Kobojunkie:
Must you flog at all? If a child says NO to you, then simply reduce access to your love or something instead, not descend on him as though you must rule at all cost.

webcrafty:
■ To find the answer to your question, I suggest you one day visit UK as a teacher and experience their kids in first hand. The reason UK and indeed the west is better than Nigeria and most African Nations, is not because of their kids, it's because of a system built (no small thanks to years of other nation's exploits of course).

But bliv me, not all that glitter is gold... Most UK residents are wishing they could somehow escape living there.

Kobojunkie:
Must you flog at all? If a child says NO to you, then simply reduce access to your love or something instead, not descend on him as though you must rule at all cost.

mabea:
I would have agreed completely with you but then part of the judgement cited a text message sent to the wife and the child. Who could have revealed it if not the wife.

TUANKU:
That's why there's a shortage of primary school teachers in the UK, children with almost zero respect for adults.

pyyxxaro:
Obodoyibo


If not for Water Cane , I wonder what I would have turned into

After there don use cane massage my yansh finish way back , there go come bath me , rub powder for my neck ;


WATER-CANE MIGWOO

Reference:


If you do all these and cannot teach, instruct, guide and then task, assess, wash and wear again you still have not achieved anything. You don't graduate from school by your teachers just talking to you everyday in a lovable manner. There has to be a plan, there has to be a syllabus, there has to be instructions and there has to be a test. The quality of this determines how your kids will turn out.

I have always considered violence as the preserve of the ignorant.
When you have to use violence it means you are either not communicating well or communicating wrong.
The child is not receiving or understanding what you want or how you want it.
I cannot see what violence does to enhance this process.

When a parent is enraged at his child it simply says I am angry with myself for not being able to do it.

NinjaMetahuman:
lol■ Reduce access to you love and become bad father. Why not kuku give birth to them and throw them away then.

MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

Shokoloko:

Why will she treat bruises at home? Why didnt the man treat the bruises at home?
You are taxed heavily for healthcare. So why will you pay taxes for healthcare and still pay privately for healthcare?
Isn't it dumb to pay for one product twice? By the way, the woman did not report that man. The hospital did

Simeonjoe1:
Well great human how? Africa with strick parent discipline is still the shittest region on earth.

Babathanks:

So Nigeria is a best place to raise a kids with yahoo yahoo, unknown gunmen, and bandit?

abbey621:


Knowing fully well the country that she was in? Knowing fully well that they count it as a big deal and it could literally mean the end of her family as she knows it? Sometimes wisdom is better than being right!

abbey621:
■ Knowing fully well the country that she was in? Knowing fully well that they count it as a big deal and it could literally mean the end of her family as she knows it? Sometimes wisdom is better than being right!

Ireportlive:
Na why their kids are wayward

Kobojunkie:
So, knowing full well the country that she was in, she shouldn't have taken her bruised-up 9-year-old to the hospital? WOW.... irredeemable!

SavageResponse:


At least in Nigeria we don't have nutcases like non-binary, transgender, serial killers and shopping mall mass murderers!

pyyxxaro:
Obodoyibo


If not for Water Cane , I wonder what I would have turned into

After there don use cane massage my yansh finish way back , there go come bath me , rub powder for my neck



WATER-CANE MIGWOO

SavageResponse:


At least in Nigeria we don't have nutcases like non-binary, transgender, serial killers and shopping mall mass murderers!

Shokoloko:

The man is the foolish one here. If you poop, you clean it up.
If he knew he had caused that much damage to the child's body, why did he not begin treatment immediately?
At the point the son was standing facing the garden lots of light would have shone on his body and his father should have noted the injuries and started applying balm.

abbey621:


Yes there was no need for hospital, many of us have treated bruises at home just fine, in fact unless you didn't school in 9ja, the floggings from teachers pass this one and we all didn't die!

abbey621:
Yes there was no need for hospital, many of us have treated bruises at home just fine, in fact unless you didn't school in 9ja, the floggings from teachers pass this one and we all didn't die!

Ulunne777:
I used to do the disciplining before but when I noticed my kids tilting towards my husband and him even reporting them to me or asking them if I have seen what they did wrong,I stopped.


We must agree together on the punishment or watch them spoil together.

Stop reporting your kids misdemeanor to the other spouse.The parent present should trash it out or wait for joint punishment.
It potrays the discipliner wicked before the kids

Ulunne777:
But the wife Sha.
If she didn't want the man to punish the child,why didn't she do the appropriate punishment instead of reporting to the husband.
It makes the man now look as the abuser whereas he was trying to instill"discipline" of course overboard in a woke country.She Still took him to hospital where they will see the strokes well instead of giving paracetamol.
A child you paid for online classes is playing computer games.

cococandy:
Clearly the hospital reported the man not the wife.
All healthcare workers are mandatory reporters. If you suspect abuse you’re required to report it.
The bruises on him required them to report it.

Unless you’re saying the mom shouldn’t have taken the boy to the hospital. What if he’d died? Then y’all would have still blamed her for not taking care of her kid.

All the man had to do (if he’s so bent on physically punishing the kid) was to do it in a non violent way and not cause him bruises and injuries.

MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

Ulunne777:
But the wife Sha. If she didn't want the man to punish the child,why didn't she do the appropriate punishment instead of reporting to the husband.
It makes the man now look as the abuser whereas he was trying to instill"discipline" of course overboard in a woke country.She Still took him to hospital where they will see the strokes well instead of giving paracetamol.
A child you paid for online classes is playing computer games.

His wife, the victim’s mother, during the lockdown when school children had migrated to online classes, was informed that the victim had not been attending his online school classes for two days. As a result, she barred him from playing computer games and told the father about the development. On 22 January 2021, she left home to visit her eldest son leaving the victim with his sisters. Their father came home from work to find the victim using the computer. According to the court documents, the father repeatedly struck him across the back using metal sticks or rods, which he retrieved from a basket next to the television in the living room. He also used his belt repeatedly to strike him on the back, arms and shoulders.