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RightToReject:
A place like this, Nairaland, is one of the best places any man that is discerning can find the ambiguous "wife material." As I mentioned, one must be discerning to get it right to avoid setting oneself up for miserableness; to be able to dissect all types of women regardless of how hard they try to gloss over their true selves.

For instance, if, as a man, your definition of a wife material is the type of woman from strong ethical leanings, you must be discerning to be able to dissect and pick her out among the types of women with the demeanors of wolves in the sheep's clothes (the disingenuous lots that are mostly religiously inclined) and the crass women (the damaged lots that form woke) with the demeanors of non-pretentious women the ignorant lots among observers do mistake for independent-minded women.

Another angle

Truvelisback:
In a typical Calabar man's voice. My blora, wife material harto ge ro. Even for church gan, e no sure.

Na wa ooo
Wetin man ko come do rike this?

Killbillz:
Nightclubs

Omo

Bahamas95:
Ya, I know what am talking about.

My cousin worked as a manager in a brothel years back, on sundays almost all the pròstitutes in the brothel go to their various churches. With their sister Mary kinda dressing you'll never know they're oloshos if you don't know them.

I can't assure any man looking for a wife that he'll see a decent woman in church. A church is like a hospital with patients suffering from various ailments. Not all of them respond to treatment. After listening to the sermon by the preacher they'll still fall back to base and continue with their "hustle".

Omo this update mad gaan o
Loooooool

VinnyBaba:


A Girl that is Submissive, can cook well and Clean well.

Dat's a Simple definition of Wife Material.

Housewife? Buahahahaha.

Samantha124:
I once played a submissive wife material prank on my fiance just to see his reaction.

The first thing I did is that I went to his house and I knew the time he was knocking off from his place of work... So as soon as I got there, I started preparing dinner.

When he arrived, I quickly rushed to him and greeted him by bowing down.. .. he gave me this one strange look, but didn't say anything.. I took his bag from him and poured him a glass of wine.

I then told him to sit back as I go and prepare him a nice warm bubble bath and I said to him that dinner will be ready by the time he's done bathing.. Even though I knew that he's on a strict balanced diet, I decided to prepare him some traditional food that day..

After he was done bathing, I told him to go and sit on the couch instead of the dining room... I then prepared some warm water for him to wash his hands and as I gave him the water, I knelt down and bowed my head... He asked me what was wrong and I told him nothing was wrong with a smile.. .. As I gave him his food, I also knelt down, this time he held my arm and asked me why I was doing what I was doing, I just told him that I felt that it was the right thing to do..

I'd agree with everything that he said without challenging his opinion or giving him my own point of view... That's unlike me..

While he was eating, I decided to sit on the floor and started massaging his feet while asking him about his day and telling him about my day too..😂😂😂.. He told me to stop, but I told him that I insist... He asked if I wanted something from him or his help with something, but I said no..

I'd bring him breakfast in bed.

I repeated the same thing the following day because I just enjoyed seeing his reaction, I even decided to wash his clothes with my hands even though there's a washing machine in the house... I was planning to play the prank on him for a week before I tell him the truth.. But on the fourth day this man woke me up at around 3am and told me to tell him what was wrong, else he wasn't going to let me go back to sleep until the sunrise... He knew how much I love my sleep.

He even pulled the duvet off my body.. .. we had an argument and he complained that he didn't like the new me, that he wanted the old fun, bubbly, and feisty me, someone who can challenge him every now and then..

I started feeling bad and I finally told him everything, that it was just a prank.. .. You should have seen how relieved he was..🤣🤣🤣

Hmmmn!
There’s a lot to unpack from this your response my lady.
Are you now saying being a good woman equals being a boring woman?

Samantha124:
Most of those women you call God fearing are devils within... The church is just a cover up.

What you see as decent, another man might see it as indecent and how would you expect her not to be worldly when she's living within the world?

I mean in the end you may end up cheating on her with a woman that is the complete opposite of everything you mentioned here.

What happened to being in the world but not of the world (according to the holy book)?

Danisaint112:


No loud am. We dish it out as the spirit leads. 🙂

We give God the glory my bro!

RightToReject:



Stop equating servility to submissiveness. The majority of what you did, as narrated, are servile acts, and any sane/discerning man would definitely be annoyed with them and will easily see through your shenanigans/intending pernicious results.

Honestly I come confuse small cos she was really making a lot of sense until the thing come dey be like she dey condemn good women.

One problem with me is that I question almost everything.

How are you not of the world when you're doing the same things people of the world are doing?

You wake up every morning, you eat, go to work or school, you breathe the same oxygen, you gist with other people.. infact, you do everything that people of the world are doing.

SundayNightGist:


What happened to being in the world but not of the world (according to the holy book)?

I'm telling you that there's no such a thing as a wife material.. As long as she's your spec, you guys are compatible, and you're also communicative with each other, then you gonna enjoy a long lasting marriage.

What you see as a good woman, another man might see it as a boring one because there are different strokes for different folks.

What turns you on might turn off the other person.

SundayNightGist:



Hmmmn!
There’s a lot to unpack from this your response my lady.
Are you now saying being a good woman equals being a boring woman?

Nia69:
Housewife? Buahahahaha.

Ehn na, that one sef dey

Samantha124:
One problem with me is that I question almost everything.

How are you not of the world when you're doing the same things people of the world are doing?

You wake up every morning, you eat, go to work or school, you breathe the same oxygen, you gist with other people.. infact, you do everything that people of the world are doing.

Being in the world simply means having a physical presence here
Being of the world means being a part and parcel of the corrupt practices therein

Samantha124:
I'm telling you that there's no such a thing as a wife material.. As long as she's your spec, you guys are compatible, and you're also communicative with each other, then you gonna enjoy a long lasting marriage.

What you see as a good woman, another man might see it as a boring one because there are different strokes for different folks.

What turns you on might turn off the other person.

Wow!
This is a hard pill to swallow oo because what if we're both compatible but she's mannerless?

Mannerless how?

SundayNightGist:


Wow!
This is a hard pill to swallow oo because what if we're both compatible but she's mannerless?

What if I don't go to church, but I neither drink, smoke, or party.

I just go to work, come home, and hangout with friends.

Am i in the world or of the world

SundayNightGist:


Being in the world simply means having a physical presence here
Being of the world means being a part and parcel of the corrupt practices therein

Lemos14:


There is no best place.

But whatever you do just know that church is the worst place. I'm sure you understand why

Church is good I must say, but depending on the church.

Shrine

Obiebanks007:



Church is good I must say, but depending on the church.

It's not depending on any church..any repackaged ashawo can go to any church and form born again virgin to deceive men..if you dont know that then you are on your own

Lemos14:


It's not depending on any church..any repackaged ashawo can go to any church and form born again virgin to deceive men..if you dont know that then you are on your own

True the devil fires a shot into the Church, but firstly if there's God in that church, it's either he or she remains in the church and truly change for good or the person falls out...


I still keep on telling you...depends on the church