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How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by purejustice36: 12:05am On May 31, 2023
Regards to the topic , please share your ideas because the Billings of today can drive one crazy esp when you’re still struggling with your own life
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There are some people you can’t ignore their messages or tell no , how do I conquer this pls ?

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by Bobdaddy0007(m): 12:12am On May 31, 2023
Use force to ignore them

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by sumex20(m): 12:29am On May 31, 2023
Learn to ignore them whenever they bill you. Either message or call! Just look for some flimsy excuses if you happened to meet them in person by accident. That’s the only way you won’t get them offended.

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by dontrulee: 1:15am On May 31, 2023
It's very easy.
Nobody likes to be rejected.
Tell them that they came a little too late, assuming they've asked few days ago, you would have given them.
If they ask for 5k, you can tell them you don't have up to that, that you have 2k or 1,500# (if you are willing to give). If you don't want to give them at all, tell them that you recently borrowed someone money and you'll try to get something across to them as soon as the person pays back. If they ask you again some days after, tell them the person hasn't paid back and you don't have any money to spare. They would have gotten the message that you don't want to give them.

NB: use this approach for people that you know you can't benefit anything from, but it's good to help people because you may also need help in the future. The help you give today will come back to meet you in the future. Be wise and take care of yourself first. grin grin

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by Alonso91(m): 2:35am On May 31, 2023
Oga be rude if need be.....Na buhari promax be president now o


S'otiye?

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by 9182736455O1999(m): 7:40am On May 31, 2023
dontrulee:
It's very easy.
Nobody likes to be rejected.
Tell them that they came a little too late, assuming they've asked few days ago, you would have given them.
If they ask for 5k, you can tell them you don't have up to that, that you have 2k or 1,500# (if you are willing to give). If you don't want to give them at all, tell them that you recently borrowed someone money and you'll try to get something across to them as soon as the person pays back. If they ask you again some days after, tell them the person hasn't paid back and you don't have any money to spare. They would have gotten the message that you don't want to give them.

NB: use this approach for people that you know you can't benefit anything from, but it's good to help people because you may also need help in the future. The help you give today will come back to meet you in the future. Be wise and take care of yourself first. grin grin
Hmmn. How do you know people you will never benefit something from?
The life when we dey live fit shock us in many ways o.

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by Jaybee3456: 8:24am On May 31, 2023
9182736455O1999:

Hmmn. How do you know people you will never benefit something from?
The life when we dey live fit shock us in many ways o.

Leave am lol, wtf is "give people you know you will benefit from" life no get formula o, money dey change hand quick grin

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Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by Kylekent59: 10:55am On May 31, 2023
Remember everything is vanity. To be rich is to give and not to be stingy.

Take a look at it this way: you are holding a plate of rice and they are asking you for one spoon.

Then the people here are telling you to tell them that the plate is empty.

I bet you won't sleep knowing quite well you didn't give them a spoon just to taste how sweet the rice is.

It's left for you to give or not.
Re: How To Avoid Family And Friends Billing Without Being Rude ? by ruggedtimi(m): 12:34pm On May 31, 2023
Show them the screenshot of ur account with low balance. ...last last you owe nobody sh*t. Maybe unless ur parents. But is always better to respond than to ignore them. Always respond like 30mins or 1hr after the message was dropped.

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