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4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Pukkalolo: 3:44pm On Jul 08, 2023
Now, for the records...I don't encourage watching porn. Infact one of my expertise is helping people overcome porn.

But I learnt few key lessons from watching porn... These key lessons has actually helped me in my interactions with women. The funny thing is, most men miss these keys lesson because they are watching porn to simply pleasure themselves. I mean, common, that's understandable. Why would you even be watching porn in the first? Ofcourse, to pleasure yourself

But as guy, if you look beyond pleasuring yourself just like I did, you realize these key lessons:

Lesson #1. In porn, you hardly see women disrespecting men or giving men attitude. Porn scene/movie have zero tolerance for that.

But in many Hollywood or Nollywood movie, men are frequently disrespected and insulted by women.

Lesson #2. Porn scenes help exposes the fact the women actually desire and enjoy sex. Infact in most porn movie/scene, the men are often the ones not even desperate for sex. You can NEVER see the men begging for sex or telling the woman, "please let me just put the tip." Never.

But this is quite the opposite when you watch other mainstream movies. In most Nollywood, Hollywood... the woman always play the role good innocent good girl that don't really desire sex. And the men are the ones who are always desperate for sex and love.


Lesson #3. In porn, you rarely see the man spending huge money on the woman, taking her on expensive date or treating her with financial gift in order to convince her to give him sex. Never. Infact there's no Mr Nice guy in porn scenes.

Most men learned to exhibit nice guy simping behaviour from watching Hollywood, Nollywood and so on.


Lesson #4 - Most men in porn movie/scene demonstrate very confident and masculine behaviour. The men are usually in control of the whole interaction. You will never see the men actively chasing or begging for sex: the sex naturally just come to them.

But this is quite the opposite when you watch other mainstream movie. In most Nollywood, Bollywood or Hollywood, the men are practically feminine and weak. You see the men chasing and begging women for love, sex and affection... basically you see the men acting like total losers.


Again. For the records. I don't encourage watching porn. I just took notes of the key lessons.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 3:56pm On Jul 08, 2023
Lesson #5 - Most of the videos show that the men are hardened or violent or sennselesss... There is no one MaN in the videos who has a successful life or even models it.

Lesson #6 - The women are slaves, toys, and they are objectified as lesser than men, which is veryyyyyy wrong.

Lesson #7 - There is no LOVE MAKING, i have watched thousands of videos, not one shows real love making between opposite sex friends who genuinely care about each other. Its either softcore, hardcore, taking advantage or just violence. Anyone who allows it enter the mind will be disappointed in marriage.

Lesson #8 - It gets worse when you enter the deep dark web, i have been in the dark web for five years, we see grueeesomee things in the name of sexx, animals like dogs, monkey, gorillas ,horses having notorious carnal knowledge of pretty ladies, famous stars sleeping with kids, some get killledd due to the violent sexx....


Pls stay away from it. It is a slow fade, once you start it can hook you and give you unrealistic expectations that your spouse can never meet and you will end up frustrated. It fries the brain.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by myyansh68(m): 7:17pm On Jul 08, 2023
woginid967:
Lesson #5 - Most of the videos show that the men are hardened or violent or sennselesss... There is no one MaN in the videos who has a successful life or even models it.

Lesson #6 - The women are slaves, toys, and they are objectified as lesser than men, which is veryyyyyy wrong.

Lesson #7 - There is no LOVE MAKING, i have watched thousands of videos, not one shows real love making between opposite sex friends who genuinely care about each other. Its either softcore, hardcore, taking advantage or just violence. Anyone who allows it enter the mind will be disappointed in marriage.

Lesson #8 - It gets worse when you enter the deep dark web, i have been in the dark web for five years, we see grueeesomee things in the name of sexx, animals like dogs, monkey, gorillas ,horses having notorious carnal knowledge of pretty ladies, famous stars sleeping with kids, some get killledd due to the violent sexx....


Pls stay away from it. It is a slow fade, once you start it can hook you and give you unrealistic expectations that your spouse can never meet and you will end up frustrated. It fries the brain.

Lesson #9

You are really funny, why so funny..
lolz 😂 cheesy

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by VinnyBaba: 11:05pm On Jul 08, 2023
Nice one, OP. 👍

Your observations are on Point.

Porn is the only 'movie' Industry that Actors do NOT do Rehearsals. 🤔😀

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Akwamkpuruamu: 11:57pm On Jul 08, 2023
woginid967:
Lesson #5 - Most of the videos show that the men are hardened or violent or sennselesss... There is no one MaN in the videos who has a successful life or even models it.

Lesson #6 - The women are slaves, toys, and they are objectified as lesser than men, which is veryyyyyy wrong.

Lesson #7 - There is no LOVE MAKING, i have watched thousands of videos, not one shows real love making between opposite sex friends who genuinely care about each other. Its either softcore, hardcore, taking advantage or just violence. Anyone who allows it enter the mind will be disappointed in marriage.

Lesson #8 - It gets worse when you enter the deep dark web, i have been in the dark web for five years, we see grueeesomee things in the name of sexx, animals like dogs, monkey, gorillas ,horses having notorious carnal knowledge of pretty ladies, famous stars sleeping with kids, some get killledd due to the violent sexx....


Pls stay away from it. It is a slow fade, once you start it can hook you and give you unrealistic expectations that your spouse can never meet and you will end up frustrated. It fries the brain.

How do I join the deep dark web

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by tnerro1(m): 12:17am On Jul 09, 2023
This is the conclusion you get when you analyze something that is not real

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by WeirdAlien: 12:49am On Jul 09, 2023
Hollywood portray real life while porn portray the fantasies of men - just have sex without any inhibitions or care for your partner, or any sense of responsibility.
But if you watch closely, you'd realise porn is actually boring. You watch the same thing (that you already know) for several minutes on different camera angles.
There are educative sex films where true life partners volunteer to be recorded. Those are more beneficial if you really want to learn anything.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 12:51am On Jul 09, 2023
Akwamkpuruamu:


How do I join the deep dark web


Oh its simple
Download Tor browser
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Akwamkpuruamu: 12:53am On Jul 09, 2023
woginid967:



Oh its simple
Download Tor browser

Nothing else?
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 12:56am On Jul 09, 2023
Akwamkpuruamu:


Nothing else?

Actually yes. Download and browse the dark web.

That's it.


I believe you are not expecting me to take you by the hand and teach you full course on dark web.... Bro, YouTube is your friend.


I have shown you how to enter...... I'm done. The rest is up to you. Whatever leads you there is different from what led me there.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Akwamkpuruamu: 1:01am On Jul 09, 2023
woginid967:


Actually yes. Download and browse the dark web.

That's it.


I believe you are not expecting me to take you by the hand and teach you full course on dark web.... Bro, YouTube is your friend.


I have shown you how to enter...... I'm done. The rest is up to you. Whatever leads you there is different from what led me there.
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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Bluezy13(m): 2:43am On Jul 09, 2023
tnerro1:
This is the conclusion you get when you analyze something that is not real

Pardon ??
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 2:53am On Jul 09, 2023
Akwamkpuruamu:

No wahala I appreciate. You get any cougar or milf plug for enugu

Sure but.... You want free one or the one wey go pay you, or the one you go dey pay steady
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Passionnn: 3:49am On Jul 09, 2023
Porn is designed primarily for the male audience.
Consequently, the male is mostly portrayed as the one in charged.
It's just a fantasy

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Pukkalolo: 5:11am On Jul 09, 2023
WeirdAlien:
Hollywood portray real life while porn portray the fantasies of men -

Are you kidding me? Hollywood portray lots fantasies. Thanks to green screen, CGI and VFX...
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by OriginalCEO: 5:55am On Jul 09, 2023
woginid967:
Lesson #5 - Most of the videos show that the men are hardened or violent or sennselesss... There is no one MaN in the videos who has a successful life or even models it.

Lesson #6 - The women are slaves, toys, and they are objectified as lesser than men, which is veryyyyyy wrong.

Lesson #7 - There is no LOVE MAKING, i have watched thousands of videos, not one shows real love making between opposite sex friends who genuinely care about each other. Its either softcore, hardcore, taking advantage or just violence. Anyone who allows it enter the mind will be disappointed in marriage.

Lesson #8 - It gets worse when you enter the deep dark web, i have been in the dark web for five years, we see grueeesomee things in the name of sexx, animals like dogs, monkey, gorillas ,horses having notorious carnal knowledge of pretty ladies, famous stars sleeping with kids, some get killledd due to the violent sexx....


Pls stay away from it. It is a slow fade, once you start it can hook you and give you unrealistic expectations that your spouse can never meet and you will end up frustrated. It fries the brain.

Some folks will stop before reading the part where you said it fries the brain or just ignore - because they want to go down the rabbit hole themselves.

Save yourself the stress and just stop before u start watching immoral and illegal stuff in a bid to excite your brain.
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by imagrg(m): 6:06am On Jul 09, 2023
Craze people full Nairaland oh.

See as dem dey analyse toto and preek escapade. shocked

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Kinghenry1315: 6:34am On Jul 09, 2023
It is the input you put in this world so is the output when you are talking be saying generally or in the majority but if you want a porn where female are in dominance or where men beg for sex you will search for it and you will see it and there are porn for romantic and married sex couple too there are she male and gay porn don't castigate it I have been watching porn since I was 15 years am not addicted it doesn't stop me from being who I wanted to be what you desire you will get

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by eepeepook: 7:12am On Jul 09, 2023
Twelve year olds still believing porn is real.
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by kelspinall(m): 8:11am On Jul 09, 2023
real talk shaa even tho porn and other movies are scripted...
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by wonder233: 8:55am On Jul 09, 2023
You're wrong.
The misconception generally held is that women are not expressive or aggressive about sex. It is not true. Numerous studies have shown there is actually no difference between women and men when it comes to sexuality.
What is misleading people to think otherwise is because overtime, society has placed a higher moral burden on women, expecting them to be more restrained. But the reality is that, they are not! They just learnt to be more discreet so as not to upset society.
Women are far more sexually active than men. If only there's a way to have a secret camera to record the average female, you will be shocked.
Passionnn:
Porn is designed primarily for the male audience.
Consequently, the male is mostly portrayed as the one in charged.
It's just a fantasy

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Akwamkpuruamu: 9:47am On Jul 09, 2023
woginid967:


Sure but.... You want free one or the one wey go pay you, or the one you go dey pay steady

FWB, mutual financial assistance
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by HenryTimes: 10:36am On Jul 09, 2023
Hollywood, Nollywood and Pornwood are all scripted. Real life has no manual. What works for A, may not work for B.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by CandleEyes(m): 12:18pm On Jul 09, 2023
Listen well watching porn leaves you vulnerable spiritually against witches or devilish attacks. Sex is only for procreation/childbirth or warmth not pleasures. This is God's True plan for sex. Protect yourself essence brothers in Christ this society is so demonic.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Prettygirl200(f): 2:39pm On Jul 09, 2023
woginid967:
Lesson #5 - Most of the videos show that the men are hardened or violent or sennselesss... There is no one MaN in the videos who has a successful life or even models it.

Lesson #6 - The women are slaves, toys, and they are objectified as lesser than men, which is veryyyyyy wrong.

Lesson #7 - There is no LOVE MAKING, i have watched thousands of videos, not one shows real love making between opposite sex friends who genuinely care about each other. Its either softcore, hardcore, taking advantage or just violence. Anyone who allows it enter the mind will be disappointed in marriage.

Lesson #8 - It gets worse when you enter the deep dark web, i have been in the dark web for five years, we see grueeesomee things in the name of sexx, animals like dogs, monkey, gorillas ,horses having notorious carnal knowledge of pretty ladies, famous stars sleeping with kids, some get killledd due to the violent sexx....


Pls stay away from it. It is a slow fade, once you start it can hook you and give you unrealistic expectations that your spouse can never meet and you will end up frustrated. It fries the brain.
What is wrong with this one!? Porn is scripted just like movies oga you should make your observations from reality and stop being stupid. Mumu man!!
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by SenecaTheYonger: 2:43pm On Jul 09, 2023
For lesson number two, why should they beg when they've been paid? Have you every begged a hoook up girl for sex when she knows she's got a job to do?

For lesson number three, you do know that doesn't make sense because the women are on contract. And women in porn are paid more than men.

If i've learnt anything from this thread it's the fact that, truly, porn really distorts one's view of life. The OP has consumed so much porn content he doesn't know what's real and what's acting.
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 1:28am On Jul 10, 2023
Prettygirl200:
What is wrong with this one!? Porn is scripted just like movies oga you should make your observations from reality and stop being stupid. Mumu man!!

Whoever you are.

Check your mental health.

#just like other movies kee u there.

Did you carry gun and rob after watching action films,did you fight martial arts?

So as an adult, watching porn is just like others to you, your brain is fried.

The effervescence from your puci has soaked the grey matter of your brain.


You see the truth, you attack me for exposing it.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 1:37am On Jul 10, 2023
Akwamkpuruamu:

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Akwamkpuruamu: 6:58am On Jul 10, 2023
woginid967:


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07026918605 ashley
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They can refer you too.

Thanks manchi! I owe you
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Prettygirl200(f): 7:42am On Jul 14, 2023
woginid967:


Whoever you are.

Check your mental health.

#just like other movies kee u there.

Did you carry gun and rob after watching action films,did you fight martial arts?

So as an adult, watching porn is just like others to you, your brain is fried.

The effervescence from your puci has soaked the grey matter of your brain.


You see the truth, you attack me for exposing it.
you are just ranting like the mad man that you are, yen yen yen duns!!!
Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by woginid967: 3:42pm On Jul 14, 2023
Prettygirl200:
you are just ranting like the mad man that you are, yen yen yen duns!!!

Las las dm me for 500k quickie.

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Re: 4 Important Lessons I Learnt From Watching Porn by Wildlover(m): 1:10pm On Jul 19, 2023
Boss free one or woman wey go pay, you get any contact?
woginid967:


Sure but.... You want free one or the one wey go pay you, or the one you go dey pay steady

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