LeoDeKing:


If that is the dp of the guy deserted by the lady, I support her.

He actually looks quite effeminate. 🤧

One man’s food, another’s poison.

What some are looking for, others are letting go of… 😢

Never4getU:
You guys are missing a lot from the way ladies of this kind reason about how they consider their relationship. Some ladies believe if u engages in any of the social vices u're a cool guy around them for a no of reasons;

1. If u smoke whichever type of smoke is irrelevant to dem. The belif is u can be imagined as a wild animal on bed.

2. If u drink u're equally nice a guy to them as similar shit applies.

3. Guys who don't smoke or drink have a lot of problems to deal with. The general believe is, they're too nagging and are too serious in fact too detail about everything.

So they naturally feels u won't be cool to hang around with and that u will be a womanizer cos they believe the third social vice will be ur take which most ladies dislike lately.

They maybe wrong though but they're some sense in it really it just sound funny.

I dont smoke nor drink, i dont nagg and not a serious type of person..My playfulnes hv affected me in som less important part of my life.
But my kids loves me n closer to me dan der mom bc am playful..I easily get along wt ppl within few hours of meetin dem frst.

LeoDeKing:
Smoking and drinking are way better than drugs.
.

You smoke drugs. Weed is a psychoactive drug from the cannabis plant. Bat supporters are ALWAYS illiterates

People who don't smoke and drink are more dangerous than those who do......


Me personally dey keep them at arms length....

After rejecting all the good men. They will go for thugs and bad boys. Then cry men are scum

post=123050068:
One man's meat, is another man's poison.

Immorality has become the new normal in this present world.

#word

Supporting evil is also immorality

Kid everywhere

YorubaPrince:
Tell her you drink na... Don't you drink water ni?

Smartguyboy:
Such only happens when a 9-5 guy want to date a hookup girl or yahoo boy left over girl 👧.

You get the drift! 👏

His fellow 9 to 5 ladies are probably boring to him too, and here he is complaining.

Na Olosho you dey date

It's said in ideal world that women fall in love with rough guys ... guys who beat and treat them badly but I can't choose to be rough just to be with a woman.

Draslo:
Simply because society has shown her that if a man does not smoke or drink, he must womanize. Truth is most men will womanize regardless of their vices. You can find a man who neither drinks, smokes or doesn't even womanize but is secretly a serial killer with a white collar job.

You de watch crime and investigation too much, we no get serial killers here, but we gat lots of ritualist who indulge in murder

Bunkum, balderdash

Draslo:
Simply because society has shown her that if a man does not smoke or drink, he must womanize. Truth is most men will womanize regardless of their vices. You can find a man who neither drinks, smokes or doesn't even womanize but is secretly a serial killer with a white collar job.

Judgesledge:
You de watch crime and investigation too much, we no get serial killers here, but we gat lots of ritualist who indulge in murder

Same thing different context

001Lagos:
As a guy, I can't just imagine a life without drinking but in a responsible way ..

I have stopped drinking for 6 months now due to mouth ulcers and constant headache and hangover .

What if the guy is not smoking nor drinking due to health reason? Lady not thinking right

the boy is even doing snapchat,, truely his weird

001Lagos:
As a guy, I can't just imagine a life without drinking but in a responsible way ..

Heros beer ambassador.... Well I agree, how you no go drink , smoke or womanize as adult

PureFace1:


Well they are wired that way

Men see women with a lot of guys as slut but it is different with women.

Women see men in relationship with other women as attractive because they want what other women like them desire.

That's why you would see a woman having interest in a guy she is initially not interested in immediately she is seeing him going out with other women or one of her friends.

nice point bro. Who wired that confusion in them and for what purpose could that be?

Using my uncle as an example... He doesn't smoke nor drink. But he is the worst womanizer I have ever met... Highly scandalous womanizer at his age and status womanizing seem to keep disgracing him. A very wonderful man, generous and caring to his family

I remember taking my then ex to my uncle's office and this man got her number behind my back and almost banged her

LeoDeKing:
Smoking and drinking are way better than drugs.

If that is the dp of the guy deserted by the lady, I support her.

u dey reason far🤣

Na wa. This life nor just balance and me dey find guys wey nor dey drink or smoke.

PS: I don't drink or smoke either.

Person like me wey Dey drink pass catfish.. but I no dey smoke, I no go lie I like woman die

She should go and meet her type.

The Gospel truth is that.girls doesn't like Good guys.they prefer bad guys.and as a guy who doesn't smoke or drink I don't know how you people reason......as for me I do take and think How to get big bags.

Imagine picking up unhealthy habits because you want to seem appealing to a pissing, shitting human being. Self imposed slavery.

deyplay:
nice point bro. Who wired that confusion in them and for what purpose could that be?

It is nature of course

The mistake most men make is to believe men and women think the same way. Men and Women doesn't think the same way.

When it come to women, don't follow or believe in whatever they say, believe in their actions. Their actions would tell you the truth and what they really want or how they really feel.

They can say whatever but their actions would be contradictory, the way they behave would be different from what they say. They can claim they love and care for you but their actions toward you would be different, they can still disrespect you, ghost you, ignore you or even cheat on you etc her actions should tell you what she really feel about you that she is just deceiving you but most guys make the mistake of believing whatever they say instead of their actions.

They say they don't like men that cheat but would be chasing guys with multiple girls behind your back and have sex with them while they friendzone guys without any girl or treat them like shits.

If you ask women about the type of men they want, most of them would say they want a loving and caring man etc, that will listen to them and respect them, treat them like a queen or princess etc but in reality it is guys like that that they usually friendzones, manipulate and disrespect while they fall head over heels for a guy that don't really care that much about them or treat them like trash like yahoo boys, cultists etc.

In fact the reason why most women are attracted to guys that have money is because money give guys the confidence to act in an attractive way to women.

Money give guys confidence that they mostly lack without money and it is that confidence that women find attractive and it is attracting them to guys with money.

Most guys with money have that special confidence and they don't care for women that much because they are confident they can easily replace any woman as long as they have money and they mostly don't roll around one woman. It is mostly guys that have money and still care so much for women that have a lot of problems, guys with money have that special confidence and act like they are in charge and if she is not on her best behavior, there are other women around ready to take her position, it is that kind of challenges that mostly make guys with money very attractive, but some guys still have money and still act like total simp, it is mostly their kind that woman can cheat on or dump for another rich guy.

Don't worry, son.

They want to marry a man that would not last long enough to take care of the children because his liver and lungs have been battered.

You won't be there when she is facing cirhossis of the liver or lung Cancer.

001Lagos:
As a guy, I can't just imagine a life without drinking but in a responsible way ..

I feel you. I had to give up drinking last year because of health reasons, but damn, life is so boring without drinking once in a while. I'm happy to be alive, but I really miss having that bottle of Legend every once in a while.

I was talking to one Imo girl , we were both in talking stage.

I told her I don't drink alcohol.
She asked me why, and I said no reason.
I just don't drink.
She said what if we go out? I told her I will order my malt while you order whatever you want

I could feel her disappointment on the phone.

For someone like her that grew up in a culture of heavy drinking, and from an ethnic with a high predisposition to kidney diseases, I was not surprised.