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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 9:05pm On May 16, 2023 |
Madam, leave that guy o. No underrate am. Him go boom big odds soon, no fear. See ehn, I almost won 25M last night with MrFelix draws if not for a late goal that casted the game. And I had a cash out of 2M, I didn't take it. I let greed take over. Tell him to follow MrFelix on Twitter and you shall smile soon. If to say I cash out that money, shebi I for dash you like 100k make you take hold your side. Mafor, e go make sense soon. Na my own advice be that.
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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by phemmyfour: 9:05pm On May 16, 2023 |
destiny4luv:Somebody will soon go back to his old vomit 5 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by tonididdy(m): 9:05pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: If you think he's gonna quit 100%...sorry you are wishing for the impossible. What you can do? Cook a favorite meal of his. Pamper him and bring up the topic nicely. Ask that you manage how much he spends on gambling. I hope usef do not get addicted lol. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Starz825(m): 9:06pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: keep praying sis... prayer isn't a one time thing...you must be consistent....be faithless but believing... you are his God sent angel to save him Now you can see clearly that ...this isn't him anymore...the unknown has taken over him...he's totally out of his mind... help him get back to his feet ....via consistent prayers and constant admonitions... thank you and God bless you and your family |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by danilho(m): 9:06pm On May 16, 2023 |
rooftops:. They can be beaten, with a good tips source and a well worked out staking strategy. Be disciplined, stick to your strategy and don’t stake when you don’t get tips from your source. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by tonididdy(m): 9:06pm On May 16, 2023 |
osazsky: Hahaha.... So accurate! 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by mordred44: 9:07pm On May 16, 2023 |
labake1:iya oloja |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Praktikals1000: 9:07pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:If he wins millions today and he gives you a large chunk, wont you collect it? Instead of you to be praying for him to hit it big |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by ahnie: 9:07pm On May 16, 2023 |
Kobo of laive,leave her alone,when she gets tired she knows what to do.maybe she's looking for free money. I remember vividly when she started this her epistles,we advised her to look for something to do,a user even gifted her 10k.if na woman wey get sense,she for use that 10k start something no matter how lil it's. Most of us do not even put hope on our husbands,when there re kids to be fed,....she never ready.pride go do her something Kobojunkie: 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 9:08pm On May 16, 2023 |
labake1: Shut up jor. But you can collect money from men that bet, abi? 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by osazsky(m): 9:09pm On May 16, 2023 |
If he is out of work how does he gets cash to gamble With |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 9:09pm On May 16, 2023 |
Praktikals1000: No mind am. Make she dey play. Madam, pray make your guy bet enter. No come here dey nag. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by isax(m): 9:09pm On May 16, 2023 |
several persons have advised that you keep praying,I would say you stick to same.and have faith... Imagine what your husband would look like if he stops gambling and keep trusting God for that day to come. But if you want to continue moving around for different options good luck 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Madups(m): 9:10pm On May 16, 2023 |
Nor vex.. Are you married? labake1: |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by macphilip: 9:10pm On May 16, 2023 |
Ma'am, you saw the red flags when you were dating him, but chose to ignore. Anyway, which of these 4 vices below is the worst for a man? Drinking Smoking Gambling Womanizing |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dododawa1: 9:11pm On May 16, 2023 |
For better for worst is marriage You stayed when is HITTING gambling Wella then. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Ezedon(m): 9:11pm On May 16, 2023 |
Don't worry he will soon win 50 million |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by gaddafe(m): 9:11pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Madam the root cause of your problem is not gambling but that he doesn't have a job. A man that doesn't have a job doesn't think straight. 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Herberthansome: 9:11pm On May 16, 2023 |
[Go on your knees in prayer to God Almighty my dear. God solves all problems.quote author=Dearlove2me post=123174991]Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through. I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband. We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other. My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again. All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all. He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand. He presently have no job and he's owning a lot. He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction. Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen. What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade? I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself. I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support. [/quote] |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dododawa1: 9:12pm On May 16, 2023 |
For better for worst is marriage You stayed when is HITTING gambling Wella then. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by isabi2lof: 9:12pm On May 16, 2023 |
You knew him to be a gambler before getting married to him , how can you get married to someone that sees gambling as a way of life. There's no need of divorcing him , I don't think he will see another woman to fund his gambling lifestyle. Your husband isn't a baby , you will just turn yourself to an old woman because of prayer and fasting, you can as well look away , leave him to himself. Na because you no get money, na why you dey complain, money stops all bullshits . Anybody wey him head no wan correct, make he or she stay for their papa house, I stress nobody, nobody stress's me . When money comes tomorrow, he won't remember all your scarifices , how many times has he prayed for you ? God will not come down from heaven to help anyone. All these men asking you to pray , is because they're also gamblers like him . I don't get is he a baby for crying out loud , oh my gosh , I don't even want to imagine things. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by stevnwigw1: 9:12pm On May 16, 2023 |
Have you tried getting him a job? |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Dshocker(m): 9:12pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Madam, i see your husband winning N45m with N100 bet in Sportybet. Madam joy is coming. 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 9:13pm On May 16, 2023 |
omoadeleye: Yes o. He can never be unlucky for 365 days in a year. One day, one day. 4 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Herberthansome: 9:13pm On May 16, 2023 |
Go on your knees in prayer, God solves all problems . |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by ogascomax: 9:13pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: You have prayed so allow your prayer to work na. You want to answer your prayer yourself. New Living Translation Then you will not become spiritually dull and indifferent. Instead, you will follow the example of those who are going to inherit God’s promises because of their faith and endurance. Heb 6:12. The problem with modern marriage is that they want result now now. No more endurance or patient. They can't take what our parents took. My dad was a drunk for decades but not anymore. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by SerikiFulani(m): 9:14pm On May 16, 2023 |
This year alone, I've lost 4.5million naira to Sportybet & BetNaija Gambling is a terrible addiction 😩 Woe betide you if you don't have a reliable source of income or if you still struggling 🥲 I do it for fun but most times,some games/odds can be tempting. Gambling is bad, please run from it. 6 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by TheOnlyUyai(f): 9:15pm On May 16, 2023 |
Officialetila: Same here. We gather dey. MrFelix game, abi? |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by osazsky(m): 9:15pm On May 16, 2023 |
Have u tried joining him too in gambling..u fit just win change his life |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Bewiseedet(m): 9:15pm On May 16, 2023 |
If there's any solution I'd like to know. I'm an addict too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by isabi2lof: 9:17pm On May 16, 2023 |
Herberthansome: Her knees are hurting her 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Honsla: 9:17pm On May 16, 2023 |
My advice might look stupid, but it's the best advice. *Gambling is a very serious addiction, same as drugs. I was once a chronic gambler (like we started bet9ja virtual gambling ) I tried all possible way to stop(prayers, visited a psychiatrist, took medication) but I couldn't stop. My social and academical life was dying gradually. * solution to gambling I learnt gambling is an habit caused by greed, You use an addiction to stop another addiction. Wake him in the middle of the night and compare him to his mate, let him see reasons to stop Advice him to get an online skill (even if na yahoo sef) this will take most of his time and he will eventually stop gambling It's over 3 years now since I stopped and don't ever feel like going back . Time when person go use hustle for net, person go use am gamble, even the money when I person go use gamble if you use am run Fake ads for crypto, buy phishing log or card dating sites sef e go better. Advice your husband to find another money making addiction If he refused to stop divorce him asap He never ready for life 2 Likes |
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