lexy2014:


must he provide for her and her children? if she wants sustenance, why not get a job or go back to the father of her children?

Octopusssy:
I think the adjective 'simp' is arguably the most misused adjective on this forum, and perhaps on social media. I recall when, some time ago, I was ill and my significant other washed my clothes (hand wash o) he laughingly remarked "if my guys see me washing your clothes, they will call me a simp".

That got me thinking. Does showing care to your partner make you a simp? The toxic social media Alfamails seem to think so. The same 'alpha males' wey no dey give their mama monthly allowance, talk less of her holding their net worth for them, but are here shouting "Hakimi is our hero!" (we are not ready for THAT conversation).

I saw this post on Facebook and decided to repost it with permission.

Afamsi:
I totally agree with the Op. Plus a simp is a man who allows his wife disrespect his mother in the name of love

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

Afamsi:
I totally agree with the Op. Plus a simp is a man who allows his wife disrespect his mother in the name of love

Urheadmaster:
Is it right to ask for sex because you provided for her

SPAMBOX7:
Marry her? A single mother with two fking kids. Can you advise your own brother to do such abomination


Come and answer this question or you are a stupid biitch that deserves no good from a man.

garriAndsugar:
A simp is a man who's in a relationship with a single mom and after providing for she and her child/children still begs her for sex

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

If you let a bitch finesse you, you're a simp... 🤣

Octopusssy:

The person I quoted did not state that she doesn't have a job. From what he wrote, the man voluntarily provided for her and her children becomes men are meant to be providers. That's how nature has configured men. The keyword is 'voluntarily', so expecting sex in return makes the relationship transactional. He may as well go to a streetwalker and pay for premium nacks.

The lady should not have to be coerced into giving sex as a payment for help/assistance tendered because such will make her no better than a prostitute. You pay my rent, I nack you in return. Sex for payment. That's the cold truth and it is what it is.

Octopusssy:

You must be mistaking me for the women in your lineage. Your mother and sisters are the stupid bitches

camri:
if he has big dick?

Octopusssy:

The person I quoted did not state that she doesn't have a job. From what he wrote, the man voluntarily provided for her and her children becomes men are meant to be providers. That's how nature has configured men. The keyword is 'voluntarily', so expecting sex in return makes the relationship transactional. He may as well go to a streetwalker and pay for premium nacks.

The lady should not have to be coerced into giving sex as a payment for help/assistance tendered because such will make her no better than a prostitute. You pay my rent, I nack you in return. Sex for payment. That's the cold truth and it is what it is.

SPAMBOX7:
Olosho anthem @Bolded
Late night newspaper no go find simp offline wey go carry your baggages dey nairaland dey waste your time

garriAndsugar:

so every relationship with sex is a transactional relationship?

Octopusssy:

I say na your mama be olosho na, that is why you think every woman be olosho like am. Na why she no see better money train you and so you have become useless and hopeless, disturbing everybody on the internet. Bastard son of a thousand fathers

SPAMBOX7:
Olosho rest. Una national anthem no pass tagging of other people's moms and sisters as your defense mechanism. See your pidgin English sef reeks of olosho vibes. Follow come
Stupid hoes passed around by different men. Quote me again make I see how you go take find your dream simp

lexy2014:


where in his comment did he categorically state that the man in question provided "voluntarily"? can you show me where he said it?

see the way you are contradicting yourself. how does doing something voluntarily automatically mean responsibility (men are meant to be providers)?

if you say it was the man's responsibility to provide for the woman and her children, what then were her and her children's responsibility towards him?

you are still contradicting yourself. if you say what the man did was his responsibility, how come you are now calling it "help/assistance"?

who coerced the lady into having sex? did the person you quoted state that the woman had a job? if she has a job and doesnt want to be coerced into, why is she depending on provision from a man? cant she say "no thank you" to his generosity?

Octopusssy:

Say me well to your mama, commander in chief of oloshos. I for tag your papa too but I am not sure you know him. See as you are expert on Olosho pidgin. It just confirms that you were raised by a prostitute which is why you now tag all women olosho. The fruit does not fall far from the tree na. A hopeless bastard you are, a hopeless bastard you will remain

Fvck off forever. I have more important things to do than argue back and forth with a gutter bred, insignificant sewer rat.

Starz825:
so na op dey take JD ...

omoo na wa oooo...

garriAndsugar:
A simp is a man who's in a relationship with a single mom and after providing for she and her child/children still begs her for sex

Octopusssy:

In the context which Nairaland males define what relationships should entail, sex in a relationship is transactional. Which is why they say "you can keep your body, I will keep my money" when the lady does not agree to sleep with the man after he provides for her needs.

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.

Octopusssy:

Look, I am responsible for what I write, but not what you understand. My post is very clear and not contradictory, and if you think so, that's on you. I don't have the inclination for prolonged arguments. I said what I said and it remains so.

garriAndsugar:
A simp is a man who's in a relationship with a single mom and after providing for she and her child/children still begs her for sex

Urheadmaster:
Is it right to ask for sex because you provided for her

Octopusssy:

Must he have sex with her? If he wan nack, make he marry her.