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No good governance, unemployment everywhere, under paid jobs, very poor salary... All this are things that cause the hardship and suffering to Nigerians.

It is understandable if It affect you, because if you look at it they are things that you can't personally or individually control.

How comes you are not helping yourself also in this situation?

People getting married, birthing kids up and down despite the small amount of money they earn, despite the underpayment... In fact, the current ones you have, you are finding it hard to feed, pay school fees or house, yet you are still adding more.


Even people in countries (look at China, Norway... and the likes) where things are fairly working well, they have good and well paid jobs, they earn good, still most birth 1 or 2. This is because with your income of n(amount), you have more money at your disposal to take care of 1 or 2 child than care for 3, 4, 5 or more children with the same amount. You are earning 300k, financially you cater for 1 or 2 kids give them a good life than same 300k to service 5,6,7...n

Do you think those people don't know what they are doing?

Why don't you help yourselves?

This is no rocket science, you don't have to be a genus like Albert Einstein or Isaac Newton. It is just common sense. Is common sense an intellectual property of the folks in China or Norway only that you can't use it?
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Look at all this third world countries, especially Africa. The government is fuking you. Why are you fuking yourself too?

Why have plenty children like rats sef even at the detriment of yourself and the kids you have when you can have 1 or 2.

The surprising thing, Some birth the kids with the hope that money, good job would come hopefully or hoping that a deity they worship would pick their call and plea for help. Who does that? Who would buy, start a poultry farm of 2k birds with the hope that money, better job would come later to fund it or a deity would intervine when the individual knows he or she can only afford to cater for 50 birds. Why do it with kids?

140 million Nigerians are poor, you think they didn't hope? the remaining na just managing.

This is not about getting rich or something. We are talking of affording just basic things sef.

What is 400k for a single adult. Na still basic managing, don't talk of good life talkless of luxury. If you+wife don't earn 500k combine at minimum and you have more than 2 kids, you are just a joker.

You'll see e.g a Finn, earning good, 2 kids, 4 bedroom house, some money in bank going holiday and vacation. Mistakenly another pregnancy enters, tension worry... Straight some would terminate it.

Here, work situation that would age you sharply sef, 100k emergency no money, house rent can't even pay promptly... Yet na wona go carry plenty liability.

The pitiful thing is how hardship, suffering and appeal to managing is normalized when you can easily prevent or not indulge in it.

You'll hear comments like,
Is it not people who are earning 100k getting married? So me too I go do.

John Doe earns 100k and he has 3 kids, you are earning 150k and complaining no money to get married?

The people earning 100k and have n number of kids, have they died of hunger?

Better in terms of which indices?
Good road?
Pipe borne water?
24/7 electricity?
Life expectancy?
Good education/job?
Quality healthcare?
Security?

I'm struggling to understand you!

Change that headline op. Nigeria is a hell hole and ain't no better than any European country.

You need to stop worrying about broke ass Nigerians having kids they cant take care of (Do they even pay child support?)

So far it doesn't affect you, let them take the risk and have success or burn.

Childfree:
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No good governance, unemployment everywhere, under paid jobs, very poor salary... All this are things that cause the hardship and suffering to Nigerians.

It is understandable if It affect you, because if you look at it they are things that you can't personally or individually control.

How comes you are not helping yourself also in this situation?

People getting married, birthing kids up and down despite the small amount of money they earn, despite the underpayment... In fact, the current ones you have, you are finding it hard to feed, pay school fees or house, yet you are still adding more.


Even people in countries (look at China, Norway... and the likes) where things are fairly working well, they have good and well paid jobs, they earn good, still most birth 1 or 2. This is because with your income of n(amount), you have more money at your disposal to take care of 1 or 2 child than care for 3, 4, 5 or more children with the same amount. You are earning 300k, financially you cater for 1 or 2 kids give them a good life than same 300k to service 5,6,7...n

Do you think those people don't know what they are doing?

Why don't you help yourselves?

This is no rocket science, you don't have to be a genus like Albert Einstein or Isaac Newton. It is just common sense. Is common sense an intellectual property of the folks in China or Norway only that you can't use it?
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A lot of people is in the prison or dead because of help , I don't say you should not help but mind the kind of people you rendered help to