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I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Crystalom35: 4:28pm On Aug 10, 2023
It's not a lie. Everything grows and sometimes a man just have to do what he needs to do.

I have been with this wonderful girl for a while now.

The relationship has been very good and peaceful. I couldn't ask for more.

But recently things have not been the same and I've been rethinking a lot of my decision and one of those is sex.

Sex life is good but lately I'm becoming afraid.

First off, I won't want to abort her pregnancy if it shows up. But then again, I won't be able to maintain her and the baby if she were to give birth.

I don't have much more as I'm still in school and she's still in school.

So, we are both living off our parents.

And it would be disastrous if pregnancy should come in especially these trying times.

So I'm considering hanging the boots and keeping away from sex from now on.

I just am afraid she'll cheat on me in the long run but then again, my fear of "irresponsibility" of not being able to take care of the pregnancy if it ever happens is worse.

So, now this relationship needs a new direction. Maybe I'm wrong. I just don't know.
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Taylor90: 4:28pm On Aug 10, 2023
undecided
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by MS247: 4:29pm On Aug 10, 2023
Female condom is just 800
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 10, 2023
MS247:
Female condom is just 800
Stop encouraging fornication

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Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Candidlady: 4:35pm On Aug 10, 2023
MS247:
Female condom is just 800


Which one is condom you are advising him to get undecided

He wrote this
I don't have much more as I'm still in school

Protection or no protection broke men shouldn't be allowed to have sex.. it should be a crime


Op in the name of God just hang your boot please .. stay away from sex even hug sef please.. until you know you have MUCH

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Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Patented: 4:36pm On Aug 10, 2023
abstinence is good.

Crystalom35:
It's not a lie. Everything grows and sometimes a man just have to do what he needs to do.

I have been with this wonderful girl for a while now.

The relationship has been very good and peaceful. I couldn't ask for more.

But recently things have not been the same and I've been rethinking a lot of my decision and one of those is sex.

Sex life is good but lately I'm becoming afraid.

First off, I won't want to abort her pregnancy if it shows up. But then again, I won't be able to maintain her and the baby if she were to give birth.

I don't have much more as I'm still in school and she's still in school.

So, we are both living off our parents.

And it would be disastrous if pregnancy should come in especially these trying times.

So I'm considering hanging the boots and keeping away from sex from now on.

I just am afraid she'll cheat on me in the long run but then again, my fear of "irresponsibility" of not being able to take care of the pregnancy if it ever happens is worse.

So, now this relationship needs a new direction. Maybe I'm wrong. I just don't know.

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Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Crystalom35: 4:36pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:



Which one is condom you are advising him to get undecided

He wrote this
I don't have much more as I'm still in school

Protection or no protection broke men shouldn't be allowed to have sex.. it should be a crime

so it wasn't your dad that f*cked your mum? Whose child are you exactly?
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by MS247: 4:37pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:



Which one is condom you are advising him to get undecided

He wrote this
I don't have much more as I'm still in school

Protection or no protection broke men shouldn't be allowed to have sex.. it should be a crime


Why exactly should broke people not have safe sex or love?! Atleast they have emotions feelings and sexual urge
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Crystalom35: 4:38pm On Aug 10, 2023
Patented:
abstinence is good.

I'm starting to think so too
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Candidlady: 4:39pm On Aug 10, 2023
Crystalom35:
so it wasn't your dad that f*cked your mum? Whose child are you exactly?

See the yaro we are trying to advice oooo undecided shocked

Oya yankuridanallah
No vex kooo
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Asabaman(m): 4:39pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:



Which one is condom you are advising him to get undecided

He wrote this
I don't have much more as I'm still in school

Protection or no protection broke men shouldn't be allowed to have sex.. it should be a crime


Op in the name of God just hang your boot please .. stay away from sex even hug sef please.. until you know you have MUCH

hahahaha your matter just tire me
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Crystalom35: 4:39pm On Aug 10, 2023
MS247:
Female condom is just 800
we use condom but everyone knows that those things are not 💯

Last time we carry torch dey check weda e dey leak 😂😂😂
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Karlman: 4:39pm On Aug 10, 2023
Ok
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Crystalom35: 4:40pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:


See the yaro we are trying to advice oooo undecided shocked

Oya yankuridanallah
No vex kooo

no one takes advice from a girl whose mother played away match to give birth to her
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by MS247: 4:40pm On Aug 10, 2023
IconicR:
Stop encouraging fornication

Lol

Fornication?!,

adults are meant to have safe sex after puberty, it's the natural way of life


.
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by jackmrandy: 4:41pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:


See the yaro we are trying to advice oooo undecided shocked

Oya yankuridanallah
No vex kooo


this girl i can sense you are very pain very very pained.. attacking people up and down here
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Emmaneze: 4:43pm On Aug 10, 2023
Crystalom35:
It's not a lie. Everything grows and sometimes a man just have to do what he needs to do.

I have been with this wonderful girl for a while now.

The relationship has been very good and peaceful. I couldn't ask for more.

But recently things have not been the same and I've been rethinking a lot of my decision and one of those is sex.

Sex life is good but lately I'm becoming afraid.

First off, I won't want to abort her pregnancy if it shows up. But then again, I won't be able to maintain her and the baby if she were to give birth.

I don't have much more as I'm still in school and she's still in school.

So, we are both living off our parents.

And it would be disastrous if pregnancy should come in especially these trying times.

So I'm considering hanging the boots and keeping away from sex from now on.

I just am afraid she'll cheat on me in the long run but then again, my fear of "irresponsibility" of not being able to take care of the pregnancy if it ever happens is worse.

So, now this relationship needs a new direction. Maybe I'm wrong. I just don't know.
Oga do whatever makes you sleep at night
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 10, 2023
MS247:


Lol

Fornication?!,

adults are meant to have safe sex after puberty, it's the natural way of life


.
Yes but in a union. Unlawful sex is prohibited among the singles.
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by MS247: 4:44pm On Aug 10, 2023
IconicR:
Yes but in a union. Unlawful sex is prohibited among the singles.

Prohibited by who?! Consensual sex is very much legal

.
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by okoroemeka(m): 4:44pm On Aug 10, 2023
Crystalom35:
It's not a lie. Everything grows and sometimes a man just have to do what he needs to do.

I have been with this wonderful girl for a while now.

The relationship has been very good and peaceful. I couldn't ask for more.

But recently things have not been the same and I've been rethinking a lot of my decision and one of those is sex.

Sex life is good but lately I'm becoming afraid.

First off, I won't want to abort her pregnancy if it shows up. But then again, I won't be able to maintain her and the baby if she were to give birth.

I don't have much more as I'm still in school and she's still in school.

So, we are both living off our parents.

And it would be disastrous if pregnancy should come in especially these trying times.

So I'm considering hanging the boots and keeping away from sex from now on.

I just am afraid she'll cheat on me in the long run but then again, my fear of "irresponsibility" of not being able to take care of the pregnancy if it ever happens is worse.

So, now this relationship needs a new direction. Maybe I'm wrong. I just don't know.
you are wrong to leave the pvssy for another dick,simply withdraw your dick and cream all over her breasts,that's better to prevent accidental discharge.
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Candidlady: 4:45pm On Aug 10, 2023
Crystalom35:
no one takes advice from a girl whose mother played away match to give birth to her


Coming from a yaro who is an undergraduate whose mamana(God forbid me) is still actively hoeing around to raise money for his school fees

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Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by 22o62021: 4:45pm On Aug 10, 2023
Make una go oral
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by labake1(f): 4:49pm On Aug 10, 2023
IconicR:
Stop encouraging fornication


Exactly, say no to fornication.
OP should better focus on his education and calm that his P* before he destroy his destiny. Don't go and bring a child into the world when you are not even capable of taking care of yourself yet

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Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Crystalom35: 4:57pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:



Coming from a yaro who is an undergraduate whose mamana(God forbid me) is still actively hoeing around to raise money for his school fees

careful who you insult... One of us might be ur real daddy 😒😒
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by fyzaila: 5:35pm On Aug 10, 2023
Can't you'll avoid sex? Must you have sex? Sex sex sex all the time as if that's what they came to the earth to come and do. SEX IS FOR THE LEGALLY MARRIED.

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Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Vinnie2000(m): 5:39pm On Aug 10, 2023
OP,

You better Fcvk her Fast. sad

Girls do NOT like Weak and hesitant Guys. 😏
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by freeborn02: 7:23pm On Aug 10, 2023
Crystalom35:
It's not a lie. Everything grows and sometimes a man just have to do what he needs to do.

I have been with this wonderful girl for a while now.

The relationship has been very good and peaceful. I couldn't ask for more.

But recently things have not been the same and I've been rethinking a lot of my decision and one of those is sex.

Sex life is good but lately I'm becoming afraid.

First off, I won't want to abort her pregnancy if it shows up. But then again, I won't be able to maintain her and the baby if she were to give birth.

I don't have much more as I'm still in school and she's still in school.

So, we are both living off our parents.

And it would be disastrous if pregnancy should come in especially these trying times.

So I'm considering hanging the boots and keeping away from sex from now on.

I just am afraid she'll cheat on me in the long run but then again, my fear of "irresponsibility" of not being able to take care of the pregnancy if it ever happens is worse.

So, now this relationship needs a new direction. Maybe I'm wrong. I just don't know.

Has condom finished where they are selling it?
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by freeborn02: 7:24pm On Aug 10, 2023
Candidlady:



Which one is condom you are advising him to get undecided

He wrote this
I don't have much more as I'm still in school

Protection or no protection broke men shouldn't be allowed to have sex.. it should be a crime


Op in the name of God just hang your boot please .. stay away from sex even hug sef please.. until you know you have MUCH

I won't be surprised if your dad was broke when he forkked your mom to give birth to you.
Re: I'm Afraid To Have Sex With Her by Iseoluwani: 8:22pm On Aug 10, 2023
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