Gamesmart:


I understand you are the type that feel you are the ish and prize.

They are many of you in the modern day. Delusionals!

Stop the delusion. You are definitely not a prize! You are of low value as a partner and need brain re-engineering to understand how to be a proper lady, who is valuable enough for the real prize, a top man that has status, can provide and protect.

Delusionals usually end up on the shelf. Many as washed-up, past-it single mothers, still keeping up their moral and ego by publicly saying they are single because they are looking for a high quality and high value real men, and that there are none available in the world anymore, when the reality is that those kind of men are plentiful but just would not want them and are busy with attractive young girls. Worse for the Delusionals is that average men don't want their past-it assses too; beyond using them for sex.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!





What an entitled gluttonous b**ch

pansophist:
But 12k small na. I mean, some restaurants inflate prices so high that just a bottle of wine and food might be bothering 20k. But again, this is a situation of medicine after death.

As a man, if 12k is too much to pay, then don't go to a restaurant that charges a lot. Also, who brought up this idea that dates have to be about eating and spending huge?

How about a date in the park, or at the beach? so you buy snacks from the supermarket, sit somewhere, talk, and enjoy nature/views? Without the noise, distraction, and encapsulating spaces that are typical of eateries?

We should really be easy on people. 12k is not much. He could have just paid but signed off from her matter. The 12k he spent becomes the sacrifice he has to bear to not be with someone he aint compatible with.

I mean the babe was begging, is his heart made of stone? come on. I repeat, 12k is not much. And as a man, you should know that you lead the tempo. If she suggests what seems like an off-limit to your pocket, you say no.

If you are asking a girl out, you retain the privilege to pick a place you can afford. If she refuses to go because she has a higher taste, then you just end it there, no need to dress up and get this disgraceful result which could have been filtered from the start.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

YouandiAllofus:
How can she carry her own food to a date in a public restaurant? Broke guyz should just stop pretending and avoid the outing part or any other monetery part that will lead to emberasement at the end of the day. Things are so expensive to the point that 10k no dey even reach to drink bear and cat-fish peper soup again

Proserpina:
This time frame would give more chances and justification for a lady to eat, after a long day at work fasting on a date would most likely not happen. So you see how you guys set yourself up, then turn on women for following your lead. Personally I don't go on dates on weekdays because of the nature of my job. You see personality, lifestyle differs. And dinner dates really shouldn't be with someone you are just getting to know because at the end you may end up not achieving that.

Not everyone lives in Lagos, although I believe if you truly want to know someone they should be at their well relaxed state. Not jogging dates between work days, how you get the best of that amuse me. Weekends are best moments for dates. But then Lagosians lifestyle differ sha.

Lol... You take a tired, hungry lady go date you no make she chop. I hear you She will even order take away she will microwave for the following day. Keep setting yourselves up, you hear.

Nwachi22:


Lol. It’s obvious that aside lack of exposure, you’re also mentally sick and need help.

You talk like someone who was conceived, born and bread under Ikeja bridge. So uncultured behaviour.

Won’t reply your messages again.

Persephone1:
Things are freaking expensive now, the 12k food may be just a plate and drink. The man is immature , the lady should have paid the money or suggest to go Dutch on this.

May we not meet an immature man o

Nwachi22:


Nna, there is no need pointing out anything to you because it’s obvious we don’t have same level of exposure and understanding.
I don’t want to end up trading words with you because that’s where you’re headed.

Shebbs:


Yes The Man Is Immature And The Lady In Question Is Mature Enough For Eating 12k On A Date Without Considering If The Man Can Afford That Amount At The Time, Knowing Fully Well Her Phone Is Off. You’re Just Another Useless Goat, No Sense.

Incrediblekutty:





10k can't obviously drink "Bear". But if it's beer, what kind of beer can't 10k buy??

Proserpina:
The same you that talk about traffic still expects a lady to do all that within that time frame. Lol more reason you should fix dates on weekends.

Lol these your rants dey funny me sha , so you are advocating for not eating on a date? Lol I hear you. Funny thing is I'm not even talking about food here and I'm not interested.
What I'm on about is types and purpose of dates. Lol. If you don't want your date to eat, set the occasion. It's very simple. When she wants to order, tell her No.

With a Nigerian man, everything is about money ooooooooooooooo

Proserpina:
Oga Naz I have heard you. Lol . 12k food no be food like refugee, some cocktail expensive pass that.

BTW, I know some ladies overdo and it's not nice

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

MetroLane:
Dear Nigerian Girls, please don't eat more than the amount you have in your wallet....

Some of you that have no money at all, please bring food from your house when coming.

Because una don use outing as opportunity to dey eat like thief.

pansophist:

Over-impressing comes from insecurity, lack of confidence, a scarcity mindset, and an ignorance of how power dynamics in relationship works.

I have always maintained that its broke guys that spend so much to prove themselves, since they have nothing going for them. They desperately have to come off as financially bouyant, and will even betray themselves just to secure a woman's acceptance.

But they failed with such strategy. The surest way will be to increase one value organically, that if a girl choose to walk out of your life, you'll feel sorry for her because both of you know it's her loss.

For example If Davido goes for a date with a girl in a local restaurant in Oshodi, no one will look down on him or assume he is broke. The girl will even think it's cute or that he is down to earth.

It goes back to the psychological phenomena known as the halo effect. The same rule used to punish a low value man will be used to reward a high value man. The work is always in yourself as a man, not outside.

Men shouldn't go to a date feeling like a chicken, feeling like she is doing you a favour to be there, even when you're the one spending. But for a man to be spending and still have to over impress is a very had foundation. Go work on yourself instead.

Proserpina:
Guy come and be going. Wetin self? They guy in the video said food not water (babe go sha drink something) but we all know how Nigerians classify everything as food nah.
Oya you are right, she shouldn't eat food up to 12 k.

Proserpina:
BTW , I no mind party jollof. He dey hungry me it's been long I enter owanbe

advanceDNA:


I dont know why women cant just courteously suggest the man do the ordering for both of them...no guy man will refuse to pay food he ordered for.... instead of behaving like an inconsiderate, hungry, entitled person...

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

Nwachi22:


😂 You want show your babe say you get money.
She must be a very nice person. Someone who is worth keeping.

djon78:


Yeah eating at Chinese restaurant will be around the amount you talked about

But there dishes makes sense and worth it

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!