HaneefahRN:
Broke guy. You don't have money you are inviting someone to eat out. Should have let the FFO girl know his budget.

PARADIZEPRIEST:
That is small,the girl that eat N300,000 last April nkoo?

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

seguno2:


Is this what blacks do, overdressing and doing bling bling spending on wasting assets instead of getting real to work on their communities for reduced racism as Asians and Arabs are doing

poseidon12:


Well said. Depending on one's class, I don't think 12k is too much to spend for food on a date ( for the Nigerian middle class).

pansophist:
Yes. The rule is very clear.

If you're externally focus, you have esteem issues and weak. If you're internally focused, yo are pretty much confident and strong.

Living to impress delegitimized one's value in relation to the impressed. It sends a clear message that others are better, and they are subpar.

And since impressing is the feature of the lower value man, he can't negotiate equally, but instead, have others impossed their will on him. If he successfully enters a relationship with a lady, he will be the one to compromise, forgive, tolerate and carry the bulk of the relationship.

Confidence and value is not something you manifest, invoke or fake, so understanding power dynamics in gender relationships without backing it up with real world success is nonsense. It will not work.

Nwachi22:


Lol. It’s obvious that aside lack of exposure, you’re also mentally sick and need help.

You talk like someone who was conceived, born and bread under Ikeja bridge. So uncultured behaviour.

Won’t reply your messages again.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

ffo:

Ffo??

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

holybabayo:
How come she is the one under pressure here. The waitress should hold the guy. The girl no sharp.
Some of these girls may not mean to out spend what the guy can't afford. Some guys are just fake. Just tell the girl say please sorry I'm not bucked up enough for that . No girl will buy something under that circumstances. Chances are she will like you or not like you. But when you keep quite and she makes orders that makes you get on the edge, the entire date will suck. You will be uneasy and not really talking and smiling. Even if you pay, you will not be happy.
So give yourself sense by taking some lead. Pick the venue, keep the order under limit. If you are in a strange place, keep your eyes on the price list. Say things are very expensive here babe. I can only afford items xyz here o. Be safe. Be smart. Don't come spoil everything by keeping quite and come make girl to cry or waitress insult you.
If you get sense, chances are you may still get the girl. But if you mumu, you will lose the girl

TheSuperX:
He's right, you should shut up, you are not a prize and you will never be.
The only women that are prize are independent and sedulous ladies that can fend for themselves. those are the prize not hungry girls like you.

unbiased2021:


Don’t mind me jare.
And yea she’s definitely for keep.
I don’t know why some guys here are so bitter towards ladies…

Nwachi22:


Don’t mind them. There are a lot of misogynist and broken men on nairaland. People who have never experienced love in their lives. One cannot give what he does not have.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

HaneefahRN:

For food only

ElBenny:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z40Mv1cBrSI
Drama ensued at a restaurant after a Nigerian lady ordered food which cost N12,000 while on a date with a guy.

The man who took her out refused to pay the bill and it led to an argument between the two of them as he stormed out of the establishment and tried to leave her behind.

She followed him to the car park and pleaded with him to settle the bill that her phone was dead if not she would have paid herself.

He, instead told her to drop her iPhone as payment for the phone and said that she was embarrassing herself

The man queried her for eating food of N12,000 and she said that she can even eat that of N50,000 and it is not a problem, as she would pay for it.

The young lady asked him not to blow the situation out of proportion, saying that she just needed to call someone and it will all be sorted out.

A waitress who attended to them in the restaurant could be seen standing behind the lady, waiting for the payment while the two continued the verbal exchange.

When the man insisted on not helping her to pay for the meal, the lady regretted and noted that she made a mistake by agreeing to go on a date with him.