Are you that easily influenced by what other people think and their opinions?

Every monkey has access to the internet and it's very unwise to let what someone with a pea sized brain posted get to u

I never see the one way I go use chop; na em I wan go dey send out?

For those who send money

You were never a cheerful giver, then....

And you let this affects you?

Banbulu:

Very foolish

It's so frustrating for a kind gesture to be misinterpreted by an ingrate

Banbulu:

but it's true and you know it

SimpleTon

not entirely true bt I agree to some extent.

its people who don't know how to say No at the right time that have low self esteem issues not necessarily those who give or say yes.

Is that a convenient excuse to be a stingy miser?

Rt

Somebody's son out of the goodness of his heart just sent some money for this imp after probably pestering the guy with calls and unending WhatsApp chats. Next thing she goes online to "catch cruise" calling the guy "low self esteemed".

Tomorrow now, this one go friend one very "high esteemed" guy, next thing you'd hear is, all men are SCUM.

Are the daughters of Eve not confused like this

You should not let someone with issues change your view

I do whatever i know is good, nobody's opinion can stop that.

Hmmm

Power of Social Media...
Some people will just write without consulting their brain...
To whom brain is given, sense is expected...

Banbulu:

Low self esteem men sends women money at the slightest whim

Yes daddy

Rokiat:
Are you that easily influenced by what other people think and their opinions?

ladies in Nigeria have all build their mentality on quotes and short message video...

no one tries to settle issues again..they say let them go...

You on your own.
I give if I have, I don’t give if I don’t have.
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Honestly this is how majority naija girls reasons.

I remember one guy named ability in my former area back in 2012. This guy always pitied and rendered help to one girl, a single mother whose baby daddy no send at all. He helped her with money to feed sometimes and even buy drugs for her crawling baby.

This guy later left the area. One day some one mentioned this guy's name, the lady jumped in and said "oh ability used to be my mugu. Anytime I needed anything, I'll just ask him and he will drop sharp sharp". Imagine that.

Ability was just a kind hearted guy helping her o.

Na another guy who knows everything attacked her with vicious words. Reminding her how ability helped her treat her ailing child. Now the guy na mugu?

Such is how most women reason!
When you're nice and good hearted to them they take you as mumu!
Then you see them run after men who know no love nor kindness!

Honestly I don't pity them when they get served as most of them really deserve it with their greed and lack of character!

Note: this is not to say sensible women no dey again just that they are very few, very very few!

If you live your life by what people say especially this era where idiotz can easily acces s internet, then abobi you're completely finish

But thats not true. No body wastes money like Politicians and yahoo boys.