XshegzzyeeiX:


Thanks bro.

ObiDatti85:
I give because I have some to spare. Call it whatever you like , I will send the first two persons that quote me 1k each.

Person wen naked no dey put hand for pocket.

thoollz:
If you are a man and a fellow man has walked up to you for financial help but you didn't help, whereas a woman asks for help, you didn't bulge an eyelid before obliging, then you are a simp, a low self esteemed mugu. As long as a woman is not rendering any service, why should I give her money? That's why they take men as fools, open your brain and eyes.

Bluearrow:

There is also no reward in helping ur fellow struggling man, it is almost not different from the urgent 2k. I remember spending a lot on a guy because I believed helping a woman was not worth it, I helped a lot of my fellow guys right from university days, but guess what, immediately they started doing well, they all got married, spending money on their wives & kids, when I see them, they only wave at me. The wives they are spending money on now was never there when things was rough. Any money u spend on ur fellow man is also waste, when he starts making it, he is going to spend on his wife & kids, not u. I am talking from personal experience. When I see guys saying spend on ur fellow man, I just laugh...

XshegzzyeeiX:

sonnie10:
People don’t understand how good AI is in controlling your actions. AI is a powerful technology that can control your emotions, it knows you more than you know yourself. All social media have AI that accesses your personal conversations and messages. They know your other previous activities online. It knows when, how often, and to whom you always send money . It knows the conversations that lead to sending more. Once you download an app, almost everything you do on your phone is captured.
It is most likely that the message you saw is a result of your activities. Targeted feeds from AI to reflect your personality.
Just know that you did not stumble on that message. AI could possibly match you with millions of random post. This particular one is what it thinks suits you.
It is just who the AI thinks you are.

Rokiat:
Are you that easily influenced by what other people think and their opinions?

Astra101:
It's so frustrating for a kind gesture to be misinterpreted by an ingrate

Killbillz:
Every monkey has access to the internet and it's very unwise to let what someone with a pea sized brain posted get to u

Emaprince:
Honestly this is how majority naija girls reasons.

I remember one guy named ability in my former area back in 2012. This guy always pitied and rendered help to one girl, a single mother whose baby daddy no send at all. He helped her with money to feed sometimes and even buy drugs for her crawling baby.

This guy later left the area. One day some one mentioned this guy's name, the lady jumped in and said "oh ability used to be my mugu. Anytime I needed anything, I'll just ask him and he will drop sharp sharp". Imagine that.

Ability was just a kind hearted guy helping her o.

Na another guy who knows everything attacked her with vicious words. Reminding her how ability helped her treat her ailing child. Now the guy na mugu?

Astra101:
It's so frustrating for a kind gesture to be misinterpreted by an ingrate

Rokiat:
Are you that easily influenced by what other people think and their opinions?

advanceDNA:



U mean ts same thing When u buy a phone for girl u want to fvck amd when u give to the old widows in ur church or mosque...Lol...be deceiving urself...

RightToReject:
She's right. Her assertion doesn't mean that you shouldn't spend (be cheerful, thoughtful, and kind) where and when necessary; however, stop paying to attract, maintain, and sustain a relationship because that's what men who have low self-esteem do.

Every sensible woman - even the ones without enough sense - knows when you're paying for the sustenance of your relationship with her and when your spending on her emanates from your acts of benevolence and her worthiness.

hardbody:


I don't buy phones for people. Never did, never will. When I say we operate differently I don't expect you to understand. People have genuine and legitimate requests including for instance supporting in school fees, learning a trade etc. Kids only think about impressing ladies to get inside their skirts. Mature men think of helping humanity to grow and evolve. You may take your shallow argument elsewhere pls

hardbody:


No bros. I help when I find a need to, I don't help because I want to get laid. It is rather childish to have that mentality. People I have extended help to do understand that it has nothing whatsoever to do with self esteem. Learn and practise helping people. I have also been helped in times past. Whatever goes around comes around.

hardbody:


I don't buy phones for people. Never did, never will. When I say we operate differently I don't expect you to understand. People have genuine and legitimate requests including for instance supporting in school fees, learning a trade etc. Kids only think about impressing ladies to get inside their skirts. Mature men think of helping humanity to grow and evolve. You may take your shallow argument elsewhere pls

ediko5:


Your first paragraph is correct but your last paragraph is not really right. You said "even women without enough sense knows your spending on her emanates from your acts of benevolence" - what a typical Nigerian woman thinks about a man that easily gives her money is;

1 - mumu, maga, mumu-button, low self-esteem or timid man

2 the man is dying for her. The man head dey break for her etc

This attitude is also a general attitude in our Nigeria society but mostly exhibited by the females. People sees you as a fool if you easily give, you're easily accessible, easily used and so on

Banbulu:

Banbulu: