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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by baralatie(m): 3:11pm On May 02, 2023
xavuv:
grin get a more beautiful girl friend, let your gf visit you at home. This will reset her brain.
How are you sure the gf does not have the same plan as the wife

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by gerrisson(m): 3:17pm On May 02, 2023
The solution to sex starvation men suffer in marriage depends on the pocket size of the man. The easier solution is to get a side chick. Side checks can be expensive but they are the best solution. The second best solution is a second wife. But wives are a bad idea in general, the new wife will still starve you of sex after few years. Wives are only a solution if you marry 4 or more. And that is for multi millionaires.

Don't listen to whoever is advising you to maintain status quo. Your wife is comfortable already. She went a year without sex and is not bothered. She is gone. And she is selfish, very selfish.

The last option is to divorce her. Probably the cheapest option. But I wouldn't advice that on the account of your kids. Divorce are only an option when the kids are grown.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by godofuck231: 3:17pm On May 02, 2023
Your spoon spoil? Watin do other pot when no get cover , abi you de forbid hot chicken or goat meat ? Which kind mumu de worry you

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by gerrisson(m): 3:21pm On May 02, 2023
The solution to a bad experience with your wife is not to marry a second wife. Marriage and wives are bad for your health as a man. A second wife will still starve you of sex after some years.

Get a side chick or divorce your wife and be free.

Don't complicate your problem with another wife.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Algold: 3:50pm On May 02, 2023
Go do DNA... Do you have a male househelp. Pursue am. Get only female house help
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by 123yes(m): 4:00pm On May 02, 2023
Mine was 7 years now. I have not had sex with my wife and we are living in the same house
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by jaytimeo: 4:05pm On May 02, 2023
grin cheesy
NoFucksToGive:

grin

No wonder this one of very poor and hungry. When he leaves his boxers in different ashewo houses . This one has no destiny of success at all, they have used all his boxers to clean clients sperm in different ashewo houses. Imagine any poor lady getting married to this bucket of failed destiny, na hunger poverty and suffering will be her portion.

Ladies becareful whom you date o. just imagine this useless wasted son of somebody being proud of his wasted poverty life ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Las las na kidnapping or armed robbery this one will turn to for survival 🤣🤣
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by isabi2lof: 4:21pm On May 02, 2023
If you like marry 2nd wife , she won't see any problem to that 🥱🥱

You want to use your dick to injure somebody's daughter, even olosho dey run for huge dick , you just get huge dick wey no dey do anything.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by isabi2lof: 4:22pm On May 02, 2023
123yes:
Mine was 7 years now. I have not had sex with my wife and we are living in the same house

Lori iro , anything to bash women is welcome
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by isabi2lof: 4:23pm On May 02, 2023
baralatie:

How are you sure the gf does not have the same plan as the wife

You dey mind them , some just have big dick for nothing.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Ogaonos: 4:24pm On May 02, 2023
tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.

She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.

After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.

Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.

Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.

Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.

She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.

After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?

I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.

This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.
have read ur write up twice nd let me advice u seek sex thrapist.but bro let me draw ur attention to her complaints.
SHE COMPLAINTS DT U HUGE ND LAST 30 MINUTES ND DT U THRUST FASTER. IT COULD BE SHE NT WET ENUF BEFORE U PENETRATE .SECONDLY TRY GOOGLE HW TO MAKE A LADY ORAGASM THRU THRUSTING.OR PENTRATION THRUSTING .U GET INFO ON HW TO THRUST A LADY RIGHT.because LADIES LAST 20MINS ND THEY LIKE IT SLOW .SOME LIKE IT SLOW THEN FAST WHEN THEY VERY WET.
ALSO TRY GO TO YOUTUBE ND SEARCH SOMETHING ABOUT UR HUGE STUFF ND PAINFUL SEX.TO GET KNOWLEGE ON SOLUTION.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Hassanmaye(m): 4:46pm On May 02, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
I no fit pity simp again for my life!!

Una deserve every rubbish una dey see

A woman that deny her husband sex
Didnt marry him as a lover
She married him as a Provider
She sees you as not but the guy that will feed her and her children. Thats all

A womans true colors come out after marriage
Marriage is poverty alievation for women
You will provide for her like her father provided for her when she was small

You are basically her step dad
You will continue from where her father stopped
Thats why fathers are very happy when they give out there daughters in marriage
Father will be dancing saying to the husband
Oya take her, she is now your problem

The main goal of a woman marrying is not for her to enjoy sex. Its for her to find a provider that will take care of her like her father did.
She can get 3 times more sex when she was single. So sex is not the reason why women go into marriage
But men being stupid go into marriage for sex. Thats why women change it for men immediately they are married.
You are now her step dad, continue feeding and providing for her plus your children
Is like I'm quitting my marriage soon
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Hassanmaye(m): 4:47pm On May 02, 2023
SoftP:
All these long epistle on top of Pu*sy,
He’s truly starved…

15k can get you a whole lots of fantasies bro,
Save your self the stress by hitting the streets or online,
Whole lots of ass awaiting harvest,

Some men shaa get time to waste


The only thing worth stress & time is making Mula,
Know this & have peace





Hahahhahahaha
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Hassanmaye(m): 4:48pm On May 02, 2023
Wealthoptulent:
Nawa oo, Quite unfortunate that MARRIAGE became POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME for WOMEN! Morals are lost! They want all like a HAMPERS OF GOODIES, WHO wants a MAN RICH, HANDSOME, TALL, MASCULINE, CALM, GULLIBLE, STRONG TO PROTECT THEM, WEAK TO BE ABUSED BY THEM, FEED THEIR FAMILIES, and again they wan him to be POOR TO HIS RELATIVES, UGLY TO SIDE CHIC, WEAK TO TAKE CHARGE HOMES. Want MEN to die at OLD AGE, THEY INHERIT WEALTH, be the first to be invited abroad by children, highest cut of proceeds... they want A-MEN ,
eni jere , aje.
That gender eh
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Hassanmaye(m): 4:52pm On May 02, 2023
GoodbutBadguy:
Marriage wala nor too much, this is why you should marry a Nlander. I have been sampling two Nlander feminist puna tongue and this babes nor dey taya. Naira land is a blessing cool
Hahahhahahaha

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by JOACHINpedro: 5:11pm On May 02, 2023
baralatie:

Going by the ops' self conciousnes of his characteristics of been big and 30 minutes
No doggy,no missionary,no pounding,no piling sefgrin.
Dude found himself with a scenario of an horse and a rabbit.
That's brutal analogy. grin
But yeah, it made sense.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by ivandragon: 5:12pm On May 02, 2023
olabrinks:
she just doesn’t like sex, and that is just it, she has been like that even before they got married. Manage her like that.

Read the OP's write up again... they never had issues with physical intimacy. She only complained about guilt for having premarital sex.

He needs to find out exactly what is wrong. Why the change. In my experience from other similar situations, there is a 70% chance she is sleeping with someone else.

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by ivandragon: 5:24pm On May 02, 2023
ayoawhy007:

Look for someone she is answerable too and report the matter

Kindly address the OP with your suggestion.
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by nurudeen181(m): 5:35pm On May 02, 2023
Persephone1:
Dangers of having a pestle in your pants. My advice seek out the help of a sex therapist. It's the best way to save your marriage.

As for the comment above, please ignore. Nigerian men only have a single solution to all marital problems which is get a "new woman " sadly this doesn't solve their problems but compound them.
Your solution is like moving back a 100years from now . Sex therapist ko
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 02, 2023
nurudeen181:

Your solution is like moving back a 100years from now . Sex therapist ko
Provide a better solution without feeling entitled to mine Mr Nunudim
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by cooljude(m): 5:41pm On May 02, 2023
zedegit:


It's as if she's expecting another customer to bleep her.

You didn't see how she gives rules and conditions for husband to sleep with her. It's only Olosho that does it.

Make the husband check and balance your last statement..... He need go research him wife well o
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by kleuvet92: 6:19pm On May 02, 2023
Mr successful I know too well that your body count de top of the list!!!
NoFucksToGive:

grin

No wonder this one of very poor and hungry. When he leaves his boxers in different ashewo houses . This one has no destiny of success at all, they have used all his boxers to clean clients sperm in different ashewo houses. Imagine any poor lady getting married to this bucket of failed destiny, na hunger poverty and suffering will be her portion.

Ladies becareful whom you date o. just imagine this useless wasted son of somebody being proud of his wasted poverty life ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Las las na kidnapping or armed robbery this one will turn to for survival 🤣🤣
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by kaludestiny10(m): 6:26pm On May 02, 2023
Baba, this your comment off me. Imagine ordering for condom from jumia and the thing no even last. That your woman must be a strong woman.
Sucre6:
I don't support polygamy but if I am to be on your shoes I would get. Side chick that satisfies my sexual needs, I have a very high sex drive, on a norms if my babes comes around we for the weekend we can have sex more than 15 times, not exaggerated before she goes, during lock down we had to go do family planning for her not to get pregnant because i was tired buying condoms everytime, the pharmacist in my area self don tire to dey sell condom for me , 😂

I ordered one carton on Jumia, I was just taking and using, one day I checked and it aff finish 😂,

What am saying in essence is that no one should be in prison in the name of marriage, the op is really suffering, me I can't endure such

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Entanglement: 6:43pm On May 02, 2023
baralatie:

That the husband hardly sleeps at home and says he is busy with office work?
grin
exactly!
Then the wife suspecting he has side chicks!
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Sucre6: 6:45pm On May 02, 2023
kaludestiny10:
Baba, this your comment off me. Imagine ordering for condom from jumia and the thing no even last. That your woman must be a strong woman.

Baba my sex drive they high, no be person I kill 😂😂😂😂

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Bossjakande: 6:59pm On May 02, 2023
sisisioge:
Hmmmm....he has it huge, trust hard and stay for 30mins shocked shocked! That's a joy killer biko!

Meanwhile, I wish una good luck o.
is dis ryte oge? U take it as a joke but if a man deny his wife sometinu start to shout and jump as animal
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by sisisioge: 7:01pm On May 02, 2023
GloriousGbola:


But but but you women are supposed to like BBC angry angry

Are you telling me all the pornhub research is false angry angry angry

Big things are grossly overrated! The pain takes away the enjoyment....most of those girls have been lying to you grin
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by sisisioge: 7:01pm On May 02, 2023
Bossjakande:
is dis ryte oge? U take it as a joke but if a man deny his wife sometinu start to shout and jump as animal

Whew! Didnt I tell you to never mention me again? Eletididi!
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by baralatie(m): 7:41pm On May 02, 2023
isabi2lof:
If you like marry 2nd wife , she won't see any problem to that 🥱🥱

You want to use your dick to injure somebody's daughter, even olosho dey run for huge dick , you just get huge dick wey no dey do anything.
I think she just guilty with ending up a guy with a big dçk and unfortunately the guy is way more she imagined
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by cumoverna: 7:52pm On May 02, 2023
Simple case of the wife never loved him, she married him for security and till now the mumu nor get sense

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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by isabi2lof: 7:58pm On May 02, 2023
baralatie:

I think she just guilty with ending up a guy with a big dçk and unfortunately the guy is way more she imagined

Meaning?
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by baralatie(m): 8:03pm On May 02, 2023
isabi2lof:


Meaning?
She wanted sex that she is used to.maybe medium but she got large and what she thot was controllable gas cooker stove fire is actually a volcanic eruption.
Her guilty feelings and control started 2 years before the marriage


Meaning the end results is of the ffg

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