My wife doesn’t want to have sex anymore. She’s always “tired” from work, house stuff, baby, etc. I do help with everything I can, but she’s just always “tired”.
Is it morally wrong for me to find someone else to have sex with? I’m not gross, there are plenty of people who would want to have sex with me, so is it wrong to deny myself just because she can’t handle her lot?

DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife doesn’t want to have sex anymore. She’s always “tired” from work, house stuff, baby, etc. I do help with everything I can, but she’s just always “tired”.
Is it morally wrong for me to find someone else to have sex with? I’m not gross, there are plenty of people who would want to have sex with me, so is it wrong to deny myself just because she can’t handle her lot?

Maybe in your religion a second wife would be best... BUT MORALLY.... you need to ASK YOURSELF HOW SHE WOULD FEEL.

why not set up a business for her so she can have more time.
or
go for therapy and counseling to know if she is actually NOT tired but just has ISSUES WITH YOU or with your WAY OF SEX.

Consider this before making moves to cheat o

Has this been a problem in marriages for that long and married men are just beginning to speak up a lot more recently? or it's a new problem? Cos y'all are getting me scared of this marriage thing.
Or could they be fake stories?
Cos the rate of the complaints from husband's recently has been very alarming.

If I'm to go by all the complaints from different men in such a short while I could say that the majority of women don't really give a duck about men, they just need you for your name,the "Mrs" title,children and your responsibility for all of it then you can go bleep yourself while all they'll care about is everything else except you🤷🏾‍♀️
Shout out to the men out there!
Stay strong and put yourself first!

AndrewTate:
Has this been a problem in marriages for that long and married men are just beginning to speak up a lot more recently? or it's a new problem? Cos y'all are getting me scared of this marriage thing.
Or could they be fake stories?
Cos the rate of the complaints from husband's recently has been very alarming.

If I'm to go by all the complaints from different men in such a short while I could say that the majority of women don't really give a duck about men, they just need you for your name,the "Mrs" title,children and your responsibility for all of it then you can go bleep yourself while all they'll care about is everything else except you🤷🏾‍♀️
Shout out to the men out there!
Stay strong and put yourself first!

Or you could instead figure that many of these posters, like this particular OP, go around creating these threads for attention purposes.

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Kobojunkie:
Or you could instead figure that many of these posters, like this particular OP, go around creating these threads for attention purposes.

It's like you're daft.

Why would I create a thread to seek mere attention I could've gotten else where .

Ah Ah!!!
Who say Islam no sweet abeg?

Maybe for Yoruba Muslims, you'd hardly hear/see a northern Muslim facing this challenge.


Alhamdulillah

How many threads will be made on this Sex denial issue? 😕😏🤦

All diz Weak Married Men should visit any Ashawo quarters close to Them
and stop giving us Headache on this forum.

Women in Nigeria this days want to be like man and it never possible but they don’t understand. Men they be a Simp at first and the end for a woman . If she tells you no sex bro package your self get better cloth better and man things you go see babe way go appreciate you outside then continue with the new one even if is just sex please your self . If wait till your wife beg you back or tell you she is leaving her self that is the safest thing . Than begging your wife for sex and she is turning you down using you to cruise bro . Bro believe it ladies body they hot pass man in sex mood they will never tell you this just not to make them look cheap bro that is the key . So don’t let woman give you headache. If you think say na fine girl you marry for house bro you go meet the one way fine pass your wife outside for sure . So why will you let one woman make you feel less and na you still they feed am fu(k that is simp to me

Kobojunkie:
Or you could instead figure that many of these posters, like this particular OP, go around creating these threads for attention purposes.

He talks about his wife a lot. I think he’s married

Very soon in Nigeria Christian will soon be marrying 2 or 3 wives 😂

Happiness is free

If you don't seek for sex elsewhere that marriage is gonna take a hit. If you seek for sex and get it from another company your marriage will be heading for the rock.


Everything has been designed to turn in ruins.

The one thing that could help is having a discuss with her.


Kindly check my signature for goodies

Dedicate yourself to God for one month if she's so adamant
Forget about sex
Fast and pray for that month and see if your life and spirit won't attract changes that is more than sex....it might even inspire your wife

Maybe you should get an Exotic Escort in your location bro. Discreet and quality service, no strings will always ease that strong sexual urge

Poster pretend like you are seeing someone else . Na she go come to you

Divorce that bastard.

Kobojunkie:
Or you could instead figure that many of these posters, like this particular OP, go around creating these threads for attention purposes.

Your mental thought line, not bad. I'll think along the same line too. But mehn, Marriage life is different, which is why most men of 35 - 40yrs + are not eager to marry again. While the women just need sperm donors.

Imagine if a man's sperm is weak when he's 45 - 50yrs +, and women can give birth anytime, Men for see shege banza

Go buy yourself sex on the streets.

Use condom though.

SenecaTheYonger:
■ He talks about his wife a lot. I think he’s married

A woman he talks disrespectfully about in most of his threads? I don't know if he is married at all but I suspect he does this for attention. He sort of reminds me of the character MalignantGuest.