they're dfrnt. Bring them to Africa nd give them the same conditions our girls are exposed to nd see if they won't be worse.

When it comes to commitment among ladies in relationships, Nigerian lady should be the best in Africa. No disrespecting but other African countries I have been to, their girls are just too cheap compared to Nigeria ladies.

Other African ladies visiting you means they are ready for anything not like our Nigeria girls that will wear jeans, wear tight untop of pant cos they don't want to loose guard

it is not well

Autobot05:


How many of them are decent these days
How many can pay their Bills ?
Bro make we leave this matter jare. Make person no dey expect too much from women simple and short ..

Since all of them don "woke" .

It all depends on your circle. Wetin broke guy dey find for relationship?

Even if you are rich as a guy, why should you date jobless lady?

SyrusdeHansome:
From my observation i bliv African girls are even more committed in relationships than western girls. We think our girls go into relationships for material gains but the truth is that everyone irrespective of gender loves comfort so sometimes i don't blame them. Western girls are independent because their governments have given everyone the enabling environment to thrive. Every gender works nd make money over there that's why we think they're dfrnt. Bring them to Africa nd give them the same conditions our girls are exposed to nd see if they won't be worse.

I reiterate that this is peculiar to African girls. Nigerian girls in particular. And I think the main reason for this is because is a lot of them are what I would call short sighted. They have no big or major plans in life. Most of them just want to marry a rich person and be happy. It is what fuels their drive for materialistic things. Im basing this on the fact that ive had LDR with foreigners before and the experience was really okay. Unlike our Nigerian girls, if they're not asking you fro sub. They're want to make their hair. A large number of them lack purpose. All they want to do is look good and show of on social media without having to work for it

Monogamy:


It all depends on your circle. Wetin broke guy dey find for relationship?

Even if you are rich as a guy, why should you date jobless lady?

Now I'm not talking about finance .

Relationship isnt a job . Most women keep hallucinating about marrying a rich man that will elev
elevate Their family from poverty

Autobot05:


Now I'm not talking about finance .

Relationship isnt a job . Most women keep hallucinating about marrying a rich man that will elev
elevate Their family from poverty

The problem with some of our ladies is they are not an independent minded people. Hardly they can make personal decisions themselves without the influence of others.

Also, I have issue with the way they have turned themselves to slaves all in the name of marriage. So many of them have abandoned their career for ordinary marriage.

Monogamy:


The problem with some of our ladies is they are not an independent minded people. Hardly they can make personal decisions themselves without the influence of others.

Also, I have issue with the way they have turned themselves to slaves all in the name of marriage. So many of them have abandoned their career for ordinary marriage.

Na thier business .. when I feel I'm ready I'll be very selective and I know how to cope

And I won't settle for less .. I nor fit keep myself and stay chaste only to come and marry a prostitute in the end . Even if na charm e nor go work . I rather be single

Autobot05:


Na thier business .. when I feel I'm ready I'll be very selective and I know how to cope

And I won't settle for less .. I nor fit keep myself and stay chaste only to come and marry a prostitute in the end . Even if na charm e nor go work . I rather be single

No excuse in settling for less. I can't even date a lady that's not working...

Monogamy:


When it comes to commitment among ladies in relationships, Nigerian lady should be the best in Africa. No disrespecting but other African countries I have been to, their girls are just too cheap compared to Nigeria ladies.

Other African ladies visiting you means they are ready for anything not like our Nigeria girls that will wear jeans, wear tight untop of pant cos they don't want to loose guard

Girls everywhere are the same. Nigerian girls act that way because of our culture nd rigid human expectations. Outside Nigeria girls are flexible because of their culture as well nd they rarely hide their feelings. So don't think they're cheap 4 not suppressing their feelings like our girls.

SyrusdeHansome:
Girls everywhere are the same. Nigerian girls act that way because of our culture nd rigid human expectations. Outside Nigeria girls are flexible because of their culture as well nd they rarely hide their feelings. So don't think they're cheap 4 not suppressing their feelings like our girls.

I think our culture mold our girls to be more responsible than other African ladies. At least I have been to nothing less than 5 other African countries so I know what I am talking about

The rigidity of our ladies make them more responsible..

Monogamy:


No excuse in settling for less. I can't even date a lady that's not working...

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Not just working ... working and contributing to the family no matter how lil .

Autobot05:


🎯
Not just working ... working and contributing to the family no matter how lil .

Na the real Koko be that.

In addition, I must give kudos to Nigerian guys. I think we are more responsible when it comes to relationship compared to other African countries