DestinyNigga:


Take permission from my daughter. The one I born abi the one wey born me. If she say no I will kneel down too and beg her or probably fall on the ground for her . Na better koboko I go use whip her nyash

Kriss216:

You are as useless as your mother. A woman that gave birth to a shapeless entity like you deserves sorrow all the rest of her life.

I wonder what attracted that useless man to keep you in his house. He's a big disgrace! Tell him I said so! Whoré!

Roycemadeit:


As I said, westernization is to be blamed...

These ruckus between wives and their kids doesn't happen in Islamic homes as often when compared to the Christian homes...

Many of our fathers came from polygamous homes and lived happily...

obajoey:
Handwriting of the mother

maasoap:

Actually, it is on rise. Very much on the rise. Majority of the Christians believe that their religion says "one man one wife" and they're expect the faithfuls to adhere to that. So, it is understandable. But for the Muslims whose religion supports it, the resistance is mind boggling most especially in the south west. Even in the homes of the so called Alfas where the the understanding is expected to be deep

Danisaint112:
Despite the fact that we shouldn't support the girls behaviour it will be pertinent we put ourself in her shoes.

I mean the thought of it only can be really painful let alone doing it without informing her.

Once the daughter is above 5 and can reason fine it is important he reasons with his daughter, let her know his intentions and possibly tell her the reason he wants to.

There are many sweet reason you could give her and one of them is; letting her know you want a woman that can treat her as a mother would or a woman that can stand in place of her mom not replace her mum.

To men who overdo the alpha male shit it might sound stupid to them but this would go a long way in curtailing unwarranted hatred or dislike from the girl.

An approval from her and tender care from both parties will even go a long way in making the girl love them both. My 2 Kobo.

Kriss216:
Foolish girl!

We've lost our heritage as Africans. Imagine a little girl boldly telling her dad she's disappointed in him for taking a second wife.

Since when is it a crime or taboo to take multiple wives as Africans? Must we always follow the white man tradition?
The reason they're forcing their nonsense LGBTUVWZZZ on us and some foolish Africans are buying it.

The society is now feminine and going mad!

In the medieval era, this girl and her mother would be marched to the village market square. The umuadas would flog nonsense comot for their body.

Harrykn:


My dad got a second wife complaining my mom is stubborn. We children became more than stubborn, no calls, no visits, no text for over two years. I heard his new wife is super stubborn haha and he wants us back. These women are the same , only few are stress-free and are scares and having two stubborn wives at home will only send him to trenches. When I talk with him like son and father he say I never know anything, I'm not supposed to advise him et Al. I understand the girls plight. Women are so blessed that they can't trust theirselves, mek person no come maltreatment her for her papa house.

GreatVocalist:

Oh no, that wasn't what I meant.

Literally? I'm not sure that word fits in this context.

eagleonearth:
while I don't subscribe to polygamy, I second the fact that this generation has lost it all in terms of respect for the elderly.

Albertone:


The list of what a father can provide is endless, but the prominent one is finance, that's why it gets mentioned all the time.
When I withdraw finances, I'm automatically withdrawing other contributions.

I don't know how y'all were raised, but I was trained to give cognizance to my parents even if they were irresponsible and on the wrong side.
You don't wanna get cursed by your biological parents.
Even the bible says "honour thy father and thy mother so that thy days may be long".

Roycemadeit:



You are simply reiterating what I'd said, it's all about influence.

A polygamous home does mean fracas must exist. Unlike the northerners who are raised through Middle-Easterner culture, the southwesterners are more interactive with Western-culture. We are conflicted and afflicted by these cultures.

Times change, in the traditional setting, without the influence of other cultures, a man takes more wives and live in peace.

Today, a lot of women have been influenced to be hostile when their man takes another wife. Just as a lot of men have been nurtured to be vengeful when their wives have extramarital affairs. ^{And, of course, we have feminism dancing skelewu at the corner.}

In my opinion, it's wise a husband does not promise that it's him for her forever. Vows mostly guarantee failure. And if he desires another wife, he must seek the permission of his wife.

maasoap:


Her father, not her! Can't someone peacefully decide, legally and legitimately what he wants in life anymore? Must he be contented with one wife so that the daughter wouldn't "be disappointed"?

MissOpe:


I didn't scold my dad, but I bodily asked him some questions when I perceived I'm been bullied for no just reason.....

By the way......ask your dad if he took you to the psychiatrist when you were younger ,cos it may seem as though you need to re-visit or visit that facility....

Oponu

bukatyne:


And the next bible verse says 'Father's, do not aggravate your children so they would not be frustrated'.

There is the responsibility for both parties.

No sir, fatherhood doesn't stop when there is no finance.

Mikekan30:



That's a fat lie! At your young and naive sense you were able to bodly ask your dad questions that were above your thinking or age... We all know you women are born liars and you so much until it becomes a part of life.

Look at you, how old are you anyway!

U need to be incubated again,

Stupid thing

Unam

UYEMDO35:

Anyway! Thanks 4 pointing out my typo error. Well! I was just suggesting ni cuz as for me the daughter has the right to decide for Her father.

MissOpe:
Weldone little girl for speaking out about issues you perceive to he wrong without being manipulated about the sentiments of being rude to your father......

thegrinch:


Ori omo ope yi kope sha... Se won bi e da to put your father's business out on Social Media like this? If the same Social media now destroys the girl with backlash, you will also join to make her "yeye" trend... Won't you?

I just don't understand this woke generation.

MissOpe:


You can never understand the woke generation cos you're simply deluded....

By the way, ori iya e ni o pe...

Omo Iran Kiran , oponu aye rada

thegrinch:


Exactly the kind of response I expected from omo Ashewo. Generations of Ashewo forming woke...

I knew you were going to avoid answering the question and focus on invectives.

Again, I ask you, like the girl you are "powering" can you put your own father's business on Social Media like that? Abuse me O, but first answer the question.

If you don't answer the question, but you quote me, may thunder fire your generations.

But wait... Maybe I'm wasting my time asking such a question... Who knows whether you're a bastard that does not even know her father? Omo alainiran.

maasoap:

Very few wives would agree to that

thegrinch:


Ori omo ope yi kope sha... Se won bi e da to put your father's business out on Social Media like this? If the same Social media now destroys the girl with backlash, you will also join to make her "yeye" trend... Won't you?

I just don't understand this woke generation.

MissOpe:


Exactly.....my mummy had me for your father...
And it's the reason why I'll continue to call out the stupidity of your father every time I have a chance tooooo..

It shall not be well with your father for the pains he caused my mother

Gbogbo yin ma sofo ni lagbara esu.....

Roycemadeit:


Well, traditional beliefs and societies are changing and it's great to see why one should understand why these changes are happening and what is pushing it.

Otherwise, you would be in conflict with your reality while preaching atavistic solutions for morality and obeisance...

thegrinch:



Unfortunately, the man is dead. I would have loved to ask him how your mum was moaning and screaming when he was fvcking her... And I trust my papa... Odaran gidi ni man yen, My father... Ha, O'n do yati!!!!

He must have caused your mother serious pains gan ni. I feel for both mother and child. He would have slacked her pvssy with f**cking. Her thing would have been so wide that you would have dropped out without any serious labour pain... over wide pvssy.

Iwo ti oti nsofo from day one. Continue in your Ofo sise.

Roycemadeit:


The few who are non-Christians, illiterate and learned helpless or manipulated...

MissOpe:


It will never be well with your father even in death and may your continue with the curse that follows him to death...

Omo Iran kiran

thegrinch:


E pain you? Shebi na you wan trade with your mama's stinking pvssy. I now give it to front and back, E come dey pain you.

To now make matters worse, you come dey curse your papa for him grave... I laugh at you in preposition. Continue in your foolishness. I'm done trading words with Iya Ashewo's little daughter.

MissOpe:


Worthless son of a cursed dead father bye....

Koni ye e Loni.
Oni ri ti e se Loni.
Ase.

thegrinch:


Are you done? Oya drink some water and curse some more. Because you will never stop cursing... As you have started, so you will ever continue. Your mouth will never speak good again. For the rest of your life, your mouth will become a fountain of evil and sourness to you and all that comes across you.

May Evil never depart from your mouth. You will never have cause to speak good things again. Evil and sourness from now till the end of your days.