kokoye:

It is obvious people are deliberately ignoring the highlighted portion of the post . . .I wonder why.  This aint just about the 'Darling'

People dont read posts but rush to comment.  that's just like writing down answers without seeing the exam questions. smh

@ OP.

If there was silence after realising it was you, she hung up and has not called back . . .yes, that is guilty conscience and she's playing tough hoping the issue would go away. Or so doesnt really care about you again

Yes, something's going on anyhow.

Realistic analysis,i will have to agree
@OP Move on,i believe there is a better life ahead for you and someone else prolly not this girl.

lovejohn:

See I have a friend that usually called my dear as well whenever we are speaking or chatting and his hubby do aware so calling someone else dear does not mean that she's dating him although it took some time before her hubby to understand as well despite the fact that we went to the institution So take it easy my friend, she may not cheat on you at the same time don't put 100% trust in any woman because they're unpredictable.

lol-- Pls why are most people intentionally skipping some vital parts of OP's first post? 

Abule oshi:

This is for everyone askin if i called with my number. She has two lines and i call her regularly on one particaluar line. But that day, i tried dat particular line and she didnt pick. Because i had important info 4 her, i called her other line and thats when i heard d rubbish. my take was since i hardly called that line, she didnt expect a call from me on dat line and mayb thats the line d "Darling" calls often and they probably spoke shortly b4 my call came in. And in d excitement of expecting d "Darling" she didnt bother to look at d name calling. i have dated her 4 a while now, and if d darling meant nothing she would have spoken up instead of keepin silent. when she said wat she said i called my name 4 her to know it was d wrong person she was talkin to,i did dat to get an explanation, instead she went cold and silent before hangin up.
[/b]YOU never understand life, cos wen i met her she said she had to pack up her last relationship cos her former boyfriend cheated on her recklessly. So for someone who knows how it feels to be cheated on to engage in acts dat are suspicious,whether real or fake is funny. Lastly she is not d type dat drops darling randomly!
So she is guilty as charged.
CALL THE NEXT CASE!

Komedy:

ok.my uncle shud kil himself because his onyinbo wife calls  me sweetheart,baby,honey and even d name she calls my uncle 'love'

harakiri:

@Komedy, How many times has your uncle's oyinbo wife told a man "Darling,are you still coming over"? You people still don't get it. It's not just about the "darling factor". She was expecting another guy who to come see her and when she realized her blunder, she froze. If it was an innocent thing, they would have laughed over it on the phone and ended it there. The other guy she was expecting is evidently yanshing her that is why she froze silent because of guilt. If it was a random admirer, she would have recovered or called back. Read between the lines my friend. It's not that hard to see the writing on the wall.

zignor:

This is most reason why marriage /relationship are breaking down. Even some married men/women are calling outsiders darling which is not supposed to be. pls don't use the right word in the wrong place.

zignor:

@poster . . .that your babe Kitty is being rammed front and back by someone

xxxkubexxx:

as long as "ASHAWO DEY GET BOYFRIEND", no chic for naija worth any care from a naija boy. period

harakiri:

@babe!, The thing tire me ooo! Human "beans" sef, lol.

Abule oshi:

This is for everyone askin if i called with my number. She has two lines and i call her regularly on one particaluar line. But that day, i tried dat particular line and she didnt pick. Because i had important info 4 her, i called her other line and thats when i heard d rubbish. my take was since i hardly called that line, she didnt expect a call from me on dat line and mayb thats the line d "Darling" calls often and they probably spoke shortly b4 my call came in. And in d excitement of expecting d "Darling" she didnt bother to look at d name calling. i have dated her 4 a while now, and if d darling meant nothing she would have spoken up instead of keepin silent. when she said wat she said i called my name 4 her to know it was d wrong person she was talkin to,i did dat to get an explanation, instead she went cold and silent before hangin up.
YOU never understand life, cos wen i met her she said she had to pack up her last relationship cos her former boyfriend cheated on her recklessly. So for someone who knows how it feels to be cheated on to engage in acts dat are suspicious,whether real or fake is funny. Lastly she is not d type dat drops darling randomly!
So she is guilty as charged.
CALL THE NEXT CASE!

Abule oshi:

True talk, i believe u. I have moved on already and ocupying myself with plenty work. no time 4 woman now, mayb later.

harakiri:

@xxxkubexxx, That's real talk man. One thing I've noticed with relationships is that you are either cheating or being cheated. It doesn't matter if you are dating or married. It's just a matter of time before the inevitable happens. The sad part is whereas men are easily found out, women hide theirs to their dying days. A woman can sleep with all your brothers,cousins and friends and you won't suspect a thing until one of them opens up or acts suspicous. I have tried deluding myself in the one man-one woman relationship and in the long run, I end up being cheated on (I'm not ashamed to admit it coz it's life experiences). The only time you can keep a woman on her toes is when they know you have a roll call of women to replace them and they know you can dump them at the drop of a pin. They can be so dumb and stoopid most times with their reasoning.