This thread is funny but I'm mad also at how these fools keep taking good spirited folks in this forum for granted.

I pity those who are in genuine need because as it is now, they will most likely be referred to prayers for succour.

Nothing hurts more than rendering help to someone with your limited resources only to find out you've been scammed.

You'll wish you had used that money to carry woman instead.

pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/7619417/why-women-monetize-visits-advice

Your wife was heavily pregnant and rather than save, you were spending money on your sidechic. Hopefully one of your fellow polygamous men would help.

🫠🫢

pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/7619417/why-women-monetize-visits-advice

Your wife was heavily pregnant and rather than save, you were spending money on your sidechic. Hopefully one of your fellow polygamous men would help.

OP the senior man.....see this lie. Come and refute it

Promzy99:


Oga, am not forcing u or any other person for help.

If u can't or won't assist, u can skip to d next topic...

I left my number there for verification purpose, which u have not even reached out to.

Stop misinforming people. Help u didn't help, na to spoil people mind with negative narrative. God forbids!

Chai....you're really a guy man. Just in March you were with a girl that lives close to your house. 4 months later your wife has been delivered of a baby boy. May God bless your family fa

sisisioge:


OP the senior man.....see this lie. Come and refute it

There's nothing to it. I don't put fictitious posts. All my posts are from personal experiences.

So now, what's wrong with having or keeping a side chic? Na me be d first or na me go be d last?

And how is it even related to m seeking for help??

2braithe:


Can you facilitate how the hospital will receive the money directly?
Obviously an account number with the hospital name as the account name.

Like I indicated in my post, my number is there. U can put a WhatsApp video call... Speak with d clinics midwife, and my wife too...

I don't know if her account number bears d name of d clinic though.

2braithe:


Can you facilitate how the hospital will receive the money directly?
Obviously an account number with the hospital name as the account name.

There are 2 kinds of begging scam on nairaland. Some would just makeup a pitiful story, then boom someone would help by sending cash. In some cases they can't prove shit hence no one would render help.

The next set are either full time scammers or normal people who have seen a flaw with regards to how nairalanders authentic begging stories.

Example.
I can have my fees intact with me. What I'll do is to wait till 2 or 3 days before school payment portal is closed. Then come to nairaland with stories of how poor my parents are, how I couldn't gather cash despite some hustle... blablabla

Of cause if you check my school, you'll see that it is true about the deadline.
Of cause I can do a video call.
Of cause if you want to confirm if am a student I can also do that since I have ID, admission letter and everything to tell I school there.
Even if you decide to send someone to meet me we'll meet.
Of cause I can even show my school Portal showing my fees is "not paid"
Even if someone requested for school account number to be sent directly, I'll do because it didn't spoil the scam.

Then boom people fall for it.

This doesn't mean or authentic that I lack cash or my parents couldn't give me fees.

The new social media scam now is to let their money rest while have their bills paid by people. Lol

Same with this guy lol, how does paying to a clinic, a video call or his wife actually having a baby says he can't afford or pay?

Just a glimpse to his profile would tell you is either he's lying or he's not serious with his life sef.

Promzy99:


There's nothing to it. I don't put fictitious posts. All my posts are from personal experiences.

So now, what's wrong with having or keeping a side chic? Na me be d first or na me go be d last?

And how is it even related to m seeking for help??

You claim to have a business yet couldn't squeeze out just 75k. This tells a lot about your earnings or overall income.

Instead of you to be serious about your life, hustle hard, make good income to get a better and good life... In fact Baby coming and life getting hard. Your problem is side chic abi? Such a pity that this innocent child is coming through a person with your mindset and reasoning.

Go and beg from your side chics.
Imagine, common 75k you had to open a begging thread on nairaland to disgrace your ancestors and linage.

Shey your were spending your life saving and the delivery money on your side chics then you have the guts to come on nairaland to beg for people who are also struggling with their lives to foot your wife delivery bills. You must be a joke.

Rich people are doing side chics, poor olodo too wan join.

Childfree:


You claim to have a business yet couldn't squeeze out just 75k. This tells a lot about your earnings or overall income.

Instead of you to be serious about your life, hustle hard, make good income to get a better and good life... In fact Baby coming and life getting hard. Your problem is side chic abi? Such a pity that this innocent child is coming through a person with your mindset and reasoning.

Go and beg from your side chics.
Imagine, common 75k you had to open a begging thread on nairaland to disgrace your ancestors and linage.

Shey your were spending your life saving and the delivery money on your side chics then you have the guts to come on nairaland to beg for people who are also struggling with their lives to foot your wife delivery bills. You must be a joke.

Rich people are doing side chics, poor olodo too wan join.

For ur information, seeking financial help in a public domain doesn't make one poor. Anybody can run out of cash... Am not persuading u for any assistance. You don't talk like one without life experience. U r still a kid.

I may even be financially buoyant than u. U may not even be able to handle small percentage of my responsibilities.

Because I came asking for help, doesn't mean u will open ur mouth wide and spew trash...

I guess amongst all my naira lands posts, its only that of the side chic that got ur attention. And because its a side chic story, u didn't even bother to ask if its fictional or real...

You fit no be my mate for money. Its either u help or u walk pass...

Childfree:


There are 2 kinds of begging scam on nairaland. Some would just makeup a pitiful story, then boom someone would help by sending cash. In some cases they can't prove shit hence no one would render help.

The next set are either full time scammers or normal people who have seen a flaw with regards to how nairalanders authentic begging stories.

Example.
I can have my fees intact with me. What I'll do is to wait till 2 or 3 days before school payment portal is closed. Then come to nairaland with stories of how poor my parents are, how I couldn't gather cash despite some hustle... blablabla

Of cause if you check my school, you'll see that it is true about the deadline.
Of cause I can do a video call.
Of cause if you want to confirm if am a student I can also do that since I have ID, admission letter and everything to tell I school there.
Even if you decide to send someone to meet me we'll meet.
Of cause I can even show my school Portal showing my fees is "not paid"
Even if someone requested for school account number to be sent directly, I'll do because it didn't spoil the scam.

Then boom people fall for it.

This doesn't mean or authentic that I lack cash or my parents couldn't give me fees.

The new social media scam now is to let their money rest while have their bills paid by people. Lol

Same with this guy lol, how does paying to a clinic, a video call or his wife actually having a baby says he can't afford or pay?

Just a glimpse to his profile would tell you is either he's lying or he's not serious with his life sef.

Mr. Judge, what made u think that am either lying or un- serious with my life...


Am really learning a lot here from ur reactions...

I guess if I were to have a female moniker, most of all u Deputy Jesus, won't be hitting hard like u r now...



Am just imagining if I had ever come to seek for help here before what d whole situation would have turned out to be...

You guys r really amazing..

pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/7619417/why-women-monetize-visits-advice

Your wife was heavily pregnant and rather than save, you were spending money on your sidechic. Hopefully one of your fellow polygamous men would help.

Promzy99:


There's nothing to it. I don't put fictitious posts. All my posts are from personal experiences.

So now, what's wrong with having or keeping a side chic? Na me be d first or na me go be d last?

And how is it even related to m seeking for help??

Lol
The only thing wrong in keeping a side chick is not being financially buoyant to cater for your family yet having spare money to spend on a side chick.
Your wife's delivery was in a few months time, yet you were spending the spare cash you have on a side chick. No pity for you.
You should have saved the money you were spending on the side chick. Or better still, you can call the side chick for help.
Shallom.

Ask your side chick to borrow you from the one you ve been giving her

dobnina:

Lol
The only thing wrong in keeping a side chick is not being financially buoyant to cater for your family yet having spare money to spend on a side chick.
Your wife's delivery was in a few months time, yet you were spending the spare cash you have on a side chick. No pity for you.
You should have saved the money you were spending on the side chick. Or better still, you can call the side chick for help.
Shallom.

Oh well... So d side chic was d one that exhausted all my money...? Like from that very day d post was made, till now, its d side chic that has been consuming d money?

Lolz.. U guys r really funny. Am beginning to understand why God doesn't interfere in all of men's affairs...

If Some of u guys here have powers in ur hands, am wondering what d world wud look like...

Imagine what popular figures/ celebrities who bring out their family life online faces from internet users when things r going south with dem.

Nigerians r majorly full of Negativities.

A very arrogant guy.
Dem catch you red handed you still Dey do strong head😂
Waa pee niibee

Childfree:


There are 2 kinds of begging scam on nairaland. Some would just makeup a pitiful story, then boom someone would help by sending cash. In some cases they can't prove shit hence no one would render help.

The next set are either full time scammers or normal people who have seen a flaw with regards to how nairalanders authentic begging stories.

Example.
I can have my fees intact with me. What I'll do is to wait till 2 or 3 days before school payment portal is closed. Then come to nairaland with stories of how poor my parents are, how I couldn't gather cash despite some hustle... blablabla

Of cause if you check my school, you'll see that it is true about the deadline.
Of cause I can do a video call.
Of cause if you want to confirm if am a student I can also do that since I have ID, admission letter and everything to tell I school there.
Even if you decide to send someone to meet me we'll meet.
Of cause I can even show my school Portal showing my fees is "not paid"
Even if someone requested for school account number to be sent directly, I'll do because it didn't spoil the scam.

Then boom people fall for it.

This doesn't mean or authentic that I lack cash or my parents couldn't give me fees.

The new social media scam now is to let their money rest while have their bills paid by people. Lol

Same with this guy lol, how does paying to a clinic, a video call or his wife actually having a baby says he can't afford or pay?

Just a glimpse to his profile would tell you is either he's lying or he's not serious with his life sef.

you are right most genuine people hardly get help at all,yo really read a lot about this scammers

Promzy99:


There's nothing to it. I don't put fictitious posts. All my posts are from personal experiences.

So now, what's wrong with having or keeping a side chic? Na me be d first or na me go be d last?

And how is it even related to m seeking for help??

How it's related? Go and read about opportunity cost

Klass99:


@ The bolded, do you realize how arrogant this sounds? Apart from being rude like someone said on page one there's an arrogant attitude coming through in most of your posts that's really off putting.

Someone asked how payment could be facilitated directly to the hospital, all you needed to do if you are being sincere was to speak with the hospital staff and finance/account department in particular to get their account details and share it here in response to the person who asked.........yet see your arrogant attitude and response to him.

Why must you be called on whatsapp? Every legit clinic/hospital has a bank account for business purposes and a finance department, but you are still talking about clinic matron and midwife, can she not provide the hospital's account details if you humbly explain that someone would like to make the payment but he requires a legit bank account belonging to the hospital.

I saw your thread since last night and I wasn't going to comment on it, seeing as you already have enough stress with a 73k hospital bill and some nairalanders were justifiably adding to your stress and not making things easy for you, but mehn you have a bad attitude that makes it hard for people to want to help you and I just had to comment on that.

Yes, we will add to the stress! E must collect!!!

Promzy99:


There's nothing to it. I don't put fictitious posts. All my posts are from personal experiences.

So now, what's wrong with having or keeping a side chic? Na me be d first or na me go be d last?

And how is it even related to m seeking for help??

It is very related because the resources you were wasting on your side chick ought to have prevented your present situation....having to solicit for financial help to get your wife and first child discharged from the hospital.

Since you see nothing wrong in your choice.... extramarital affairs, guys who share your view about masculinity would certainly help you out.

Childfree:


There are 2 kinds of begging scam on nairaland. Some would just makeup a pitiful story, then boom someone would help by sending cash. In some cases they can't prove shit hence no one would render help.

The next set are either full time scammers or normal people who have seen a flaw with regards to how nairalanders authentic begging stories.

Example.
I can have my fees intact with me. What I'll do is to wait till 2 or 3 days before school payment portal is closed. Then come to nairaland with stories of how poor my parents are, how I couldn't gather cash despite some hustle... blablabla

Of cause if you check my school, you'll see that it is true about the deadline.
Of cause I can do a video call.
Of cause if you want to confirm if am a student I can also do that since I have ID, admission letter and everything to tell I school there.
Even if you decide to send someone to meet me we'll meet.
Of cause I can even show my school Portal showing my fees is "not paid"
Even if someone requested for school account number to be sent directly, I'll do because it didn't spoil the scam.

Then boom people fall for it.

This doesn't mean or authentic that I lack cash or my parents couldn't give me fees.

The new social media scam now is to let their money rest while have their bills paid by people. Lol

Same with this guy lol, how does paying to a clinic, a video call or his wife actually having a baby says he can't afford or pay?

Just a glimpse to his profile would tell you is either he's lying or he's not serious with his life sef.

You are correct. It could be so.

I have no intention of paying. I'm only asking that from him so it could give credibility to his story for anyone willing to help.

But then, we almost never can tell real stories or made up stories. The country is really hard for people.

Promzy99:


There's nothing to it. I don't put fictitious posts. All my posts are from personal experiences.

So now, what's wrong with having or keeping a side chic? Na me be d first or na me go be d last?

And how is it even related to m seeking for help??

Very Wrong move here bro!! Be wise

Hehehe 😂😂.
Wahala for who dey find help ontop Nairaland o. Trust awon agba Nairalanders to drag you left, right, cen'ur, up end down! 😅

This OP though, he's so high on some ego pills right here.
May you find the help you seek, if this is indeed genuine.

Sanguine:
Hehehe 😂😂.
Wahala for who dey find help ontop Nairaland o. Trust awon agba Nairalanders to drag you left, right, cen'ur, up end down! 😅

This OP though, he's so high on some ego pills right here.
May you find the help you seek, if this is indeed genuine.

Help has already come ooh... Although helper pleaded anonymity... I wud have posted his details to shame some foolish folks here...

Promzy99:



Help has already come ooh... Although helper pleaded anonymity... I wud have posted his details to shame some foolish folks here...

Oh! Glory to God! 🙌
It is well.

Promzy99:



Help has already come ooh... Although helper pleaded anonymity... I wud have posted his details to shame some foolish folks here...

Congrats
Hope you will now repent and stop cheating on your innocent wife.

dobnina:

Congrats
Hope you will now repent and stop cheating on your innocent wife.

Which kain hope? Person whey go send im side chick something from d money dem give am for the wife and son.....guy is not a responsible fellow.😆😆😆

manoflove22:
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una dey mad, when una dey on cloud 9 with her, shifting her delicate womb your sense didn't prick you that u are a still the poor guy that can't afford child bearing


and why must it be nairaland the first place to ask for money, ur family n friends nko

I am in agreement with you 100%.

Use a condom if you do not have the resources to take care of a child.

Ne be by force to born?

I ignore people who willfully bring suffering on themselves and I despise parents who willfully bring an innocent child into the world to suffer.

Enough said!

Promzy99:


Oga, am not forcing u or any other person for help.

If u can't or won't assist, u can skip to d next topic...

I left my number there for verification purpose, which u have not even reached out to.

Stop misinforming people. Help u didn't help, na to spoil people mind with negative narrative. God forbids!

Grow up and get a job. Nobody owes you a penny here!

Skyview01:


I am in agreement with you 100%.

Use a condom if you do not have the resources to take care of a child.

Ne be by force to born?

I ignore people who willfully bring suffering on themselves and I despise parents who willfully bring an innocent child into the world to suffer.

Enough said!

You guys are just spewing trash... So someone running out of funds means he's suffering a baby?

You guys are just children.. Everybody gets into this kind of challenges one way or another...

I don't even owe u any explanation...

Promzy99:


You guys are just spewing trash... So someone running out of funds means he's suffering a baby?

You guys are just children.. Everybody gets into this kind of challenges one way or another...

I don't even owe u any explanation...

Go get a job.

That is what adults do.

No time for your sob stories.

It should be a crime to birth a child without having the means to nurture.

Skyview01:


Grow up and get a job. Nobody owes you a penny here!

Idiot, you get better job pass me? You guys are very swift to judge and condemn.

My post was directed to those who are willing... Nobody owes me any penny and I didn't persuade anybody too...

Do u knw my level of responsibilities?

If I open my bank app and show u my transaction histories, my weekly expenses could be bigger than what u even spend in two months...

Because I solicited for help doesn't give u d right to start saying gibberish...