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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Jeyun: 3:24pm On Sep 02, 2023
Skyview01:
First, you are making an unsubstantiated claim! What is your source ?

Secondly, you are free to go to the village and marry an illiterate mgbeke girl, give birth to mgbeke children and wait for your marriage to last.
how dare u call innocent children born to this world mgbeke children, are u not more of mgbeke than those children from your altrance? Educated illiterate like u.
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by vickydevoka(m): 3:26pm On Sep 02, 2023
IconicR:
Seriously I've seen more marriages of uneducated couples lasting very long than the educated ones, what could be the reason for this?
Marriage is for two mumu people. I too know de scatter marriage
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by dangotesmummy: 3:37pm On Sep 02, 2023
Jovialjune1:
Make una dey get sense o, education has nothing to do with failed marriages.
make them no get sense shebi 2023 don dey finish.body go tell who no get sense.gone are the days when them dey beg person to get sense
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Bigchristo: 3:41pm On Sep 02, 2023
izonborn098:
First marriage is not for two strict people, one has to fall mugu or better still overlook and accept many things.
A graduate is more advance and have some white man mentality because they are educated and can read whatever both online and offline while am uneducated woman has am africa mentality which she knows the man is the head of the house, she can accept many of his mistakes just as u forgive ur children of their mistakes but am educated wife take everything serious because of pride and entitle mentality there by competing with her husband.
You can take advantage of ur uneducated wife in so many occasions compared to the educated one.
If u have an uneducated women who is business minded and has understanding then just open business for her and have a happy family e.g orhobo and igbo women are very good examples, while an educated working woman will some times prefer her work more than the marriage all because she want to be dependent.
Op their are more but just
Youโ€™re absolutely correct in your opinion, most educated people feel too woke and especially the women they want to equal themselves with men and thatโ€™s why there are so much divorce cases in this our generation
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by OpulentP: 3:43pm On Sep 02, 2023
IconicR:
Seriously I've seen more marriages of uneducated couples lasting very long than the educated ones, what could be the reason for this?


Less ego
Less entitlement
Much respect for each other
Accepting responsibilities amongst each other
Subordination
Cutting their dress according to their dress
No/Less of social media and films


Even those who marries a secondarian as wife, I know a good number of them, their marriage last and peaceful
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On Sep 02, 2023
Bigchristo:
Youโ€™re absolutely correct in your opinion, most educated people feel too woke and especially the women they want to equal themselves with men and thatโ€™s why there are so much divorce cases in this our generation
So women having equal rights as men means divorce whereas men with women as slaves in marriage amounts to more abandonment of women in marriage. Interesting! undecided

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by dangotesmummy: 3:43pm On Sep 02, 2023
Jeyun:
how dare u call innocent children born to this world mgbeke children, are u not more of mgbeke than those children from your ALTRANCE? Educated illiterate like u.
it is UTTERANCE not altrance.Thank you cool

We can now figure who the mgbeke is cool
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by oluwasegun007(m): 3:44pm On Sep 02, 2023
Extrem feminism
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by dangotesmummy: 3:47pm On Sep 02, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So women having equal rights as men means divorce whereas men with women as slaves in marriage amounts to more abandonment of women in marriage. Interesting! undecided
welcome to nairaland where every chauvenist and misogynist has an opinion cool

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by omooba969(m): 3:48pm On Sep 02, 2023
izonborn098:
First marriage is not for two strict people, one has to fall mugu or better still overlook and accept many things.
A graduate is more advance and have some white man mentality because they are educated and can read whatever both online and offline while am uneducated woman has am africa mentality which she knows the man is the head of the house, she can accept many of his mistakes just as u forgive ur children of their mistakes but am educated wife take everything serious because of pride and entitle mentality there by competing with her husband.
You can take advantage of ur uneducated wife in so many occasions compared to the educated one.
If u have an uneducated women who is business minded and has understanding then just open business for her and have a happy family e.g orhobo and igbo women are very good examples, while an educated working woman will some times prefer her work more than the marriage all because she want to be dependent.
Op their are more but just

What do you have to say about Urhobo and Igbo women who are educated?
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by JaskanFactor: 3:48pm On Sep 02, 2023
Education, the cosmopolitan city, the fast life is all the same thing, a life fully engrossed in matter, Matter is derived from ancient word maya, maya means illusion.

You could well have said why does marriage of village people last longer than those of people in the city. Its cause the people in the city have been exposed to much of the illusory world, and thus ambitions and expectations have become inhumane and unrealistic.

The fast life with the schools, offices, bills , traffic , education and all thier stresses are like a stain akin to exposure to toxic nuclear waste.
Anybody wishing to remain in sanity should really limit exposure to just what they need to make ends meet.

Never look upon the cosmopolitan and its education as a way forward, at best its a necessary evil.

You could be impressed with education and civilisation in maya/matter , until you find out that its said that the world was more technologically advanced during the time of Abraham than it is today , cause its said the ziggurats alien looking flat top pyramids in iraq were built around the time of Abraham and that he grew up around those structures.

There is far too much evidence around the world to show that many periods in ancient times were more hitech than today, example Olumorock in Abeokuta is an ancient man made structure of woman laying down, you can see this from helicopter etc. They could not have built that structure without lots of machines , not the pyramids in Egypt and many palaces in Europe and Russia have the same story .

here is YouTube page of Russian lady who goes around the world researching those ancient structures from long lost civilisations of the past, focus on her older vids not the new ones, cause a re newer vids are more about her life journey. Its from her i foundout about olumo rock being part of ancient civilisation of giant people.

https://www.youtube.com/@newearth-sylvie-ivanova

So that in the ancient books that most people never get to read, but secret cults share with one another, it is said that civilisation rise and always necessarily fall cause the very essence of civilisation and its education and its fast life is draining the life force of the population to a point where it all has to end in some catastrophic disaster like war cause everybody gets too arrogant , selfish , greedy and complacent . Then the survivors start the process all over again, much like sea water keeps coming home to the beach and retreating all day .

The builders of civilisation it said, always retreat into thier caves when the chaos starts, then they come back to rebuild from scratch all over again.

They build the civilisation knowing full well that what it takes to build that civilisation is going to make the people soulless, and thus eventually leading to the collapse of the civilisation. Just like sea water rises high promising to wipe out the beach only to crash at shore, then it starts all over again. They do say people and all solids are doing what the water is doing, except in slow motion.

Exposure to the civilisation and its ways is making the people less human , less able to get along , all the while they get more hitech.

This is why many religions like islam / Judaism advocate getting out of civilisation say 5 times a day, dropping everything and retreating to a quite place, they treat exposure to matter/maya as as exposure to toxic waste that needs to be limited. Jews for example dont touch anything with electricity on sabbath/Saturday.

No, technology , education, civilisation, cosmopolitan etc is not a novel idea, its at best a necessary evil to which one needs to limit their exposure to what you need to make ends meet.

This is why its often the case that the more a certain tribe does well at school, the more such a tribe are likely to be arrogant, selfish, greedy, jealous.

They say the smartest kids come last in class, cause thier purpose is to see the night whilst those that come first are here to see the day, and need guidance by night from the former.

No please dont ever think you making progress through education and promotion , its strictly for putting food on the table, cause its a stain on the soul. Cause of all the concentration you have to sacrifice into it.

Marriages last longer in the village for same reason that village people have simpler jokes that city people will find boring.

So that every time you give the world your eyes can see your full attention , you are in a way exposing your spirit to toxic waste, its a necessary evil that should be limited in moderation, but some then go ahead and turn that into a university and 9 to 5 career job .

The ancient teachers say , for with each new knowledge comes corruption of the soul. So that he who comes first in class, is far more likely to have a very depraved dark mind.

This is why certain cultures go out of thier way to keep it simple, slow and steady.
Cause the invisible world with which we are supposed to be in concert with is more like a church choir , from whom we detach every time we go into noisy, busy, fast pace life.

So the marriage of educated people dont last as long , cause they are living a life of corruption.
And many dont realise its a trap, there is nothing new under the sun, the ancient civilisations were more hitech than today and things always fall apart cause everybody becomes corrupted by the very essence of the the civilisation process.

This is why its not a bad idea to choose a marriage partner from some remote village, thus not yet so stained by the toxic waste that is so called civilisation, for we are spirit before matter.

There is an ancient god worshipped in Europe when Europe was still run by its melanated dark skin founders , his statue always shows him with one eye open and the other closed, depicting that try not to get carried away by the day and events, limit exposure of the open eyes, and look inside more often , seek out the dimly lit quiet places where everything is slow, lest you miss the beat of the choir of trinity.

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Bigchristo: 3:49pm On Sep 02, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So women having equal rights as men means divorce whereas men with women as slaves in marriage amounts to more abandonment of women in marriage. Interesting! undecided
Only a foolish man would see his wife as a slave in marriage
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Kobojunkie: 3:50pm On Sep 02, 2023
Bigchristo:
Only a foolish man would see his wife as a slave in marriage
But a person who is not an equal partner in any relationship is a slave in the union. So?. undecided
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by BERNIMOORE: 3:52pm On Sep 02, 2023
if you are a christian, Marriage was intended between couples with a Godly mindset, But when Sin entered the world, everything deteriorate, eve was disobedient, and many natural things from Animals to humans started behaving vociferous, before, Lion leopard and many of this animals sre not vociferous but the spirit of satan has caused them to leave their nautural beign and turned deadly, same with humans,

Nothing destroys marriage easily like Feminism, unfortunately it is one of the alien behaviour that crept into humans....educated ones are more vulneble to feminism than uneducated ones.

Feminist have no business getting into marriage, its like entering into one legged trouser.
Dont argue with feminists, Just walk away
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by InvertedHammer: 3:53pm On Sep 02, 2023
IconicR:
Seriously I've seen more marriages of uneducated couples lasting very long than the educated ones, what could be the reason for this?
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The foundation of formal education is mind programming for workforce. That's why a lot of high end successful inventors never finished university. Educated people read too many books that separate them from their individuality leading to confusion and power play.

Why do you think educated people are easily scammed?

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2023
Jeyun:
how dare u call innocent children born to this world mgbeke children, are u not more of mgbeke than those children from your altrance? Educated illiterate like u.

Nor vex bros.

I meant to say mothers have a lot of influence on their kids academically and if you marry an illiterate, they may not have anything to pass down to the kids.
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by OpulentP: 3:54pm On Sep 02, 2023
izonborn098:
First marriage is not for two strict people, one has to fall mugu or better still overlook and accept many things.
A graduate is more advance and have some white man mentality because they are educated and can read whatever both online and offline while am uneducated woman has am africa mentality which she knows the man is the head of the house, she can accept many of his mistakes just as u forgive ur children of their mistakes but am educated wife take everything serious because of pride and entitle mentality there by competing with her husband.
You can take advantage of ur uneducated wife in so many occasions compared to the educated one.
If u have an uneducated women who is business minded and has understanding then just open business for her and have a happy family e.g orhobo and igbo women are very good examples, while an educated working woman will some times prefer her work more than the marriage all because she want to be dependent.
Op their are more but just

Uhn! U nail it 99% no objection

May God Increase u in more beneficial knowledge and wisdom (Amen)
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Bigchristo: 3:56pm On Sep 02, 2023
Kobojunkie:
But a person who is not an equal partner in any relationship is a slave in the union. So?. undecided
You have a wrong opinion to this matter, Bible said women should be submissive and supportive to their husbands same Bible never said women should equal themselves to their husbands, this feminism has really destroyed our society women now think having an equal right with the husband is when they will not be slaves, better kill that idea ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by pendragonbladgo(m): 3:59pm On Sep 02, 2023
Simple, uneducated women argue less and submit more

The educated women know everything so they see no reason a man should be the head and, if you have 2captain on a ship, you find out that the ship will head to Europe and Indian the same time....
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Kobojunkie: 3:59pm On Sep 02, 2023
Bigchristo:
โ–  You have a wrong opinion to this matter, Bible said women should be submissive and supportive to their husbands same Bible never said women should equal themselves to their husbands, this feminism has really destroyed our society women now think having an equal right with the husband is when they will not be slaves, better kill that idea ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
1. Ignorance is indeed not bliss! Submission in the bible is a curse God placed on marriage after the fall of man, in Genesis 3 vs 16. God does not want anyone of His own to live under the curse so are you saying that you choose the curse for your marriage?, undecided

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Neddyogu(m): 4:00pm On Sep 02, 2023
What a narrow-minded, misogynistic thread....

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by dangotesmummy: 4:00pm On Sep 02, 2023
Tundesimple123:
Because uneducated woman will always bow and respect her husband opinion
lmaooo you be God? grin

Make another human being dey bow down and worship you grin

African women don try no be small grin

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by dangotesmummy: 4:01pm On Sep 02, 2023
Neddyogu:
What a narrow-minded, misogynistic thread....
the misogynistic thread dey smell no be small grin
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 02, 2023
VULCAN:
Your second paragraph reveals trauma!

You need to talk to someone who can help



I liked your comment to make you happy. that is how nice I am.

Did you marry an mgbeke girl?

Just asking for a friend!
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 02, 2023
Two experienced people playing a game will crash
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Kobojunkie: 4:04pm On Sep 02, 2023
BERNIMOORE:
โ–  if you are a christian, Marriage was intended between couples with a Godly mindset, But when Sin entered the world, everything deteriorate, eve was disobedient, and many natural things from Animals to humans started behaving vociferous, before, Lion leopard and many of this animals sre not vociferous but the spirit of satan has caused them to leave their nautural beign and turned deadly, same with humans,
Nothing destroys marriage easily like Feminism, unfortunately it is one of the alien behaviour that crept into humans....educated ones are more vulneble to feminism than uneducated ones.
Feminist have no business getting into marriage, its like entering into one legged trouser.
Dont argue with feminists, Just walk awa
y
Stop dragging the mention of God into these mindless epistles abeg! undecided
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by TOYE16(m): 4:04pm On Sep 02, 2023
In short, what kill marriage is pride and unfaithfulness

izonborn098:
First marriage is not for two strict people, one has to fall mugu or better still overlook and accept many things.
A graduate is more advance and have some white man mentality because they are educated and can read whatever both online and offline while am uneducated woman has am africa mentality which she knows the man is the head of the house, she can accept many of his mistakes just as u forgive ur children of their mistakes but am educated wife take everything serious because of pride and entitle mentality there by competing with her husband.
You can take advantage of ur uneducated wife in so many occasions compared to the educated one.
If u have an uneducated women who is business minded and has understanding then just open business for her and have a happy family e.g orhobo and igbo women are very good examples, while an educated working woman will some times prefer her work more than the marriage all because she want to be dependent.
Op their are more but just
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by omoadeleye(m): 4:04pm On Sep 02, 2023
Because of I TOO KNOW
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by dangotesmummy: 4:04pm On Sep 02, 2023
pendragonbladgo:
Simple, uneducated women argue less and submit more

The educated women know everything so they see no reason a man should be the head and, if you have 2captain on a ship, you find out that the ship will head to Europe and Indian the same time....
an educated mind is impossible to be enslaved.secondly marriage is partnership with a dose of love and mutual honour for each other not master and slave relationship.if you like go to the thickest forest go find wife wey nor know ABC,body go tell you grin

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Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Kobojunkie: 4:05pm On Sep 02, 2023
Oruebube2024:
Two experienced people playing a game will crash
So one has to be inexperienced and open to being taken advantage of by the other? undecided
Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Genea(f): 4:05pm On Sep 02, 2023
IconicR:
Seriously I've seen more marriages of uneducated couples lasting very long than the educated ones, what could be the reason for this?
You sound like those illiterates that are happy when the educated ones are unemployed. Did you perform a survey to ascertain this as a fact? Or is this based on your feelings... Also change your circle.

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