pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

pachigo001:
we are the same religion

Sisora:
I have one rule as a man.

If someone else influences my woman's decision more than I do, she's not and will never be the one.

Just this one rule.

tiswell:
Oga,rest,you are not a full blooded NWA AFO.

Igbo guys are the prize, when it comes to marriage, anywhere in naija.

fyzaila:


You're telling him to go and marry his tribe, didn't you read where he said he is Igbo and the girl isn't. Abi isn't it igbo that gives ridiculous and outrageous bride price list?

Brownshoe:
I hate people who use deep English just to make us intoxicated by exuberance of verbosity betaprutal contraption.🥴🙄🤷🏼‍♀️

Shedrack777:
shay na her brother dey deny you from her? simple! just pour hot akamu inside her konkoni, na him go dey beg you make you come marry her

pachigo001:
her brother said he don’t like igbos

pachigo001:
her brother said he don’t like igbos

pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

Sisora:
I have one rule as a man.

If someone else influences my woman's decision more than I do, she's not and will never be the one.

Just this one rule.

incandescentena:
Atiku married Yoruba. Davido married Igbo. FFK married Igbo. Bashir el-rufai married Igbo, and many moore. So whats the issue?!

pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

incandescentena:
Atiku married Yoruba. Davido married Igbo. FFK married Igbo. Bashir el-rufai married Igbo, and many moore. So whats the issue?!

marvy7:
Op... I hope u see this..
The girl likes u that's why she tells u... As a man it's expected u are or should be smarter and more matured than her... So if she saying this you ask her the reasons her brother isn't down with it... And seek to be close to the her brother and figure what it can be ....
Bt if go no go.... Turn back o... Family is important in marriage

pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

pachigo001:
we are the same religion

pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

gassbee:
which state is she from

bigpicture001:


na una two dey marry not the brother nd u....if sh is down with u nd parents are coll with u both...abeg forget siblings


na so my ex sister push to dump me say i no get big money...the mumu geh listen to her even when our relationship na model relationship...sh dump my sorry arss...pathetic


nd went after richer guy...now sh dey 32, sh nd richer guy everday na " i caught u" i caught u"... no proposal, na only... how was ur night, hv u eaten...

babe wey dey disturb me for marriage den nd i dey plan in next 12 months don nack another 3 years waiting gor proposal from mr...cheat...

abeg marry only who send u..leave siblings, den dey dey too emotional

Agadinaagwuofe:


I am going to tell you the gospel truth that I will tell my sibling with hope you will hear. The way Nigeria is now, there is a high tense moments between tribes especially people from the SE and the hate is manifesting. The "sensible" thing to do is STICK TO YOUR OWN because the hate the family had for you might transcends the love she had for you and you will have yourself to blame.

Watch her moves and if she is having double mind don't force her and quietly move on and limit your risk, love alone can't sustain marriage that is just the truth many will not tell you, it is too early to start fighting that battle and at the end is all going to be a pyrrhic victory, I have no issues with inter-tribal but only when the two families agreed to do it in peace anything outside that just move on it doesn't worth the fight in long run.

dawnomike:
Have you tried speaking to her brother about it to know his reasons and opinion?

Mcslize:


First, does she know how to speak her language? If she doesn't know how to speak her language, then the issue of you not being from her tribe doesn't hold to me.