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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Microwhy: 2:31pm On Jul 04, 2023
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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Cassandraloius: 2:31pm On Jul 04, 2023
Do yourself a favor and stay without women till you're 45. Then use 5 years to think if you can start a new relationship, by then you're 50.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by batistutajulio: 2:31pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

You dey craze.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by braine(m): 2:33pm On Jul 04, 2023
You have to end it. Its sad, but she has to go, the relationship won't work.

End it on time too.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by pappilo(m): 2:33pm On Jul 04, 2023
Overload!

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by mayorkent(m): 2:34pm On Jul 04, 2023
I stopped reading when I saw , 🧼 , na the key challenge be that

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by bizhop01: 2:37pm On Jul 04, 2023
I just read nonsense
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by marvellous2222: 2:38pm On Jul 04, 2023
After you don dig hole under her
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Aarenasbaba(m): 2:42pm On Jul 04, 2023
That’s d effect of soapy
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Grupo(m): 2:43pm On Jul 04, 2023
What you are experiencing is actually what happens to many guys who have gone the soapy route for so long.

When they eventually try t*to, it wouldn't feel as tight as their hands. Hence, they won't feel it.

No t*to can grip your John Thomas like your hands.

The solution is to leave masturbation for now.

No matter how much you feel the urge.

Then try as much as possible to continue sticking with your girlfriend.

Gradually, your brain will calibrate and start getting used to the sensations of the t*to.

But this can be hard sha. Because masturbation be like drugs. It's very addictive. And breaking free is hard.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by demanuel(m): 2:45pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:


I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible
@bolded grin
That's my stature and my kind of taste in women too... Lol

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by KillaBeans(m): 2:46pm On Jul 04, 2023
You need therapy.......simple
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Munzy14(m): 2:46pm On Jul 04, 2023
seanery:
Ds life no balance.
Me wey my wife dey suffer me with sex; u dey get sex offer u dey decline.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by DaTruths: 2:48pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...

Its not her that you are not into sexually, it's the wanking side effects you are suffering from.

Even if you find a slimer girl, once she pull pants and you start bleeping her, the fantasy of slim girls will clear from your eyes.


You are addicted to wanking.

If you can resist wanking for straight 2 weeks, then you will know you are still attracted to your gf.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Solidkay(m): 2:48pm On Jul 04, 2023
Your addiction to masturbation has done a lot of damage to you than you could imagine,
Stay off masturbation and see how your sexual cravings return with the speed of light.

You're the one with the problem, not your poor girlfriend.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Draslo(m): 2:56pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible
You have deceived your brain into loving your own hand more than a woman's body. Quit masturbating today

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Draslo(m): 3:00pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...
I'm telling you this from experience. Even if you try another woman, you will feel the same. The sensations may be better but your brain is already programmed to allow you climax all by yourself. Tell her to give you a week. Don't masturbate during this period...watch porn to get erection but deal with the urge to touch yourself. Just one week! If you can do this, you will thank me later.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Bencarson94(m): 3:01pm On Jul 04, 2023
Masturbation (soapy) is the cause. You are addicted to it. Fix yourself bro and you will notice the difference ✌️

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by DatNaijaGuy: 3:04pm On Jul 04, 2023
Masturbation has damaged your sex life and you are here blaming the innocent lady.
Quit masturbation.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Quebec91(m): 3:05pm On Jul 04, 2023
You can't eat your cake ans have it

Chew on that
Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Zane2point4(m): 3:08pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...
No mind him,ppl no just get sense,how u go tell person pikin say u no deh attracted to her,na depression she wan enter na,no mind dem,just give yourself a break and dont mastubate,when conji comes body go tell u
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by cassyrooy(m): 3:08pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible
You lack focus and discipline.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by CHIOMAEZEH: 3:10pm On Jul 04, 2023
Soap and lustful thoughts u use to self-service has taken over your brain
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by bepositive11: 3:11pm On Jul 04, 2023
You don't really love her. You only love that she's giving you company.

Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Cloudflare: 3:11pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:


Bro I should let her know that am not into her sexually?? Lols no be trouble I dey find like that so... Imagine telling you babe that you're not attracted to her sexually. You go talk who you come dey attracted to.

Am actually trying the abstainance but reasons to cover up for the abstainance is what am looking for. Last time I used sickness and office stress, even at that she was still pissed, she kept reminding me it's been 2 weeks we had sex...

Masturbation don finish this one life.

Dude you better stop masturbating and start eating food and fruits that'll make you fvck. If you still can't fck her, drop your location and her contact, lots of guys here will be willing to help but it's not free shaa

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Benjamin4388(m): 3:16pm On Jul 04, 2023
VeryWickedPrick:
Catch her cheating.
Watch how Ahmadu pounds her silly and she's screaming Jesus then let's see if the interest won't return.

Show your gf this comment.
lol sane werey people plenty for Nigeria

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by SeriouslySense(m): 3:17pm On Jul 04, 2023
correct
Benjamin4388:
lol sane werey people plenty for Nigeria
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Sammy5413(m): 3:18pm On Jul 04, 2023
Pls don't start giving her attitude just tell her it's over
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Shancca: 3:22pm On Jul 04, 2023
Softboy001:
I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible


Quit masturbation and focus on what makes you happy when you are around her. You won't remain a boy forever. If you skip this advice, time shall tell.

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by condralbedez: 3:23pm On Jul 04, 2023
Let the poor girl breath, don't suffocates her

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Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by eepeepook: 3:30pm On Jul 04, 2023
At least you get girlfriend to complain about.
Re: This Is Affecting My Relationship by Sapaz02: 3:30pm On Jul 04, 2023
How can u be after extracting the juicy part of her.

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