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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by winner37(m): 3:37pm On Jul 04, 2023
Bro, telling her she is not attracted to is the worst..what I can advise you is that just continue knack small small you will get used to it ...
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by okewumi: 3:47pm On Jul 04, 2023
I just pity you. That soapy will ruin you. You think it is physical. Soapy has turned to first lady. Even if u see a slim girl, the spirit will force you to look for orobo. People are in bondage sha
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Poske95(m): 3:50pm On Jul 04, 2023
Make a choice
A, The girl B, the soap, C. The girl and soap

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by idonhammer: 3:53pm On Jul 04, 2023
You are done with


You are in deep trouble spiritually
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by OriginalCEO: 3:56pm On Jul 04, 2023
OP don knack d girl taya.

It's okay to get tired of a girl after knacking, esp. if it was never love but lust.

But if you truly love her and are not sure about the sex for now, you guys can slow things down, but you have to abstain from pornn and soapy cos the combo frustrates sexual life of some folks
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Kaytixy: 4:01pm On Jul 04, 2023
Then walk out of the relationship before we hear stories that touch
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by rickleye: 4:04pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

There is something she does that turns you off so the sex isn’t enticing anymore.! You are also not whole - you are into soapy ( have no idea what it is) . This is on you and not her
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by nedekid: 4:08pm On Jul 04, 2023
Oboy, stop disturbing us, you are tired of the girl, go and find a new fresh one. This time make them 2.
When you are tired, you discharge them and get another 3.
Na today man de taya for woman? Abi you be small pikin? grin
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by NBAjunior: 4:11pm On Jul 04, 2023
rickleye:


There is something she does that turns you off so the sex isn’t enticing anymore.! You are also not whole - you are into soapy ( have no idea what it is) . This is on you and not her

Soapy is masturbation

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Emdebby2: 4:13pm On Jul 04, 2023
Congrats! You've turned to gay.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Maliqcious: 4:19pm On Jul 04, 2023
Mad Man In Akara
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by jubrilELsudan: 4:26pm On Jul 04, 2023
ONCE A W@NKER.... ALWAYS A W@NKER

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by samz77: 4:36pm On Jul 04, 2023
continue your soapy and you will continue to remain impotent. sex is look less appealing to you. you practicing masturbation so how come you not gonna suffer low sex drive idiot!!!
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Willgates(m): 4:41pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

It happens to everyman from time to time. You'll loss interest in your woman especially if she's living with you and you see her everyday. Don't get yourself too worked up less the recovery time will keep getting longer. Take it easy on you, focus on the beautiful things about her only or the things that first attracted you to her. You'll get to desire her again with time. Also, try the romance in a dark room where you don't get to see her face or any of her flaws. You can even do it with the image of the woman you're currently crushing on.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by thinkmoney(m): 4:43pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible
You have started having problems guy. Soapy is destroying your mental health.
You will soon discover that’s it’s not only the girl that doesn’t freak you anymore but that in fact other girls too do not freak you. Soapy is replacing them. I bet you are even doing it even now that you have a girl.
QUIT NOW!!!! Before it damages you totally
Example, I can never do soapy and come. My mind is conditioned to get satisfaction only from ladies. Soapy do not make me come
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Nelz7: 4:49pm On Jul 04, 2023
budaatum:
Dude, you are very well wedded to your soapy that taking on another satisfier does not seem to appeal to you, so I suggest you stick with your wife soapy instead of thinking you are the sort of person who can marry more than one wife. Not every one can, so no shame.

Another option is you divorce soapy, but I'm told that's near impossible for soapy lovers to do.


Master!!!!!
Teach me konfu🙌
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Oceanjagaban: 4:59pm On Jul 04, 2023
Your prick don spoil
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Allwell96: 5:17pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible
Effect of masturbation
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by zakkxx: 5:28pm On Jul 04, 2023
If you continue to mastubate u will experience Erectal disfunction. Keep your self for your lovely wife in future. Avoid fornication, if you get hpv or hiv u will cry and remember this message. Be wise oooo. If u cannot hold body go and marry.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by crossbreedwears(m): 5:31pm On Jul 04, 2023
I've been in the similar situation and i would like to ask what happened to your previous relationship and the other guy was right about the rushed sex. Are you sure you were not hurt in your last relationship and you didn't heal completely before moving to your current girlfriend? You need to discover what's so special about your girlfriend and what you cherish most about her before having sex with her again. You need to act fast before she's moves else where and later you regreg losing her
Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by ayubaski: 5:37pm On Jul 04, 2023
Post her picture let see

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by elevated2: 5:37pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

You could be addicted to your soapy thing. Have you had similar experiences with other girls? You do porn a lot?

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by marsup: 5:40pm On Jul 04, 2023
Man shall not have sex always.
Study the Bible when next she comes around...
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Soulsymbol99: 5:41pm On Jul 04, 2023
Symptoms of SEE FINISH grin

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by onlyboyson(m): 6:25pm On Jul 04, 2023
Bro you have sold your sexual feelings to soapy
Forget about it
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by isabi2lof: 6:43pm On Jul 04, 2023
The lady is seeing all the red flags now , instead of her to start withdrawing her love from you gradually, she wants to form good girlfriend.

Person wey go love you no go stress you , ladies should love with their heads and not their hearts .

After first sex , many guys will start withdrawing their commitment just because they've seen what they're looking for .

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by budaatum: 6:45pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001, this might console you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcm1NP1FNDc

Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Monday60655(m): 7:27pm On Jul 04, 2023
Attention seeker. You had already said what the problem is. Why disturbing people here. If you have started masturbating, how do you think you will get attracted when you had already easy your sexual drive through masturbation.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Charx122: 7:28pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

Keep on deciving yourself Hook up girls is just a coded name for Olosho.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Clinghton: 7:37pm On Jul 04, 2023
One of the reasons divorce is on the high.

Although not married.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jul 04, 2023
Embrace

The

Boredom.


Being able to embrace Boredom leads to a more
Stable Life.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Mekus007001: 7:49pm On Jul 04, 2023
Oga stop masturbating, that's the problem...if you like hear if you like don't hear... another man will b bleeping ur wife... cos even if you change 20 girls na still same effect

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