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Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Kelechi009: 12:29am On Aug 09, 2023 |
pansophist: Some men are very lucky to marry good women that they may never experience it at all. Especially the ones who met their wives in Universities and they grew together. Believe me, some people are very lucky. Some men are just living life & happy, they don't even know what is RedPill or Feminism or anything like that. I know some guys like that. |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by pansophist(m): 12:31am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Kelechi009: Yes. If you are her first love or even second, and both of you grow together, those relationships are perfect. If she sees you as a part of her and genuinely loved the man. But if she sees you as someone she wants to tame, or conquer, lol, make I no talk |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by GabrielYulaw(m): 12:36am On Aug 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Has the "rich igbo dude" search been abandoned? If so that would be a national catastrophe. I hope a face you can sit on is the goal now |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by pansophist(m): 12:38am On Aug 09, 2023 |
IconicR: I dont follow it mostly. The red pill I know is not the one I see on nairaland. For me redpill is just throwing light on the dark side of humans (and in relational settings, women). TRP is not limited to women. For example, I talk about US hegemony a lot in the foreign affairs section, thats a form of red pill, because lots of people think the woes of the Nigerian economy are only an internal issue, with no external issues as well. Redpill is just an unconventional truth, but if one uses it as an umbrella to hate women, then it's their problem, it's better they don't marry and make an innocent woman suffer. TRP is not to hate, slander, or refuse to deal with women. I like women a lot, but liking a woman doesn't mean I am stupid to think she is an angel and doesn't sin, or cant have bad intentions. And TRP is important for men because it is usually from men women light their candles. Love, resources, protection, attention, support etc flow from men to women. Womens love is consumptive in nature. So a man has to know TRP, so he gets value from a woman that he sacrifices himself to. Women may go ahead without needing TRP since their realities makes them understand it by default, but not men. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Kobojunkie: 1:07am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Jman06:Now it seems you are insinuating that only those few among them who have access to larger wealth are able to both raise children and have a retirement plan that does not include having their kids roped into indentured servitude under them in old age. Is this so? 2. You claim society as it is is not functional yet so far you have been able to admit that ○ those in society who are childless are able to plan and thrive even in old age. ○ it is possible to raise a child or even children and still have a retirement plan that does not the parents on the children in their old age From the much you have admitted to, clearly the system is the least of the reasons behind the trend of birthing kids for a retirement plan as it has more to do with subjective ideas held by those who do so. Rather, such selfish ideas seem to thrive because the Nigerian system is non functional. |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by fimzzy1991: 1:51am On Aug 09, 2023 |
It appears you feel the purpose of a woman is to have children and the purpose of having children is for selfish purpose (to take care of you) Do you consider the many side effects of having children without a properly functioning Family system. You went further to say, even if the man is married! What wickedness to another woman and her family!!!! Our values have become so lost, I weep for this generation considering the many likes the author got!!! Bvlgari: |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Nazgul: 2:03am On Aug 09, 2023 |
sweetrace:Lol...I've worked in an office and I can tell you with all confidence that office girls are not exempted from depending on men. Many of them beg their male colleagues for lunch, some rely on their male colleagues with cars for transportation assistance, of which they wouldn't even contribute a penny to assist him with fuel despite him carrying them to their closest bus stop year in year out. Even the ones in relationships aren't left out, they literally look up to their guys for almost everything. I've dated an office girl before so I can tell you first hand that there isn't much difference between them and their jobless counterpart. Only a handful of them are independent and wouldn't depend on their guy for survival. To most Nigerian girls, depending on men for survival has nothing to do with being jobless. Most girls just believe that it's a man's responsibility to take care of them, shower them with gifts, spend of them...etc. so whether or not she's working, she has already programmed herself to be on the receiving end in any relationship she finds herself in. 9 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Fiscus105(m): 2:10am On Aug 09, 2023 |
talented321: So, its being a redpiler that would make you understand the nature of women? Oga, what would now make you understand the nature of men? Or, you think you dnt need to understand your fellow men to be able to succeed and escape dangers? What an irrationally orientation called redpill! 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by pendragonbladgo(m): 2:47am On Aug 09, 2023 |
talk2hb1:So why don't you marry her, or she should remain single and not friend of life?. |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Amarisco(f): 3:06am On Aug 09, 2023 |
pansophist: Everytime i read a post or yours, I’m initially like wow! Or super intrigued… Then there will be one comma somewhere 🤦🏿♀️ ‘Women’s love is consumptive’?? ?? 🫤 Let me not come on the attack. Please can you expand first? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by victory36(m): 3:27am On Aug 09, 2023 |
gtassure:delusional thinking |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by wolement: 4:57am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Why are nairalanders so bitter towards women? Many people are just women haters. Most people are citing disadvantages what of the advantages. Man must love and need to be loved in return. OP you are absolutely correct, its good for the metal health of the women. Haba na. How many men in this Nigeria really takes care of their children? Are the women not the one bearing the burden of the children? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by caye(m): 4:58am On Aug 09, 2023 |
UbanmeUdie: WAIT! Is it not that wild character from nairaland of 2014-2018? Crazy guy! |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by mrgreen4real(m): 5:21am On Aug 09, 2023 |
ERCROSS: When singles become old and no one to take care of them they live a distressing life. Think ahead |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Kobojunkie: 5:23am On Aug 09, 2023 |
mrgreen4real:Only those among them who do not plan for their retirement end up struggling. Others actually live their life as they always had. Yes, there are many old people in that same Nigeria who never married and are handling old age much better than many who had a battalion are doing. |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Lanre1st(m): 6:12am On Aug 09, 2023 |
purples25: It’s good to dream of greater future but such person should work on herself to be great. Not by billing a boyfriend or having higher expectations which you yourself can not do from a man in name of marriage |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Mrfixiit: 7:38am On Aug 09, 2023 |
ERCROSS:Ode |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by bekpo(m): 8:10am On Aug 09, 2023 |
dalass: This one na excuse? |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by bekpo(m): 8:14am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Amarisco: R u seeing it as an attack? Seriously? A piece of advice. How old r u? |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Skyno1: 8:46am On Aug 09, 2023 |
if marriage is not an achievement, then why the rush to get a child ? men: you are a failure, if you let her take your kid(child) away from you |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:48am On Aug 09, 2023 |
GabrielYulaw: Come again? 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by naturefellow(m): 8:52am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Kelamma:you're a wise man! |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by GabrielYulaw(m): 8:54am On Aug 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Apologies |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:55am On Aug 09, 2023 |
GabrielYulaw: Lol. I'm serious, I didn't get what you meant down there. |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Barbiturate(m): 9:00am On Aug 09, 2023 |
speak2bella: Don't be deceived. Most ladies who believed this are old and lonely now. Some died leaving their siblings to share belongings. Time waits for no man and there is menopause stage in women. That advice from Op is the best, especially for ladies at 40 and above |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by dalass(f): 9:04am On Aug 09, 2023 |
bekpo:Wrong |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by GabrielYulaw(m): 9:48am On Aug 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:I was asking if you have moved your focus from marriage to rich Igbo dudes to guys whose face you want to rub and massage with your ass cheeks |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by judedwriter(m): 10:04am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Bvlgari: Truly marriage isn't an achievement but truly marriage is a very big blessing from God if only you marry right. Not ever woman will get married but having a child out of wedlock, though convincing, all the same isn't godly. Why not adopt? Besides, does the woman in question have the financial muscle to cater for the child?? |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Makschinchin: 10:04am On Aug 09, 2023 |
tuoyoojo: |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by Amarisco(f): 10:21am On Aug 09, 2023 |
bekpo: Rest IJN and re-read. Ozwor |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by godliman: 10:34am On Aug 09, 2023 |
talk2hb1:That guy gave a satanic idea. Those ladies should pray they don't have a son for he will surely ask for his dad one day. Marriage is for every Lady who behave well. If you do anyhow you will reap anyhow. Avoid waka waka when you are young, get good education, good skill and good character and you will get good husband. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Ladies, You Need This If You Are Between This Age Bracket by winner37(m): 10:51am On Aug 09, 2023 |
Is the fact ,not every lady will get married same goes to men ... |
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