im dating a guy and his mother wanted to go to the priest with her son for the priest to pray over the relationship to see if it is the will of God. my boyfriend initially agreed, but when i said i diddn't feel comfortable with the situation he backed out and his mother was very unhappy with him about it.

my boyfriend insists that his mother likes me, and the prayers were just for confirmation, but i am not sure. we've been dating for about 8 months and i've suggested that i meet her this month, to clear my doubts but he says it is too soon and we should wait until late july.

should i be worried?

im in my late 20s he is in his early 30s

why were you uncomfortable with the idea of going to a priest?

do you have a dark past that you are yet to tell him?

is there something about you that makes you feel unsure of yourself?

U be winch?? Why u dey fear prayer??

Be testing the control u have over him....good girl....u are in control........baba is already refusing prayer his mother has been praying long before you came into the equation of their lives.....

Oyá naaa... tell him to kill his mother so u can be more comfortable...... because mama will still go to the priest to pray with or without him going with her.........

anthonyuncle:
why were you uncomfortable with the idea of going to a priest?

do you have a dark past that you are yet to tell him?

is there something about you that makes you feel unsure of yourself?

Priest nor dey see body count..... i dont know why she's uncomfortable......

Na chief priest Abi pastor?

If im the guy I will follow my mother to the end of the world just to know the truth. That's how one babe pin pregnancy on me, I carried her name to a prophet who confirmed I'm not the father.

Sxyhalima:
im dating a guy and his mother wanted to go to the priest with her son for the priest to pray over the relationship to see if it is the will of God. my boyfriend initially agreed, but when i said i diddn't feel comfortable with the situation he backed out and his mother was very unhappy with him about it.

my boyfriend insists that his mother likes me, and the prayers were just for confirmation, but i am not sure. we've been dating for about 8 months and i've suggested that i meet her this month, to clear my doubts but he says it is too soon and we should wait until late july.

should i be worried?

im in my late 20s he is in his early 30s

You're a devil that come to destroy that boy, why would you go against his mum seeking the face of GOD in his son's life

advanceDNA:


Priest nor dey see body count..... i dont know why she's uncomfortable......

She's evil that come to destroy

See nairaland people biko, person come for advice you carry bashing give am.


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Retired Olosho wanted to settle down

diogo23:

She's evil that come to destroy

Do u blame her...na the idiot i blame rejecting his mother's suggestion because of a woman he met few months ago.... prayer wey your mama don dey pray for you since dem born u...

Women just feel marriage/sex makes them automatically superior or equal to a man's mother

...my first girlfriend after college said i give my mother money every month that i was cheating her by not giving her too....i told her to pay her dues first before she claim right that belongs to another woman.... na she pursue herself.....

advanceDNA:


Priest nor dey see body count..... i dont know why she's uncomfortable......

shey na only body count?

Sxyhalima:
im dating a guy and his mother wanted to go to the priest with her son for the priest to pray over the relationship to see if it is the will of God. my boyfriend initially agreed, but when i said i diddn't feel comfortable with the situation he backed out and his mother was very unhappy with him about it.

my boyfriend insists that his mother likes me, and the prayers were just for confirmation, but i am not sure. we've been dating for about 8 months and i've suggested that i meet her this month, to clear my doubts but he says it is too soon and we should wait until late july.

should i be worried?

im in my late 20s he is in his early 30s

Why should you be worried about his mum taking him to a priest for prayer

Forget it, if God has picked you for him,
You will find favour aby where your name is mentioned on his matter

Unless you have something that you are hiding which they will find out and such can spoil show for you

I don't like partners going to visit various prophets .



If you are uncomfortable breakup

he has now changed his plans and says he wants to live at home until marriage because things are expensive
can a man marry me if he still lives in his parents house

Sxyhalima:
he has now changed his plans and says he wants to live at home until marriage because things are expensive
can a man marry me if he still lives in his parents house

your wahala too much
Ontop 7 months relationship.

Sxyhalima:
im dating a guy and his mother wanted to go to the priest with her son for the priest to pray over the relationship to see if it is the will of God. my boyfriend initially agreed, but when i said i diddn't feel comfortable with the situation he backed out and his mother was very unhappy with him about it.

my boyfriend insists that his mother likes me, and the prayers were just for confirmation, but i am not sure. we've been dating for about 8 months and i've suggested that i meet her this month, to clear my doubts but he says it is too soon and we should wait until late july.

should i be worried?

im in my late 20s he is in his early 30s

It's for the best, I know of someone like that. After introduction, her mom went to a Pastor for prayers. The pastor said that the guy will die young which will make her a widow. She has to cancel everything and she married another man. The former fiance is late now.
You too, go and pray over it.

This one na winch o

From your own side story you have nailed yourself by yourself.. You rejected the ideal of them visiting a Priest for Prayers to Blessed your union with your boyfriend...

Same you are so in rush for the union to take place and get married to him ...

I must say you have a big secret you are hiding and want to quickly get married to him before he/ his family finds out ... You are a very wicked lady I must say .. If your past is that dad and ugly why do you Want to drag this man into your disastrous life ... Now you are seeking for advice what kind of advice do you want to hear from Nairaland .... May God deliver all the innocent men and women that his or her partner want to deceive into dangerous marriage

Sxyhalima:
im dating a guy and his mother wanted to go to the priest with her son for the priest to pray over the relationship to see if it is the will of God. my boyfriend initially agreed, but when i said i diddn't feel comfortable with the situation he backed out and his mother was very unhappy with him about it.

my boyfriend insists that his mother likes me, and the prayers were just for confirmation, but i am not sure. we've been dating for about 8 months and i've suggested that i meet her this month, to clear my doubts but he says it is too soon and we should wait until late july.

should i be worried?

im in my late 20s he is in his early 30s

she diddnt want to take me for prayers just him and the son

i am meeting d mom on sunday at church

alaso positive updates, i saw messages where she was praying for me on many occassions that i have a great birthday weekend because she knows how hard i work. (he diddnt ask her to do that)

this was after he told her about an argument we had.

does that mean she likes me