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I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Fuckernizer: 5:25pm On May 13, 2023
So, I've been single for 2 years plus now... I'm not scared of approaching a lady whatsoever.

Anytime i meet a lady i like, i approach her, we get along and vibe so well, but then with time i kinda lose interest in asking them out.

What do you think is wrong with me?

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Hotwest: 5:35pm On May 13, 2023
I feel the same especially when I have seen her unclothedness

I'm single also

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 13, 2023
Ogbeni go and make money joor

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by COLOURCUT: 5:39pm On May 13, 2023
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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Jakumo(m): 5:44pm On May 13, 2023
Fuckernizer:
So, I've been single for 2 years plus now... I'm not scared of approaching a lady whatsoever.

Anytime i meet a lady i like, i approach her, we get along and vibe so well, but then with time i kinda lose interest in asking them out.

What do you think is wrong with me?

Women are turned on by confidence AND determination to follow through and persist even if she is playing hard to get as a test of a man's character.

Give up too easy and she will write you off as a timid man who doesn't know what he wants from a woman and is easily discouraged.

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Fuckernizer: 6:00pm On May 13, 2023
Jakumo:


Women are turned on by confidence AND determination to follow through and persist even if she is playing hard to get as a test of a man's character.

Give up too easy and she will write you off as a timid man who doesn't know what he wants from a woman and is easily discouraged.


I don't even bother in asking them out, even when they show me the green light or after vibing with them.

Seems tho, I'm scared of starting a relationship.
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Jakumo(m): 6:30pm On May 13, 2023
Fuckernizer:



I don't even bother in asking them out, even when they show me the green light or after vibing with them.

Seems tho, I'm scared of starting a relationship.

I've been in your shoes and I am familiar with the sense of regret that sets in when you miss chances to connect with beautiful women that you see, and just watch them walk away while you remain frozen with doubt. Truth is women will NEVER approach you even if they like you, and unless you are content jerking off to online porn, there is NO substitute to your going after them without giving up even when some reject you. Don't let life pass you by.

The let-down of rejection is temporary but regret over chances not taken can last for YEARS, so the choice is yours, brother man. Don't allow life to pass you by.

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Oyindamolah: 6:44pm On May 13, 2023
Two key points in approaching women:

1. It is less important what you say than that you say something. In most cases she already knows if she will go out with you so what you say makes little difference.

2. Don’t overthink the plans — you are not trying to impress her with cash— you want to know her better. If you do go out with her, be relaxed and interested in hearing what she has to say not impressing her with your interests or beliefs. At your age, women’s opinions are undervalued so someone showing sincere interest and asking questions like how and why to get more information is VERY attractive.
Good luck!

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by flokii: 7:39pm On May 13, 2023
It's a sign of maturity.. early maturity.
Sooner or later, you'll meet a lady that will bond with you naturally, No need to be anxious or worried.

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Darnell9(m): 7:51pm On May 13, 2023
Fuckernizer:



I don't even bother in asking them out, even when they show me the green light or after vibing with them.

Seems tho, I'm scared of starting a relationship.
bro we dey the same delimma
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by sonature1: 8:22pm On May 13, 2023
A lot of guys have this challenge. I have a friend who had a similar challenge way back in school. Each time he sleeps with his girlfriends, he loses interest in them. Those ladies thought he was using and dumping them.

Guess what, he is married now. Whenever I ask him how he overcame the challenge, he says prayers. So, if you believe in the potency of prayer, this is the time to call upon your Maker. The truth is that guys rarely pray about meeting an ideal partner; we just believe that money will attract them.

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Autobot05: 8:44pm On May 13, 2023
Jakumo:


Women are turned on by confidence AND determination to follow through and persist even if she is playing hard to get as a test of a man's character.

Give up too easy and she will write you off as a timid man who doesn't know what he wants from a woman and is easily discouraged.

Na your type dey woo woman for 10months ... mr encourager grin

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by eventainment(m): 9:20pm On May 13, 2023
For me it's boring girls are all the same. I don't think of sex cause it's not worth it too till marriage. So few intelligent ones so to me they are boring cause nothing to talk about that doesn't sound like gossip or trends
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by frozen70(f): 10:55pm On May 13, 2023
Fuckernizer:
So, I've been single for 2 years plus now... I'm not scared of approaching a lady whatsoever.

Anytime i meet a lady i like, i approach her, we get along and vibe so well, but then with time i kinda lose interest in asking them out.

What do you think is wrong with me?

Till you make up your mind to go into love relationship, you may remain this way and it will affect you on the long run
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Rokiat(f): 11:18pm On May 13, 2023
Just remain single for now.

Enjoy the single life it can be fun as well LMAO.

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by pussyeater(m): 11:34pm On May 13, 2023
Fuckernizer:
So, I've been single for 2 years plus now... I'm not scared of approaching a lady whatsoever.

Anytime i meet a lady i like, i approach her, we get along and vibe so well, but then with time i kinda lose interest in asking them out.

What do you think is wrong with me?
Then you are a Foolsh fuckniser.
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by pansophist(m): 1:30am On May 14, 2023
Nothing is wrong with you, I know your type.

For you to fall in love with a girl, she would have to proactively integrate herself into your life by becoming so useful, that you will not let her go.

The other girls you lost feelings for are typical bimbos I assume, girls who have all the curves but nothing deep. No depth, or wisdom, just loreal, and ass.

Next time, don't just go straight to bed, that's assuming you are not a forkboy. Don't clog your emotions with the experience of many girls, it makes it hard for you to commit to one. and not healthy.

Then try to involve lots of conversations, and find a ground where you can admire her beyond intimacy. It could be her brilliance, maturity, her respect for you, and how you feel at peace with her.

Then sex would be more of a topping, or like how you shine an already beautiful shoe. Then the sex becomes fulfilling and satisfies not just your body, but your soul. And you won't lose interest anymore. Then you won't let her go.

Sex for men is a revealer. It shows you if you want this girl because you are horney, or because you really want her. But you can know by doing the aforementioned, then sex wont be the core, but a feature.

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Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by HellVictorinho6(m): 7:32am On May 14, 2023
Mtcheww , leave dem 4 others or wetin be ur own? U dont know the havoc u are causing, damn,damn,damn,spits angry
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by Bellotelli: 8:07am On May 14, 2023
Just focus on making it in life bro
Re: I'm Scared! Can't Ask A Lady Out!! by chim14(m): 11:37am On May 14, 2023
Its easier to ask a lady out when the vibe is their.

Jst casually say lets go out to so so & so place it will be fun. If she say am not chanced twice, just forget it, she's not into u.

A babe I vibed with well many years ago, I never asked her out, na she call me say she want to visit me on Christmas day.

I jst told her dont come o, or I go give u belle🤣🤣 She say its a lie. I told her am serious. I stayed alone.

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