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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by VenExchangee: 3:05pm On Jul 01, 2023
Ijaya123:


taught
As you correct me, 20 billion enter your account?

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Hopss(m): 3:06pm On Jul 01, 2023
learnt it the hard way, this lady close to me was acting all nice till I borrowed money from her to settle my house rent, fast forward to when I promise to pay, I no fit pay, this lady has told everyone that cares listen that I am a bad person . well all I am hoping is that I have her money and pay back cos I believe a doubt you owe someone must be paid . I done learn say people na wolf in sheep clothing.
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by sexydebo(m): 3:07pm On Jul 01, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
The moment a man goes broke,na then he go realize say na only am him mama born on his birthday.

Sapa is the best teacher

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Wilson300: 3:07pm On Jul 01, 2023
Chno:
The only friend i get na my weed, because na only weed dey for me when everybody switch up on me

My gee
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by sexydebo(m): 3:08pm On Jul 01, 2023
Cloudflare:
Damn!

Become broke, that's when you'll know and understand what fake friends Means. You'll be deserted and become an island 🏝️

In all you do, avoid brokenness e dey bring see finish!!!!!!

It's a terrible but necessary place to be once in life

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by BscHolder: 3:11pm On Jul 01, 2023
VenExchangee:
The moment he Carried my ex when we broke up.
The moment he told people he gave me clothe to wear.

The moment I thought him something and he went to my back to start doing it.
The moment he started stalking all my girlfriends.

The moment I knew the moment
are you really serious @ bolded.
It's so hard to believe
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Ijaya123: 3:12pm On Jul 01, 2023
VenExchangee:

As you correct me, 20 billion enter your account?

As you’ve been corrected, 20 kobo comot for your account?

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Oluwaseunbandur: 3:13pm On Jul 01, 2023
Fake friends na normal thing

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Glowqueen3(f): 3:14pm On Jul 01, 2023
Hmmmn,l had a lot of fake friends especially that wicked Girl called Ayo back in school,She had a lot of pot but She will still come to my room to use my Pot and She won't wash it,This girl had lots of Slippers and Shoes and She will still wear mine that l was just managing,She had up to five neckchains but still stole one out of the two neckchains that l have.
When we graduated She wanted to keep in touch with me by asking for my number but l just cut the bastard off.
Their is another coursemate of mine that l reconnected with not too long ago,We hadn't spoke for years and We exchange number on Facebook only for her to call me once and we gisted and chat about School life and our past.The next time this lady called me na so so billing She gave me,She said her daughter is doing birthday that l should bless her,her hubby no collect salary make l help her,Na block l just block the mumu for WhatsApp,Am just managing the little l have,l can't be working and sending my little earning to a person who is an housewife in her husband house.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Henry22(m): 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2023
I was 12 then....sad story embarassed

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by GodWrites: 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2023
PerfectStranger:
It's always better when both friends are winning.

But as life no balance,one person will be winning and the other isn't. There's bound to be envy wich most times is normal.

You can be jealous, but envy is not normal. You can kill because of envy. Better work on yourself if you are the envious type. It's not normal.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by mediclife1987(m): 3:16pm On Jul 01, 2023
PerfectStranger:
It's always better when both friends are winning.

But as life no balance,one person will be winning and the other isn't. There's bound to be envy wich most times is normal.

Dey play with your private part.

Even the person already winning doesn't want you to win anything at all.

The earlier you realized it's all man for himself, the better for you.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by mediclife1987(m): 3:17pm On Jul 01, 2023
Abolodje:
Here for the lies😹

Abeg send me link of this Indecency
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by BscHolder: 3:19pm On Jul 01, 2023
absoluteSuccess:
I got to know I was dealing with an enemy when a guy called macof on this site declared he has all the information about me and can easily locate me.

When someone who hates you with passion says he can easily locate you, just put your house in order. You are already dealing with a psychopath whose capacity for evil is not yet known to you. And that's to be forewarned.

Very awkward moment of self searching and reappraisal of my contacts began. And not quite long, a customer on Jeep visited my shop, and made a pass at my wife, I know I'm at the very verge of death and it just seems all my fears were well founded.

Thank God my wife shared that sensitive information with me, it's the curiosity I felt with that experience that really awake me to the risk of my business being infiltrated by enemies acting as customers and friends.

I've threads about the experience. The fellow is hardened and persistent. Be careful who you engage with as friend and be very careful who you engage with as an enemy. Either can set you up and it might be too late to escape.

https://www.nairaland.com/7680472/wicked-continue-fall
wetin you do macof?
Na my guy for religion section that year ooo
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by GodWrites: 3:21pm On Jul 01, 2023
helinues:
grin

We were 5 in a group working together, 2 of us planned side deal, the other guy was caught, and then he turned everything on my head that it was only my initiative, I didn't even argue, accepted all the blames.

Learnt a lot from that actually, I never raised the matter with the guy after cos i wasn't even around when the kasala burst, we still talk today self. Imagine a decade old story

Such friends are those who prepare someone for better future. For the fact you have known their motives, they can't hurt you anymore


You still have resentment because you never confronted him, and still interact with him as if it never happened, knowing fully well that he is not a friend. What does that say about you? Are you a people pleaser? I can't give someone a seconds of my time again the moment they failed me. That's the end.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Sermwell(m): 3:25pm On Jul 01, 2023
VenExchangee:

As you correct me, 20 billion enter your account?
Be grateful for the correction! Don't be an ingrate grin

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by folake4u(f): 3:25pm On Jul 01, 2023
Na me be the fake friend.😫😪😪😪 Wetin I do nor good sha. I don tell them make them use scissors to cut me off. embarassed

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by BscHolder: 3:25pm On Jul 01, 2023
mediclife1987:


Abeg send me link of this Indecency
stay away from porn bro

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by GodWrites: 3:26pm On Jul 01, 2023
Chno:
The only friend i get na my weed, because na only weed dey for me when everybody switch up on me

Weed will Bleep you up big time. The first year of smoking is often fun. Then after 3 years, 4 years, 5 years, you realise that you are not even getting high anymore, but keep doing it out of habit. And when you try to stop but can't, that's when you understand what addiction is.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by helinues: 3:28pm On Jul 01, 2023
GodWrites:


You still have resentment because you never confronted him, and still interact with him as if it never happened, knowing fully well that he is not a friend. What does that say about you? Are you a people pleaser? I can't give someone a seconds of my time again the moment they failed me. That's the end.

Keep your friends close, enemies more closer.

I only set boundary after the incident, you can't trust such kind of people but at the same time, how many people do you want to toss away for offending you?

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by mariahAngel(f): 3:29pm On Jul 01, 2023
Uglybwoi:
Most of the people commenting are probably the "fake friends '

Fake friend spotted! undecided
As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by GodWrites: 3:30pm On Jul 01, 2023
EMMARNUEL:
Na wa o... I had this friend that was so rich, i asked him to put me along make i de like am even if its in the long run... Nigga would rather send me 50k for upkeep than show me how to fish, i begged him on several occasion but it was futile, then i new he was a frienemy..

You have an entitlement mentality and you need to work on that. Your friend doesn't owe you anything. How many people have you given 50k for upkeep? You are the frienemy.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by VenExchangee: 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2023
BscHolder:
are you really serious @ bolded.
It's so hard to believe
Yeah I'm serious that was around 2016, he give me polo wear one Sunday like that.
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by GodWrites: 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2023
helinues:


Keep your friends close, enemies more closer.

I only set boundary after the incident, you can't trust such kind of people but at the same time, how many people do you want to toss away for offending you?

I'd rather stay alone than be close to an enemy. I actually enjoy my own company much better. Friends are overrated.

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by galadima77(m): 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2023
JASONjnr:
Do people still keep friends these days?

Exactly!

The problem isn't what they do to you. It's you calling them "friends".

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by VenExchangee: 3:32pm On Jul 01, 2023
Ijaya123:


As you’ve been corrected, 20 kobo comot for your account?
Nairaland profs

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by mariahAngel(f): 3:33pm On Jul 01, 2023
Henry22:
I was 12 then....sad story embarassed

Awwwwwwwwwwn! Kini omode mo? grin
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by VenExchangee: 3:33pm On Jul 01, 2023
Sermwell:

Be grateful for the correction! Don't be an ingrate grin
grin
I no ingrate anything
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Henry22(m): 3:39pm On Jul 01, 2023
mariahAngel:


Awwwwwwwwwwn! Kini omode mo? grin

Funny enough it was from someone I trusted 100%, but the experience from that betrayal never left me even as I grew cry
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Twilight2: 3:43pm On Jul 01, 2023
EMMARNUEL:
Na wa o... I had this friend that was so rich, i asked him to put me along make i de like am even if its in the long run... Nigga would rather send me 50k for upkeep than show me how to fish, i begged him on several occasion but it was futile, then i new he was a frienemy..


But that's not true
He's just being careful of you
If he doesn't care about you, he won't give you a darn.
Remember if you know na, you will still be the one to tell others what he's doing, better to stay clean and untouched than you ministering his secrets in the Street
Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by Mabizeka: 3:43pm On Jul 01, 2023
helinues:


Keep your friends close, enemies more closer.

I only set boundary after the incident, you can't trust such kind of people but at the same time, how many people do you want to toss away for offending you?
Hello, do you want to work at NNPC?

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Re: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by mariahAngel(f): 3:43pm On Jul 01, 2023
Henry22:


Funny enough it was from someone I trusted 100%, but the experience from that betrayal never left me even as I grew cry

Oya sorry. grin
Allow your adult self to forgive your childhood friend.

Were you framed or wrongly accused?
Na those ones dey dey hard to forgive, no matter the age. undecided

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