Shy-One:

She is cheating - Darling?

I call my guy baby and babe. That is what I call him - I NEVER USE THAT TERM WITH ANYONE - EVER. And I never will and if I do - it is because we are personally involved.

Darling? Who talks like that?

The model "Iman" called everyone "Dahhhhhling" for effect.

That is not what it sounds like from the "poster's description"

And then for there to be silence - makes it certain to me that the woman, "figured out she had made a mistake" - she then couldn't "own her mistake" and she quickly got off the phone and did not call back "probably from embarrassment and fear"

If she wasn't cheating or creeping - she would have immediately on the phone laughed and corrected herself by explaining her usage of that word to her guy. But her actions of hanging up and not calling - are clear signs that "she ain't right"

micheall36:

The truth of the matter is she is seeing another guy, whom she thought was u when u called
and the pause was as a result of realising that she has fuckt up, now she aint calling cause
u caught her red handed and there is no lies to tell so she dont have the courage to face you.

To the house:-You guys should learn to say things the way it is, she has no dahm excuse of calling him darling
and asking if he aint coming, when dey dont have agreement of him comming arround.

Well dude call her and face her with her guilt and see how it goes thats all, the ball is in your court.

l.a.j:

cant u read the poster said they muted for seconds?dont you all read any meaning to that?to hit the nail on the head,that lady is a flirt or better still ashewo.o n doko

sauer:

U stil vn't cleard whether u call'd her wit your regular no or a different one. If she waz seeing some1, dnt u tink she'l v d persn's number stor'd?

harakiri:

@Mrs Chima, The brazen hypocrisy and double standards of you women never fails to amaze me. A guy comes here explaining how his girlfriend picked his call and from what he heard, it's obvious she was expecting a guy who WASN'T him and your contribution is to make him the culprit. You even went as far as stating that "the voice of guys could sound alike". How low can you go this woman? How many men sound like your husband? If it was a lady who came here with THE SAME post, you would have been all over it like an angry hen in heat period. You and the NL feminazi would have told her to kick him to the curbs but since it's a guy, you will defend your fellow woman. Even if he caught her pants down with another man, you'll still bring up one flimsy excuse to defend e.g they were probably working out and she tripped while she fell and they found themselves on top of each other. Amazing! Why una no dey ever get truth for mouth?

Shy-One:

She is cheating - Darling?

I call my guy baby and babe. That is what I call him - I NEVER USE THAT TERM WITH ANYONE - EVER. And I never will and if I do - it is because we are personally involved.

Darling? Who talks like that?

The model "Iman" called everyone "Dahhhhhling" for effect.

That is not what it sounds like from the "poster's description"

And then for there to be silence - makes it certain to me that the woman, "figured out she had made a mistake" - she then couldn't "own her mistake" and she quickly got off the phone and did not call back "probably from embarrassment and fear"

If she wasn't cheating or creeping - she would have immediately on the phone laughed and corrected herself by explaining her usage of that word to her guy. But her actions of hanging up and not calling - are clear signs that "she ain't right"

micheall36:

The truth of the matter is she is seeing another guy, whom she thought was u when u called
and the pause was as a result of realising that she has fuckt up, now she aint calling cause
u caught her red handed and there is no lies to tell so she dont have the courage to face you.

micheall36:

To the house:-You guys should learn to say things the way it is, she has no dahm excuse of calling him darling
and asking if he aint coming, when dey dont have agreement of him comming arround.

Kc3000:

Yeah, it wouldn't be as suspicious if the awkward silence had not occurred, and then she hangs up and hasn't called back. Consider yourself lucky, at least now you know what she's been up to, even though the cold treatment she had been giving you should have been a hint. It's tough, especially if you loved her, but man up, regroup and move on to bigger and better things.

harakiri:

@Mrs Chima, The brazen hypocrisy and double standards of you women never fails to amaze me. A guy comes here explaining how his girlfriend picked his call and from what he heard, it's obvious she was expecting a guy who WASN'T him and your contribution is to make him the culprit. You even went as far as stating that "the voice of guys could sound alike". How low can you go this woman? How many men sound like your husband? If it was a lady who came here with THE SAME post, you would have been all over it like an angry hen in heat period. You and the NL feminazi would have told her to kick him to the curbs but since it's a guy, you will defend your fellow woman. Even if he caught her pants down with another man, you'll still bring up one flimsy excuse to defend e.g they were probably working out and she tripped while she fell and they found themselves on top of each other. Amazing! Why una no dey ever get truth for mouth?

Abule oshi:

me and my girlfriend are in different states in Nigeria, i recentltly called her and she said "darling thought you were coming". i never told her i was coming to see her, so it was obvious she thought it was someone else. after like 20 seconds silence from both of us, she cut the call and she has not called and i have not called her also. i tink she is cheating, do u agree?

Using the Product rule  : Probability that the first inference is right (1/2) * Probability that the second inference is right (1) = 1/2.

Therefore, mathematically there's a 50% chance that she's cheating.

However, realistically, there's a 100% that she's cheating.

OP, you're welcome. 

People use the term "darling" loosely these days when speaking to work mates, colleagues, close friends e.t.c.; I wouldn't want to conclude that the lady in question is cheating. Me and my fellow female work mates toss around the term on a regular basis, it's perfectly normal; we don't even view it as mild flirting. I think it has to do with the nature of the environment where you live/work/play; in my environment, the use of that term is not restricted to only those in a relationship

This is most reason why marriage /relationship are breaking down. Even some married men/women are calling outsiders darling which is not supposed to be. pls don't use the right word in the wrong place


@poster . . .that ur babe pussy is being rammed front and back by someone

You  just can't conclude from the DARLING she used cos people use pet names recklessly these days[b](I'm guilty of that too)[/b]

Man2utd:

she thought it was the dog calling, she is not cheating

you are one post old and you are starting like this . . . .