bitbillionaire:



And would you even want to have sex with somebody you consider an abomination to marry in the first place? Do you even know the implication and import of what you just said?

the comment I was looking for?
You’re asking if my brother or son can Marry her ?
If he can sleep with her and provide for her then why not make it official
It’s the mentality for me….

Hakimi isn't just a football star, he's a good marriage role model for men married to parasites

Imstrong2:
When Hakimi told his wife she is all he has gat she never took him serious until the the divorce

I laughed so hard at this Aswear 😂😂😂

Rokiat:
That word is misused on this site by all these toxic so called masculine men.

my sister is nt really misused here.what i observe is ladies of nwadays are now becoming entitled nd men has falling for d arent u nt a man enotional blackmail to extort their man so guys are trying to liberate themselves.what op is saying is true but in reality in relationship nwadays is all about making ur woman comfortable nd getting sex in return.
D GUD NEWS IS DT TO MARRY U NEED TO ASK GOD TO CHOOSE A WIFE ND HUSSY .D PRAYER POINT IS LORD GIVE ME A WIFE OR HUSSY NT D ONE I LOVE BUT THE ONE WILL WANT FOR ME
OR LORD I CAN NT CHOOSE RIGHTLY A WIFE OR HUSSY TO MARRY LORD PLS CHOOSE A WIFE OR HUSSY FOR ME .
BEFORE SUCH PRAYER U ASK GOD TO SHOW U WHICH CHURCH HIS PRESENCE IS HEAVY THERE.SO DT U CAN NECK ON SUCH CHURCH ALTAR ND ASK DIS REQUEST

Urheadmaster:
Is it right to ask for sex because you provided for her

if u nt having sex at all nd she nt making sacrifice in d relatnship then na to stop d providing dt for relatnship nt marriage.
but is u having sex but u kind notice u initiate or ask for sex always then u need to improve ur love making because when a wiman gain orgasm they tend to dey free about sex with their man.but e no easy to make ur woman gain orgasm.require knwledge nd practice with safetly

Octopusssy:
I think the adjective 'simp' is arguably the most misused adjective on this forum, and perhaps on social media. I recall when, some time ago, I was ill and my significant other washed my clothes (hand wash o) he laughingly remarked "if my guys see me washing your clothes, they will call me a simp".

That got me thinking. Does showing care to your partner make you a simp? The toxic social media Alfamails seem to think so. The same 'alpha males' wey no dey give their mama monthly allowance, talk less of her holding their net worth for them, but are here shouting "Hakimi is our hero!" (we are not ready for THAT conversation).

I saw this post on Facebook and decided to repost it with permission.

Hymar mugu wey Dy gym so women can like him

He is the real simp

You ended up not telling us who a simp is .

What's the tittle again ?

Na woman won lecture Men,who be simp.my dear on behalf of the male folks with know who simps are and most of your list are simple Men.

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Octopusssy:
I think the adjective 'simp' is arguably the most misused adjective on this forum, and perhaps on social media. I recall when, some time ago, I was ill and my significant other washed my clothes (hand wash o) he laughingly remarked "if my guys see me washing your clothes, they will call me a simp".

That got me thinking. Does showing care to your partner make you a simp? The toxic social media Alfamails seem to think so. The same 'alpha males' wey no dey give their mama monthly allowance, talk less of her holding their net worth for them, but are here shouting "Hakimi is our hero!" (we are not ready for THAT conversation).

I saw this post on Facebook and decided to repost it with permission.

This are the qualities of a simp

*Taking care of his woman

* Listening to his woman and following her suggestions

*Fighting for and protecting his woman

*Spending on his woman

*Prioritizing his woman, putting her needs and feelings when making decisions

*Not allowing people, especially close friends and family, to disrespect his woman, she aint special

*Being a too good man to your woman

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

must he provide for her

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

Hello, a bit curious. So after doing EVERYTHING you listed. What's in it for the man, aside sex...like what does she do in return?
Hope the list will be as long as the one you used in creating the thread. Kind regards

Rokiat:
That word is misused on this site by all these toxic so called masculine men.

You remind me of the days rokiatu used to reign on nairaland.

ashewoboy:



You remind me of the days rokiatu used to reign on nairaland.

Lmao she’s my sister.

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

Must he provide for her?? If she needs anything let her get a job.
Simp.

A simp is a man who allows his fellow man to Bleep him nyash,
A simp is a man who takes orders from a woman
A simp is a man who doesn't have a mind of his own
A simp is a man who attends a church where a woman is the pastor

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

must he provide for her and her children? if she wants sustenance, why not get a job or go back to the father of her children?

wahalawahala:
Peter Obi is the biggest simp in the world😂... If u doubt, search for the yes daddy ,ok daddy , thank u daddy conversation , very ridiculous😒

How is he a simpm do u even know the meaning of Simp at all?..Simp on top a doctored video..and even if he says Daddy yes daddy, isnt that what Nigerians call their daddy GO's and Mummy GO'S?

Octopusssy:
I think the adjective 'simp' is arguably the most misused adjective on this forum, and perhaps on social media. I recall when, some time ago, I was ill and my significant other washed my clothes (hand wash o) he laughingly remarked "if my guys see me washing your clothes, they will call me a simp".

That got me thinking. Does showing care to your partner make you a simp? The toxic social media Alfamails seem to think so. The same 'alpha males' wey no dey give their mama monthly allowance, talk less of her holding their net worth for them, but are here shouting "Hakimi is our hero!" (we are not ready for THAT conversation).

I saw this post on Facebook and decided to repost it with permission.

Na because of Hakimi you come write all this long grammar? e be like say this Hakimi matter shift your ego go one side

Rokiat:
That word is misused on this site by all these toxic so called masculine men.

Hi Rokiat.

Octopusssy:


A simp is a man who believes women are doing him a favour by being in his life. He believes he has to do everything. He believes she doesn't have to do anything.

I disagree with this. I strongly know my woman should be lazy as Bleep.

Advise to men.
Always give a woman only what you are ready to lose.
Cuz las las, get as that gender de think sometimes.

If dem cut chain, consideration is instantly deleted from their brain.

ukaface:
I want a simp-man

You have them as your male family and kindred already.

Well, you are right to an extent.
Bottom line is that a SIMP is a man who inspite of not getting RESPECT, LOYALTY & SUBMISSION from his woman , he continues to give her LOVE, PROVISION & PROTECTION.
Look, mem don’t primarily need LOVE from a woman , we need women to make us LOOK & FEEL good whether someone is looking or not.
Your man saying his buddies will see him as a simp if they see him hand washing your panties is 100% correct. If he willingly wants to do it, timing his key. He MUST not do it in the full glare of the public to retain his status & ego. Men like lions value their status and ego & guard it jealousy…. That’s what makes us kings. For most men, as long as you make your man feel like a king regardless of the challenges he is facing, you will get the best outta him.This isn’t to say there ain’t MFing buttholes out there, that won’t reciprocate a woman’s respect, loyalty & submission with love, proviision & protection.
Also, your insinuation that ONLY money can make a man relevant is wrong. As a man, you should be willing and able to give money to your woman, but that ain’t the only way you can provide for her. PROVISION is monetary & non-monetary. Just ensure you provide something the woman will value. Even if it is your ability to fix things like her car, electrical faults, plumbing, et cetera. You just MUST be a provider of something as a man. POVERTY & GREED has made Nigerian women think all a man needs to do is provide money. This is only a non-mandatory part and not all that makes a man a provider.

abba09:
her definition of simp is same as that of the toxic men here.

How is simp an adjective?

Urheadmaster:
Is it right to ask for sex because you provided for her

A simp once said ..

virginprincess:
Op,thank you for trying to educate all this illiterate toxic men here.

Next time use the word "these" for plural noun , you simp of kleptomaniac tendency

Glister:


How is he a simpm do u even know the meaning of Simp at all?..Simp on top a doctored video..and even if he says Daddy yes daddy, isnt that what Nigerians call their daddy GO's and Mummy GO'S?

hahaha😂, doctored and the simp fraud man is yet to sue people's gazette.. abeg getat

virginprincess:
Op,thank you for trying to educate all this illiterate toxic men here.

For your comment, I checked your profile and saw confusion in the head and mind all nairalanders are broke". Any white man here should message me. You are beautiful, stop working yourself up for not capturing a simp that burst bubbles under your triangle in praying mantis mood. It disgust intelligent nairaland readers like us.
Be gentle with your words on men like the op, relationship is sweet on a simultaneous and interwoven connection not the parasitic and slaviabinism some of you crave for.
Maintain this your beauty, don't spoil it with feministic egoism

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

Must he provide food for her?
If she want that she should get a job

gr8cany:

For your comment, I checked your profile and saw confusion in the head and mind all nairalanders are broke". Any white man here should message me. You are beautiful, stop working yourself up for not capturing a simp that burst bubbles under your triangle in praying mantis mood. It disgust intelligent nairaland readers like us.
Be gentle with your words on men like the op, relationship is sweet on a simultaneous and interwoven connection not the parasitic and slaviabinism some of you crave for.
Maintain this your beauty, don't spoil it with feministic egoism

That one no be feminist, just a bitter, inferior complexed soul

Imagine thinking that a white pale man is the solution to her problems

She for ask kora obidi na

Rokiat:
That word is misused on this site by all these toxic so called masculine men.

and they are paying ur bills. either financially or sexually

A Guy who says yes to everygirls demand is a simp..hope you understand it now ..not this long epistle you wrote there.