My name is Garba. I am from Borno State while my ex-wife’s name is Lara and she is from Ilesha in Osun State. We got divorced after giving birth to two children, a boy and a girl.

I used to visit my children when their grandmother was alive, but unfortunately after her death my ex-wife relocated to Festac, and I don't know where she moved to.

I went to see her aunt who pleaded with her to allow me to see my children but all to no avail. I planned to report the matter to a human rights organisation but I don't have her contact nor do I know her address, so there is no means of reaching her.

I tried so hard to contact some of her friends but all have yielded no result. It has been seven years since I last saw or heard from my children. I love my kids so much and the thoughts of not hearing from them has made me sad and confused.

Please, what should I do?

This is why some of our parents don't want their children to marry from another tribe

Seven (7) years ?
Truly you don't care or love your children, for Seven years you have not seen your children or sent them money for food and school fees and you are here lamenting that your wife took your children, in this buhari regime, I am sorry bro you are WICKED more than our politicians.

Seven years of hardship for herself and her children couple with the problem she was having before she left you, you don't deserve to see them if they are successful.

Keep on trying to reach her. Best of luck to you.

It is possible that she is using deadbeat dad story to scam people somewhere.

Some women sometimes can take matters into their hands and later begin to suffer for it.
Why would she run away with those kids as if she got herself pregnant. Can she cater for them alone on her own without support from her ex husband?
Unless the ex husband is a deadbeat dad, I don't think she did the right thing. We must also hear from the woman's own side of the story to give our final judgement though.

Fineman2:
... It has been seven years since I last saw or heard from my children. I love my kids so much ...

Hmmm... 🤷🏽‍♂️

Blackazuma99:
Seven (7) years ?
Truly you don't care or love your children, for Seven years you have not seen your children or sent them money for food and school fees and you are here lamenting that your wife took your children, in this buhari regime, I am sorry bro you are WICKED more than our politicians.

Seven years of hardship for herself and her children couple with the problem she was having before she left you, you don't deserve to see them if they are successful.

did you carefully read the story, she absconded with the kids, her whereabouts isn't known

Blackazuma99:
Seven (7) years ?
Truly you don't care or love your children, for Seven years you have not seen your children or sent them money for food and school fees and you are here lamenting that your wife took your children, in this buhari regime, I am sorry bro you are WICKED more than our politicians.

Seven years of hardship for herself and her children couple with the problem she was having before she left you, you don't deserve to see them if they are successful.

She absconded with the children since 7 years without traces.
FESTAC is in Lagos.

If she's in hardship, she'd have reached out. She's probably not suffering wherever she is and giving the children cock-and-bull story on why their dad is not around.

Blackazuma99:
Seven (7) years ?
Truly you don't care or love your children, for Seven years you have not seen your children or sent them money for food and school fees and you are here lamenting that your wife took your children, in this buhari regime, I am sorry bro you are WICKED more than our politicians.

Seven years of hardship for herself and her children couple with the problem she was having before she left you, you don't deserve to see them if they are successful.

did you read what he wrote?...

Fineman2:
My name is Garba. I am from Borno State while my ex-wife’s name is Lara and she is from Ilesha in Osun State. We got divorced after giving birth to two children, a boy and a girl.

I used to visit my children when their grandmother was alive, but unfortunately after her death my ex-wife relocated to Festac, and I don't know where she moved to.

I went to see her aunt who pleaded with her to allow me to see my children but all to no avail. I planned to report the matter to a human rights organisation but I don't have her contact nor do I know her address, so there is no means of reaching her.

I tried so hard to contact some of her friends but all have yielded no result. It has been seven years since I last saw or heard from my children. I love my kids so much and the thoughts of not hearing from them has made me sad and confused.

Please, what should I do?

Still speak to a human rights organization... Try to get her pictures maybe from facebook and leave the rest to them.

All you need is a court order to declare her wanted

Drop the contact and address of the aunty. They will contact her since was able to reach her

Which kin wahala be this one

Fineman2:
My name is Garba. I am from Borno State while my ex-wife’s name is Lara and she is from Ilesha in Osun State. We got divorced after giving birth to two children, a boy and a girl.

I used to visit my children when their grandmother was alive, but unfortunately after her death my ex-wife relocated to Festac, and I don't know where she moved to.

I went to see her aunt who pleaded with her to allow me to see my children but all to no avail. I planned to report the matter to a human rights organisation but I don't have her contact nor do I know her address, so there is no means of reaching her.

I tried so hard to contact some of her friends but all have yielded no result. It has been seven years since I last saw or heard from my children. I love my kids so much and the thoughts of not hearing from them has made me sad and confused.

Please, what should I do?

When you say you guys got divorced after two kids

That means you went through the legal processing of divorce

Then there must be an agreement on how you can be allowed to access those children on special arrangements

In that case, if she denys you that, then she has breeched

But if you never went to court and you guys got separated, then separation is different from divorce

I think you have to penetrate her aunty to get access to her location