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Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by phemmyfour: 8:18pm On Jul 13, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
A girl child love to explore at that age. It's your duty to sit her down and give her sex education, informed her about danger associated with getting addicted to porn.

2. Encourage her to get busy and advise her to thread carefully in the cyberspace....she can use interest to either destroy or develop herself.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by MuslimIgbo: 8:31pm On Jul 13, 2023
richeeyo:
Abeg leave the girl alone
When will you ever have sense?
If the girl was your younger sister, will you just leave her alone?
Or deh
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by OnonujuChrist(m): 8:32pm On Jul 13, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
You have taken the first good step, now you have to overlook whatever you see has embarrassing her and confront her about it, let her know of the damage she is causing herself. Been addicted to porn is a very bad habit and she needs to stop before it gets too late.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by okoroemeka(m): 8:51pm On Jul 13, 2023
Samantha124:
Leave her alone, she's just a curious teenager... I was once like her during that age... cheesy cheesy cheesy
and no churchillian speech can make her stop watching porn that is 80-90% sure she is masturbating and enjoying sweet climax from it,but just advice her and let it be,the power of her hormones is more than any speech you can think of.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by bisqit: 9:02pm On Jul 13, 2023
mariahAngel:
Are you waiting till she gets pregnant?
That "embarrassment" might be what would save her from ruining her future.

You found out for a reason, so do something about it.
If not, you might regret not doing so on time.
when did you quit watching porn
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by questioner: 9:07pm On Jul 13, 2023
bluefilm:


Wow!

I wouldn't mind taking your niece under my tutelage and be subscribing the data for her so that she can continue with her pleasurable selflove habits

But, please o, do you happen to know the type of pørn she watches?


I bind and cast you in the name of the master grin grin
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by bisqit: 9:11pm On Jul 13, 2023
Samantha124:
No, I was never addicted... With me it was more of a curiosity rather than an addiction.

I only visited those sites for about two or three months and it wasn't an everyday thing, but there were some days whereby I'd binge watch them... Once I was satisfied with what I saw, I stopped and I haven't been to any of those sites till today.

I too was around 17 years old when the whole thing happened.
can you suck a dick

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Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Originalsly: 9:23pm On Jul 13, 2023
Curiosity is not the same as addiction. She is addicted to porn. She is tall for her age and looks more matured. Girls her age are attracted to older guys ... and since she looks older ... even older guys will will pursue her.... older guys experienced in the ways to trap younger inexperienced girls. With her head loaded with porn theory it will not take much to sweep her off her feet for practical experience. Curiosity will get the better of her. Maybe she will go for guys ..... maybe she wants to play it safe and goes for licky licky.. Either way .... she becomes promiscuous.... under your parents' nose ... tagged olosho or lesbian. Then what?
I advise that you have a one on one talk with her ... that you know she has been using up the data and it wasn't for homework... research ... movies or games. That to be curious is fine ... but she has become addicted ... and there is absolutely nothing good that can come out of that addiction. It is one that can result in shame to the family and misery for her. That you are only advising her as a big brother ... not condemning her .... but she has to make that decision.

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Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Onyi90(m): 9:29pm On Jul 13, 2023
richeeyo:
Abeg leave the girl alone

Very careless response. Terrible 😔
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Shancca: 9:31pm On Jul 13, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

You have seen something bad, you have to act before it gets bad. Please admonish her before no one.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by rockog: 9:31pm On Jul 13, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
*PLEASE HOW DID YOU INSTALL THE NETWORK TRACKER
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Mologi(m): 10:00pm On Jul 13, 2023
Pray for her.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by KingRoiz(m): 11:02pm On Jul 13, 2023
I hope you personally have a real relationship with Christ?
Then you can also offer her a sincere opportunity of her soul salvation for her destiny sake. Let her parents know , if they are her parents why hide truths from them except they aren't matured.

You said she's 17... Well, a 16 year old girl was always giving me sexual advances when I was about 24 or so, even when she called me uncle...and later I found out I wasn't the only one, even the workers that came to work in her father's house...so what's the meaning of 17yrs?..the devil is devil to everyone,the younger the better...

Sex education is compulsory cos if you don't teach her, as you already know by now- she has learnt it from the devil.
So sincerely teach her in love and brutal caution the truths about God, relationships, sex etc ...
It all begins with you & her parenting.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by isabi2lof: 11:25pm On Jul 13, 2023
By the time she use her own to buy data , nobody go tell her grin

Porn dey consume data like snake wey swallow jamb money..
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by zumbigbo(m): 11:32pm On Jul 13, 2023
[quote author=questioner post=124380409]My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.

What is your IP address, you near junction?
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by MySolace: 11:39pm On Jul 13, 2023
obinna58:

Typical fish brain gender

Op embarrassing her wouldn’t solve any problem, it’ll make it worse
Disconnecting her is enough already, let her use her money to explore her curiosity

She doesn’t need any advice rather enlightenment and I’m sure she gathered enough in school to know what protection means, just let her be, in time she’ll adjust
Wot exactly are u talking about...?
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by dontrulee: 11:49pm On Jul 13, 2023
Na teenagers dey watch porn pass.
If you want to help her, be her friend first.
Talk to her about the disadvantages of pornography and masturbation. Tell her about the dangers of addiction.
Teach her about safe sex and sex education.

Encourage her to learn online skills instead of wasting time with porn.

Its because she has most things running for her, free food, plenty Data etc. If one is not engage in productive activities, one will be wasting time watching porn.

Her hormones are very high at this phase of her Life and she's curious about her sexuality, try to talk to her and I hope things work out well.

I hope she doesn't come across a bad guy who will turn her into a damaged hoe
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by brownlolly(m): 11:51pm On Jul 13, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

Speaking to her about it is the best solution. It is very hard to break away from porn addiction. For some, it's like a drug, and it takes someone who has been in such helpless situations to help those who are just starting life and getting exposed to porn. But you have to be mindful of the way you talk to her. No threats, no insults, no religious talk. Just speak with understanding and caution. Sit her down. Help her relax and let her know that you are aware of what she has been doing. Is she denies it, don't confront her. Just present the facts. Talk to her about the dangers of pornography. I know a few. Lack of focus, exposure to masturbation which could lead to sexual addiction, and lack of confidence and social skills. it gets worse as they age.

Please speak to her like an adult. No chastisement. Just education about the dangers. And don't tell anyone else please. Help her build confidence and trust in you.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by yahoodetector: 2:23am On Jul 14, 2023
questioner:



If it is a guy, I wouldn't bother much cos I know too well that lots of young boys go thru this phase but even though I know it exists but this is the first time I am seeing a girl in this situation - if it portends the beginning of trouble, I will just advice that she should be returned to stay with her dad

See you! You don't know that ladies are more addicted to and view porn more than guys?

Forget about all these pretenders like Siofra, Candidlady, Sapphire, Jennyclay etc that always blab here making it look like women are saints meanwhile they do worse!

Whatever guys do...women do it more to the extreme (porn watching/masturbation and child molestation) included.

Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by eepeepook: 5:09am On Jul 14, 2023
All these perverts on Nairaland. Mscheew.

Spend money to buy near unlimited data. She’s 17, she’s learning about her body. We all watched porn in teenage years. Leave her to do her own. The only thing you can do as an uncle is to advice her to use birth control if she ever chooses to experiment. In the western world, you can’t tell her anything starting from next year. Your only hope is to set her on the right path beginning from this year.

After they’ll say women don’t watch porn. The urge for copulation is strong in every human being. We learn to control it later in life.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by lokito: 6:53am On Jul 14, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

I don't know why you elders misbehave in the name of being civil.

My friend, that moment you found out, call her out and warn her sternly. Tell her everything you know and teach her about the dangers of porn and masturbation (Since she's addicted, she is presumably masturbating).
Guy help her to be free from that spiritual clutches she's confined herself to.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 9jaRealist: 7:03am On Jul 14, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!
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Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by 9jaRealist: 7:04am On Jul 14, 2023
lokito:
I don't know why you elders misbehave in the name of being civil.

My friend, that moment you found out, call her out and warn her sternly. Tell her everything you know and teach her about the dangers of porn and masturbation (Since she's addicted, she is presumably masturbating).
Guy help her to be free from that spiritual clutches she's confined herself to.

Here’s comes folks from the Stone Age…smh undecided
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Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by rapheal5(m): 7:55am On Jul 14, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
I see people posting almost everyone engage in such nonsense, bro u suppose enter her room catch her in the stupid act and slap that nonsense off her corrupt mind.... Back in the days people keep saying you can't find virgin lady in one of the most corrupted Polytechnic in ogun state but I found one on 2go final year ND student, beautiful fair lady with dimples,we dated for 2 weeks I told her I've a gf.. My first night at her plc she nearly raped me she insisted she want me to deflower her she already bought condom so I did it and that was it....The fact that many people are mad doesn't mean you can't see many sane people...
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Padipadi: 8:10am On Jul 14, 2023
richeeyo:
Abeg leave the girl alone
So that she can ever olosho biz abi. She deserved family beating that ll reset her to default
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Padipadi: 8:11am On Jul 14, 2023
Sablexxxtoons:
Lol she's just exploring her taste for BBC's .. every teen has such exploring..

But she should learn to do so with her own data.. and teach her about safe sex before it becomes unwanted pregnant
Oh oh, as in she don dey imagine how it ll be when big dicks start ramming her. Her life ll spoil if she doesn't stop.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Noreliltd: 8:43am On Jul 14, 2023
It's from clap that people enter dance. Evil prevail when good men do nothing. Lastly he who see a person doing evil and does not warn him or her is an accomplice. Bottom line speak to her about from a place of love not condemnation [Qquote author=questioner post=124380409]My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on[/quote]
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by megabank(m): 8:45am On Jul 14, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
Porn addicts are most likely masturbation addicts. Porn and masturbation addicts are mostly depressed people. I think you should confront her politely and discreetly, assure her you won't breath a word about it to anyone, give her closure, allow her tell you what's up with her.
Lead her to the ways of prayers. It is on the prayer alter she will obtain enabling grace to subdue the addiction.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by NigerianAngelo(m): 8:54am On Jul 14, 2023
questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.

1. It's GOOD you didn't confront her.

2. PRAY A ROSARY NOVENA FOR HER, BOOK MASS. It's the problem of most youths (adolescents). It stops with time.

But pray a Rosary Novena for her to stop it and its effects. You could book a Mass.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by nathpope(m): 8:59am On Jul 14, 2023
Talk to your niece.
Try to understand why she does the things she is doing.
You already did well by not telling on her with her parents or other older ones to avoid embarrassing her.

You would be surprise with the revelation that would ensue from what you get to hear from her of she pours her heart to you.

She sure needs help.. You might be the one to help her stop or overcome all these instead of one psycho or perv who would pry on her shortcomings out there.

Receive wisdom..


questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by Cchuks27(m): 10:13am On Jul 14, 2023
Save your niece man. Report her urgently to nip it at the bud.
Re: My 17 Year Old Niece Is Addicted To Porn - Should I Intervene by spy24(m): 10:30am On Jul 14, 2023
I see many lies here..

You people should stop generalizing.. watching porn is not a good thing and there are many people out there that did not indulge in the sin.

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