I love this babe and intend to settle down with her but a couple of things keep worrying me.

When we started dating she was usually on call with a lot of guys whenever she visits until one day I asked her whether she has a lot of boyfriends? She responded no and stopped these calls whenever she is around. I don't know if she continued the calls at her house or she has really stopped calling those guys.

Another thing I noticed with this girl is that she celebrates a lot of guys on her WhatsApp status. Hardly celebrate any girl. Personally, I can't celebrate any girl's birthday on my WhatsApp status if she's not my girlfriend or sister. So I keep wondering why this girl celebrate a lot of men on her status.

Ok. Today I noticed that we have a mutual friend that celebrated birthday yesterday. I'm not very close to the friend but we are both on WhatsApp, so I do see his status. The guy posted on his status that my babe sent him money, I was like what the Bleep. So celebrating men is not enough, she's also sending money. This friend is married by the way so I'm surprised.

Other posts on her WhatsApp status are vilifying women that do hookup or women that act indecently. She has no control on how dirty her WhatsApp status could be, like showing a video of a girl doing some crazy things with her vagina and she would be advising girls with that kind of video. One day, I told her to stop those kind of sexually explicit posts. Gave her reasons why it's important she stopped. Basically that she has younger ones on her contacts. She agreed and stopped being too extreme on these posts about sex. Again, I'm not sure if she really stopped or blocks me whenever she's making such explicit post.

To be fair to her, she did engineering in school and also posts church things. She matched my energy in sex Na wetin I take dey forgive her

What's your view about this kind of person based on these status posts?

This one still dey ask questions....hahahahaha...you be jajayC

Can you live with her, knowing she has too many male friends, if you're not OK with her attitude find someone else...people don't really change

I have bone like that, tho she is not my girlfriend, but she celebrate guys birthday almost every week, some months everyday sef. But e no concern me

It’s all about optics, outlook and perspective. She may have dated people in the past who didn’t mind these things. The question is do you mind? If you do it’s your responsibility to communicate your displeasure to her.

It’s up to her to decide what’s worth more to her, you or the other guys. It’s up to you to decide on how to proceed based on her decision.

Do you have a big dick?

How you guys manages to date a Nigerian girl let alone even intending to settle down with them is still a mystery to me till today.

Op, The earlier you understand that the girl is an olosho and a hook-up girl, the better for you. Stop behaving like an insecure weak dude and hit her pussy, then dump her and move on. Oga, that girl belongs to the streets just like the average Nigerian girl

You can't change a hoe, enjoy her cunt and go your way.

Your babe is adikted or adikulated There is not much you can do to change a hoe, do yours and match on . The guy who eventually stays with her will be the one to bear the hurt.

Persephone1:
I await the time you guys will decide to get clays and mould ladies you want. If it will stop reading silly threads like this, I will volunteer to go on 100 days fasting so God can breathe into your moulded images.

There's something called individual differences, even twins are different. The most important thing is the readiness to compromise and bring out the best in each other.

Hain! People dating guys like you dey try!

In all he wrote this is only what you can deduce?
wow, you guys dating Nigerian girls dey try.

webm:
I love this babe and intend to settle down with her but a couple of things keep worrying me.

When we started dating she was usually on call with a lot of guys whenever she visits until one day I asked her whether she has a lot of boyfriends? She responded no and stopped these calls whenever she is around. I don't know if she continued the calls at her house or she has really stopped calling those guys.

Another thing I noticed with this girl is that she celebrates a lot of guys on her WhatsApp status. Hardly celebrate any girl. Personally, I can't celebrate any girl's birthday on my WhatsApp status if she's not my girlfriend or sister. So I keep wondering why this girl celebrate a lot of men on her status.

Ok. Today I noticed that we have a mutual friend that celebrated birthday yesterday. I'm not very close to the friend but we are both on WhatsApp, so I do see his status. The guy posted on his status that my babe sent him money, I was like what the Bleep. So celebrating men is not enough, she's also sending money. This friend is married by the way so I'm surprised.

Other posts on her WhatsApp status are vilifying women that do hookup or women that act indecently. She has no control on how dirty her WhatsApp status could be, like showing a video of a girl doing some crazy things with her vagina and she would be advising girls with that kind of video. One day, I told her to stop those kind of sexually explicit posts. Gave her reasons why it's important she stopped. Basically that she has younger ones on her contacts. She agreed and stopped being too extreme on these posts about sex. Again, I'm not sure if she really stopped or blocks me whenever she's making such explicit post.

To be fair to her, she did engineering in school and also posts church things. She matched my energy in sex Na wetin I take dey forgive her.

What's your view about this kind of person based on these status posts?

@ the boldest, devil always has a bait

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Bros she’s for the street, and for everyone don’t colonize or personalize her

To have peace of mind, kindly back away emotionally and enjoy that same she matches your energy with, no be only sex Dey sustain marriage

All these red flags you are seeing and advising her to stop that you think she has stop na when you marry her you go know say she no stop anything

Give your self peace of mind and happiness, by completely stopping any marriage or relationship plan with her, enjoy the sex she gives with maximum protection and face front

How some of you don’t even think like fully developed humans dey baffle me, so because of just sex energy you wan marry a girl with all these baggages

Pray for her

Check my signature and thank me later

Very wrong place to seek for relationship advice. You know the males on nairaland are haters of women/girls. They will always say you should quit

You don't need a prophet to tell u these are red flags

webm:
I love this babe and intend to settle down with her but a couple of things keep worrying me.

When we started dating she was usually on call with a lot of guys whenever she visits until one day I asked her whether she has a lot of boyfriends? She responded no and stopped these calls whenever she is around. I don't know if she continued the calls at her house or she has really stopped calling those guys.

Another thing I noticed with this girl is that she celebrates a lot of guys on her WhatsApp status. Hardly celebrate any girl. Personally, I can't celebrate any girl's birthday on my WhatsApp status if she's not my girlfriend or sister. So I keep wondering why this girl celebrate a lot of men on her status.

Ok. Today I noticed that we have a mutual friend that celebrated birthday yesterday. I'm not very close to the friend but we are both on WhatsApp, so I do see his status. The guy posted on his status that my babe sent him money, I was like what the Bleep. So celebrating men is not enough, she's also sending money. This friend is married by the way so I'm surprised.

Other posts on her WhatsApp status are vilifying women that do hookup or women that act indecently. She has no control on how dirty her WhatsApp status could be, like showing a video of a girl doing some crazy things with her vagina and she would be advising girls with that kind of video. One day, I told her to stop those kind of sexually explicit posts. Gave her reasons why it's important she stopped. Basically that she has younger ones on her contacts. She agreed and stopped being too extreme on these posts about sex. Again, I'm not sure if she really stopped or blocks me whenever she's making such explicit post.

To be fair to her, she did engineering in school and also posts church things. She matched my energy in sex Na wetin I take dey forgive her

What's your view about this kind of person based on these status posts?

You nor get sense at all. You dey see all this red light you still dey talk rubbish. Because of say she sabi Bleep you well. Marry her na. Fool

Guys and insecurities

webm:
I love this babe and intend to settle down with her but a couple of things keep worrying me.

When we started dating she was usually on call with a lot of guys whenever she visits until one day I asked her whether she has a lot of boyfriends? She responded no and stopped these calls whenever she is around. I don't know if she continued the calls at her house or she has really stopped calling those guys.

Another thing I noticed with this girl is that she celebrates a lot of guys on her WhatsApp status. Hardly celebrate any girl. Personally, I can't celebrate any girl's birthday on my WhatsApp status if she's not my girlfriend or sister. So I keep wondering why this girl celebrate a lot of men on her status.

Ok. Today I noticed that we have a mutual friend that celebrated birthday yesterday. I'm not very close to the friend but we are both on WhatsApp, so I do see his status. The guy posted on his status that my babe sent him money, I was like what the Bleep. So celebrating men is not enough, she's also sending money. This friend is married by the way so I'm surprised.

Other posts on her WhatsApp status are vilifying women that do hookup or women that act indecently. She has no control on how dirty her WhatsApp status could be, like showing a video of a girl doing some crazy things with her vagina and she would be advising girls with that kind of video. One day, I told her to stop those kind of sexually explicit posts. Gave her reasons why it's important she stopped. Basically that she has younger ones on her contacts. She agreed and stopped being too extreme on these posts about sex. Again, I'm not sure if she really stopped or blocks me whenever she's making such explicit post.

To be fair to her, she did engineering in school and also posts church things. She matched my energy in sex Na wetin I take dey forgive her

What's your view about this kind of person based on these status posts?

Don't let her innocent looks deceive you, run for your life,

They will scatter your relationship here aje.

But you don't change an adult tho.

Na we be your best plug for everything Sexual enhancement tho

She's probably a social type, guys love girls that socialize a lot for her to send her married friend money on his birthday,op your girl is open minded talk to her she seems like a playful type...at least she's not hiding herself then when you marry she will explode,talk to your bae and make your choice.