Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

Humans believe they are insatiable and some tend to capitalise on it.

It's because runs girls have increased. And it's now easier to cheat with instagram, mobile money, uber and airbnb.

For example, in this video: Secrets your girls keep: watch how undergraduate girls codedly admit to seducing married men. Listen to them talk about sex parties in Lekki, lactating mothers still doing hookups and why you can never satisfy hookup girls and their patronisers sexually.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-PXdeL2tc

How will your marriage last under these conditions. Would you as a man be able to resist their charms?

a word is enough for any woman who wants to keep her man. Your selection is very important

You are right but the guilty ones will come to add some nice input as well leaving me wondering where the guilty ones are truly hiding. The men above and below me are all guilty.

You have spoken well, the world 🌍 never stopped changing.

ebubeson:
Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

Many reasons....

1. Some women married early and they see young girls of recent days having fun.. So they indulge in what those young ladies does.

2. The economy is bad and many husbands can't fulfil their marital duty financially, their wives in turn seek alternative.

3. Some women are no longer attractive to their men after children, they go for fresh young ladies.

4. Most ladies are not ready to work, they will do anything for money

Humans like to explore both men and women.

Marriage is a sort of a forced union many people buy into. Its just a certificate.

Humans will still be Humans.

Mhh

You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!

I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

1 & 3........

It has always been like this.

We assumed its on the rise coz

More people do it confidently
More people get caught

The rise in female financial autonomy and independence would yield lesser sexual inhibition on her part.

Over 60% of adultery take place in the office environment.

The modern woman lacks shame and have lesser inhibition than her last generation counterpart.

But for every wayward and rebellious woman out there, there is a man or two responsible -- her father/brother or husband.

Hookup girls too much
They won’t marry at right time
Will now be disturbing married men with nude videos
Pass around like food

Na open eye ooooo


😂 😂

e no pass like that

Spot on

Infidelity or promiscuity or polygamy or whatever name you call it didn't start today and isn't on the rise anything lol.


Its just that our current world now have a better instant communication methods, all thanks to social media that now makes everything that used to be hidden open. Nothing that is happening in the world today started today....in fact, the world is even becoming better due to mobile cameras, hidden cameras, social media platforms that now put pressure on all humans to act and behave better than some decades ago where humans feared no video leak or social media outburst.



Another reason it seems like these things are on the increase today is due to overpopulation.....Nigeria was less than 50million people in the 1960s but today we are 200million plus.....approaching 300million or more if we take accurate census. So its highly expected for incidents like these to increase as the world's population increases.



We all must thank our God for creating us when the world has even become sweeter....imagine those that lived in the 1930s, 1940s, 1960s with 1st world war, 2nd world war, civil wars almost happening in every country and people being killed in the most brutal manners without conscience by their so called leaders unlike today.

Variety is the spice of life, no vex na English I speak oo

I love a woman that can do 2hrs. Anything less I will loss interest.

In those days, it was married men topping the chart in infidelity but nowadays, married women are not joking at all.. runs o, escort o, interstate hustle o, even motels, dem dey there.

On the rise ke? It use to be a men-controlled game but now women are openly embracing the sport. What men can do, women can do too.

franchasofficia:
lol

Oya say something na, see as he's laughing abi this trap catch you? 😂

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ebubeson:
Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

4. Men are polygamous by nature.

layzie:


These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

I don't want to insult you, but only an idiotic fool would believe otherwise

Apt!



The way the present society is programmed to accept infidelity as a Norm is overwhelming. Back then, the cheating was solely on men but now married woman cheat with reckless abandon. I was in a saloon one time when a guy was on call, discussing with his married lover to come do his laundry and house chores.... Like wft 😳




Nothing like love again, just two individuals trying to explore their sexual desire.

Hmmm

Lack of commitment!!!!
You woo a lady,u marry her and all of a sudden you stop doing the things that made her fall in love with you,no effort at all whatsoever..you reduce d calls to zero,no care,no affection..... especially if she has kids for you then you think that's where her life ends...some men need to do better..na just fear of God if not!!!!!

Because, all 9ja girls are ashawo by nature both the ones forming GF or church girl/wife. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe/wife doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo.

I always pitied the married guys, when I see their wives doing ashawo up and down without them knowing.