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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by 0taPiaPia(m): 2:03pm On Jul 02, 2023
Princelyod:
Reduce carb and sugar intake

This is the advice you are looking for @op
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Gajagojo: 2:06pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mindlog:


Nice but you know it can not be used for a diagnosis by him.

You are talking so it will be that you did Not talk

What did I say? Did I talk about diagnosis

No need to show yourself

If you have nothing to say

be silent
If it is useful to him good
If not equally good.
No need to talk for the sake of talking
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by FirstNg1: 2:07pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you


You can start by not feeding your lovely, smart daughter with any processed, manufactured or preserved foods, drinks and especially sugar, high GI, etc. Anything that doesn't come from the earth exactly as God made it; and fresh, don't feed her with it.
VERY IMPORTANT.
Also limit grains, etc

Feed her with only "THE RIGHT" FRESH ORGANIC FOODS.
You will know the right foods, etc, for her by the way she reacts after eating them; and whether or not she likes them - being conscious that not everything she likes is necessarily good for her; but just a guide.
All left-overs to be immediately refrigirated in order to keep them fresh.

What we eat and drink directly affect our hormones - which determine how every organ (including our brain) in our body functions and how we act/react.

The right ORGANIC diet and a healthy lifestyle is the solution to virtually all human health and emotional problems.

Also Google hyperactivity (and other behavioural disorders) for more information; so that you are properly equipped to identify the right medical intervention - as necessary.

Good luck.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Today007: 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2023
Keep the home safe.
Hang the t.v
Remove glass tables
Keep sharp objects and drugs in locked cupboards.
Remove beautification
Eat with rubber plates.
Get a tablet for educational rhymes if you have the means
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Drdreluv: 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
we will not have inactive children In Jesus Name
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Hollybratt(m): 2:09pm On Jul 02, 2023
naturefellow:


Congratulations! You successfully derailed a healthy thread with obscenity. Can't you have better imagination with your mind? undecided
Yeah, i'm always obliging when it comes to serious matter, well if you find my comment obnoxious. I beg your pardon.
IRMC
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Kayclite: 2:13pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
Reduce sugar and sweet foods intake to zero or the barest minimum.
Increase fruits and green vegetables
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Ayokequeen(m): 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2023
Just buy her a very good kid tablet that has many children games and and cartoon packed inside. Put as many as possible games and cartoon on it and make her watch everything until she finds the ones she likes best. You will be forcing her to go out or sleep if you do this.
This is what I did for my 3yr old girl, now I do force her to go to sleep even around 12 midnight.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by DiamondTeaser: 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2023
To be honest, if your child play often as you said without getting tired, seems she's a special needs child (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder) ADHD and please reduce her sugar intake

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by 1Sharon(f): 2:15pm On Jul 02, 2023
Sounds like ADHD.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by NaijaGoBetter2: 2:16pm On Jul 02, 2023
Use this and get her many toys

Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Kayclite: 2:16pm On Jul 02, 2023
FirstNg1:



You can start by not feeding your lovely, smart daughter with any processed, manufactured or preserved foods, drinks and especially sugar, high GI, etc. Anything that doesn't come from the earth exactly as God made it; and fresh, don't feed her with it.
VERY IMPORTANT.
Also limit grains, etc

Feed her with only "THE RIGHT" FRESH ORGANIC FOODS.
You will know the right foods, etc, for her by the way she reacts after eating them; and whether or not she likes them - being conscious that not everything she likes is necessarily good for her; but just a guide.
All left-overs to be immediately refrigirated in order to keep them fresh.

What we eat and drink directly affect our hormones - which determine how every organ (including our brain) in our body functions and how we act/react.

The right ORGANIC diet and a healthy lifestyle is the solution to virtually all human health and emotional problems.

Also Google hyperactivity (and other behavioural disorders) for more information; so that you are properly equipped to identify the right medical intervention - as necessary.

Good luck.

Good point. It's unfortunate that many parents have damaged their own children without knowing.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by kingreign(m): 2:16pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

You and your wife should observe her play patterns and if it's not not dangerous, engage her so that she expends her energy towards evening time, also, while at it, try to teach her some basic kintergarden/nursery school curriculum in a fun way. This will ensure her playtime is not put to waste whil ensuring her energy that day is spent,she will get tired and sleep off.

This was the advise given to me when I experienced same with my son and it worked like magic.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by aikyg(m): 2:16pm On Jul 02, 2023
Someone is giving her too much sugar. Reduce her sugar intake.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by descarado: 2:18pm On Jul 02, 2023
Bisiteach:
Same with my brothers children. I unknowingly gave one of them coke the day they came to visit me and he almost tore down my house. Imagine a hyperactive child on sugar rush.
And we keep on giving them fuzzy drinks and wo der why they are behaving like one high on coke cheesy
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by lakefist(m): 2:19pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

You don’t know the blessing God gave you. It is easier to know if a child is unwell if they are hyperactive.

There is nothing you can do about it else you will kill her drive and morale!

You too should be hyperactive by removing dangerous objects around the house and always stay at alert!
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Pinkyposh(f): 2:21pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

Give her colour and allow her to colour things. That will keep her busy
Then enrol her in some sporting activities.
When she's exhausted, and then sleep
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by OBJECTIVITY4ALL: 2:24pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
Visit a well trained special Teacher to diagnose her, however I don't think you should enroll her in a school at that age. Get Lego or kids bicycle for her. Until the child visit a specialist Teacher face to face, I don't that child have any serious issues. If you need the service of a specialist you may contact this person very (optional) 08034396348 . Thanks.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by tosyne2much(m): 2:24pm On Jul 02, 2023
lakefist:


You don’t know the blessing God gave you. It is easier to know if a child is unwell if they are hyperactive.

There is nothing you can do about it else you will kill her drive and morale!

You too should be hyperactive by removing dangerous objects around the house and always stay at alert!
My daughter is also very hyperactive

She's just a year old and she's very disturbing, smart and always putting the house in disorder

She plays from morning till night and she seems too brilliant and smart for just a year old child

I once complained to a medical doctor about her hyperactivity and I was told I should be grateful that I have an active child and not a dullard. I was advised to always watch out for her and make sure dangerous objects are kept out of her reach cheesy

Now I have accepted my fate and all I do is take dangerous objects from her reach

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Originalsly: 2:25pm On Jul 02, 2023
Check her diet .... most likely wayyyy too much sugar ... as in soda ... cereals ... cookies... etc... she must burn out all that stored energy ... even if it takes all day and night. Poor people eat local .... they don't have this kind problem with their 3 year Olds.
Diet... and take her outside... let her play.. run ... excercise..exercise... penning her up in the house serves her no good. How will her muscles develop and be strong?... how would her blood circulation be good? .. how will she be exposed to and have immunity to the millions of viruses outside?
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by folake4u(f): 2:26pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you

Hi there. I was hyperactive as a child. I showed my family and nanny shege too, and always running to major roads.

I'd say you should enroll your daughter in a conventional school. You say she's smart right?

You can engage her in educational games, such as Lego building blocks, allow her watch educational kids programs that will develop her brains, allow for reading and writing.

Play time is also essential for her development. Don't deprive her of playtime.

If you're a sports person, it is not bad to inculcate basic sports such as swimming, cycling, taekwando for kids (self defence classes), football or whatever sports that are age appropriate.

Lastly, get closer to that child. Hear her thoughts, input good values into her that will stick even till she reach adulthood.

Most times hyperactiveness fizzle out as children age. If you see me now in reality, I don calm. cheesy

#My opinion though.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by isabi2lof: 2:26pm On Jul 02, 2023
Thank God she's sharp and healthy

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by kenny160: 2:27pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
just like my daughter, she is 2years 3months...she very active and stubborn and she can angry for Africa..may God bless us to take care of them..mine is in school already and can recites almost all poems also reading Abc to z and can read 123 to 30..just enroll her in school and watch her u will be happy on the long run trust me.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by porthouse7(f): 2:27pm On Jul 02, 2023
Tie rope on her when outdoor
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Newton2024: 2:29pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
She will be good in sports. Please try to discover her early.
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by descarado: 2:32pm On Jul 02, 2023
franchasofficia:
There is little or nothing you can do, it seems its the norm for kids of this era cos I have a 3yrs plus son and I am as tired as you are. Even our baby minders don tire. Only his personal Nanny (an aged woman) that took care of him from birth can calm him down, and she seems to be the only person he listens to temporarily and its because the woman pampers him a lot and he sees the woman as his grandma cos that's what he calls her grin


I have bought virtually all toys in the world; from drivable cars he can enter and drive to drivable powerbike to tricycle to bicycle and uncountable number of toy cars and toys.


He started using adult tablet at 1yr and started accessing internet with it from 1yrplus which he uses to watch cartoons like Baby Shack, Wheels in the bus, Coco Melon Rhymes and other nursery rhyme videos yet this tablet that is constantly connected to the internet hasn't helped to stop his hyper active behavior
Allow the child to have fun pls. Children have boundless energy.
My kids as they are going into teen are still very hyperactive. Fuzzy drinks are not allowed in their school. I started pinning them down for siesta from birth. It's a tradition still maintained in my house. As for the hyperactivity, it doesn’t bother me. I grew up around kids with so much energy, I was hyperactive too.
Be hyperactive with him and show her the evidence as he gets older. It's fun.
Don't miss out on this bondng time.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by omojeesu(m): 2:33pm On Jul 02, 2023
See doctor!
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by kkins25(m): 2:35pm On Jul 02, 2023
Olumaeme:
My daughter is like that, she's 4. Very brilliant.
For me, I bought a phone and she watches cartoon, she learnt her American accent from there.

I load 120gb of data monthly, and enroll her in Montessori school.

Avoid talking down on her, encourage and be her friend. My daughter loves me so much that she Dosent go to her mum when I'm around.

grin grin grin grin
I hope she's not the only pikin sha.. For the sake of mummy
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Xturf: 2:36pm On Jul 02, 2023
ChybuzzDD:


What if she's actually having ADHD??

Would you still tag that 'a display of smartness'?

You guys should first examine your levels of knowledge before issuing out these pieces of advice

Hmmm. Adhd can start by 3 but mostly 4. Also its weighed against an expectation or instruction.
Let the child get to school before talking about adhd. Does she lack focus. Inability to compose herself to achieve set task, strong attraction to distractions,
However, @Mister123 never objectify your child. Give her room to express everything her brain communicates to her, otherwise you'll cause her harm. Create a safe space as advised and uphold your duty of care
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by tolor: 2:36pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
is your daughter name Alicia?
Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by yoged(m): 2:36pm On Jul 02, 2023
Mister123:
Hello guys. Greetings to you. Please don't mind muy grammar, I'm not here for English classes lol.
My first child's almost 3years, trust me that girl can be playing and roaming about 24/7. As long as she's not asleep, her mum and I are always talking, don't do this, don't do that. Sometimes I lose my cool you know. I'm planing to enroll her into a conventional school by September because she seems really smart. My question here is, how do I handle her, she can't just stay in one place and our apartment is not really safe for her to be playing outside.
Parents and expert in the house please assist a brother with an idea of what to do.
Thank you
We are in the same position, it can be stressful . She goes to Nursery between 9-3. That’s the only time we get to rest from her activeness. This days , cartoons do the magic for us to keep her busy. Sigh

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