I watched a clip of someone who was unhappy because his girlfriend opened up to him that in the past, she had sex with a guy he knows. And she did not even know that the guy she slept with in the past, was a friend or associate to her boyfriend. Not that she said she did it with the guy when she started dating her boyfriend. It was a past thing and like a fling or thereabout. The boyfriend ended the relationship.

As a lady or guy, if you are so much in love with your partner, and by coincidence, they meet your friend or friends, and opened up to you out of concern or love, that in the past, they had sex with your friend(s), will you continue the relationship? Or would you prefer they keep it and nurse the secret?

When you start keeping secrets in relationships just know that's the beginning of the end of such relationship. Go into relationship with a clean heart and if the dirty past is with someone around your boyfriend/girlfriend then look elsewhere and leave such relationship. I'll make a very good partner sha aside the small small wahala wey I go serve you. 😂😂 😂 Heaven is the goal all the same points 👇😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

That's the karma of sleeping around with different men all in the name of "dating". Some even without dating sef will just open leg waah like that. Nonsense.

Many guys have slept with their girlfriends' friends and there was little outrage, yet when a lady sleeps with a guy's friend, people call her names

Let's be fearing God small small nau.

Lol.... I wonder what's the real issue about this... If my guy tells me dis; I'll just say okay and we move on... Since we've already established the fact that both of aren't virgins, so it's okay to know that we've had sex with people...
It's just coincide that unfortunately one of the person we have has sex with "IN THE PAST" was or is close to us... E don happen e don happen... Let's move on...
Abi talented321 come and answer o... What if I tell you years ago say I don carry leg up (plenty times )for your current best friend... what will u do??

the guy ended a relationship because he and his guy has' talk about the pickles' without not knowing that is the pickles that he will end with, they say what goes up must come down but the problem is we don't know who head it might come down on

WhisperedNoise:
Many guys have slept with their girlfriends' friends and there was little outrage, yet when a lady sleeps with a guy's friend, people call her names

Let's be fearing God small small nau.

Man and woman has no equality, stop the madness. Abi na you pay your man dowry?

Georgekyrian:


Man and woman has no equality, stop the madness. Abi na you pay your man dowry?

I'm a man. Are you hungry?

ebubeson:
I watched a clip of someone who was unhappy because his girlfriend opened up to him that in the past, she had sex with a guy he knows. And she did not even know that the guy she slept with in the past, was a friend or associate to her boyfriend. Not that she said she did it with the guy when she started dating her boyfriend. It was a past thing and like a fling or thereabout. The boyfriend ended the relationship.

As a lady or guy, if you are so much in love with your partner, and by coincidence, they meet your friend or friends, and opened up to you out of concern or love, that in the past, they had sex with your friend(s), will you continue the relationship? Or would you prefer they keep it and nurse the secret?

I'm experiencing similar thing now. As a matter of fact, i am struggling to overcome such feeling. Although, the person isn't close but she mentioning the town is making me to have mixed feelings.

Lurking...

ebubeson:
I watched a clip of someone who was unhappy because his girlfriend opened up to him that in the past, she had sex with a guy he knows. And she did not even know that the guy she slept with in the past, was a friend or associate to her boyfriend. Not that she said she did it with the guy when she started dating her boyfriend. It was a past thing and like a fling or thereabout. The boyfriend ended the relationship.

As a lady or guy, if you are so much in love with your partner, and by coincidence, they meet your friend or friends, and opened up to you out of concern or love, that in the past, they had sex with your friend(s), will you continue the relationship? Or would you prefer they keep it and nurse the secret?

That love I have her ends immediately i know of her past with my friend or relative

Normal'' You are a woman so i don't think u will understand the feeling of been bleeped by my best friend. It so so annoying because i always relate with him' and any time am with him that feeling is always there.
But depend on how and how far the relationship has gone will be important in such situations'' to accept you back will depend on how the relationship is going. Though nobody is perfect' but.

Puss360:
Lol.... I wonder what's the real issue about this... If my guy tells me dis; I'll just say okay and we move on... Since we've already established the fact that both of aren't virgins, so it's okay to know that we've had sex with people...
It's just coincide that unfortunately one of the person we have has sex with "IN THE PAST" was or is close to us... E don happen e don happen... Let's move on...
Abi talented321 come and answer o... What if I tell you years ago say I don carry leg up (plenty times )for your current best friend... what will u do??

That's was a party .it should not stop them marrying n been together at home with d one he fornicated with,provided they r not gonna b in seclusion

talented321:
Normal'' You are a woman so i don't think u will understand the feeling of been bleeped by my best friend. It so so annoying because i always relate with him' and any time am with him that feeling is always there.
But depend on how and how far the relationship has gone will be important in such situations'' to accept you back will depend on how the relationship is going. Though nobody is perfect' but.

This is one of the reasons where I support the motion which says "Some secrets are better taken to the grave"...
We all Keep saying it's good not to keep secrets, but when we judge every "Past" actions with "Present" circumstances, then it's better to keep mute and take it to the grave....

Normal'' It is good to keep secret' but sometimes u need to open up to know your fate whether it will work or not because my friend may later tell me and that might be worse'' so life is all about risk.

Puss360:

This is one of the reasons where I support the motion which says "Some secrets are better taken to the grave"...
We all Keep saying it's good not to keep secrets, but when we judge every "Past" actions with "Present" circumstances, then it's better to keep mute and take it to the grave....

Personally,I can't take it.......

My dear bannies,if a man truly loves you and you truly loves him back, please there are some secrets about your past you should keep to yourself... Infact, it'd be more better if you even take them with you to your grave......

Cuz not all men can stand it....And of which I'm one of them.

talented321:
Normal'' It is good to keep secret' but sometimes u need to open up to know your fate whether it will work or not because my friend may later tell me and that might be worse'' so life is all about risk.

If he tells you, then that's not a good friend... And if you take it up with me, las las na divorce go end the marriage.. But I won't beg...