This your story gets k-leg. you married someone for GOOD TEN YEARS. and she just discovered you love sex. even If you're married for 1year, she must have used to it. IS EITHER SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU OR YOUR WIFE.

If it is other way round now

U will see feminists blasting men folks

Now a woman is denying her legal husband sex and u are castigating d man that his life depends on sex

Tueh

westlius:
Get a side chick oo
While do u see married men have side chick
When a woman sees u demand sex from her
She will use it as a weapon against u
But when u have a side chick
She go reason am
because of competition

Alot of people no go like wetin you talk.

But who know don know....

Three times a week is not bad though, maybe she experiencing low sex drive. Try and understand her and possibly look for solution to get her sex drive back

She's having it else where

Zonefree:
Get yourself a second wife so you can relieve your present wife's marital duties. Life is not hard.

add side chiks too

IDAN 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

Brandiebird:
When a woman refuses sex with you then you’re the only one cumming. The only thing worse than bad sex is frequent bad sex.

3 times a week is too much, bro. Once a week is ok. What matters is the quality of sex and not quantity. I have sex with my wife 2 times in a month and it will be very enjoyable for both of us.

The issue here is very clear n can only be understood by couples who have been in marriages over d years... It's a natural thing for a wife to lose this urge to respond to sexual advances from her husband but d main job here is for d ya as d husband to fine-tune ways of making her asking for sex n not that ya asking all d time... It's not that she's tired of ya as a husband but thing line here is just that she has lost that urge that pushes her to have sex with ya...Try n do stuffs that ya feel might arouse her to have that urge to have sex...When this happens,ensure ya give it to her more n more in order for ya not to start asking her for another romp after two or three days later...Try this...

Your wife most likely no longer finds having sex with you exciting, l mean boring ,

This is probably because you or both of you have made it seem like an obligation. and the whole thing feels like a chore

* Talk to her to know what and how she wants it communication is key.
*Try new styles with her consent. Be more creative.
* Try new positions within the house, it doesn't have to be a bedroom event all the time.

*Try you and me time - alone without the kids e.g get away weekend (doesn't have to be expensive).
You can drop the kids with a relative for the weekend or ask a relation to come stay with them while you both go for a weekend getaway .

* Explore her fantasies

* Women love to be chased, woo her like those courtship days when you were still trying to displace competition.

* Tell her you love her often , women are always looking forward to this statement of affirmation regardless of age.

* Complement her look and virtues, make her feel she is the best .

* Help out with some chores no matter how little, it gives them a sense of apretiation

I believe trying these and other positive things will restore your marital sex life.

Zonefree:
Get yourself a second wife so you can relieve your present wife's marital duties. Life is not hard.

that is a suicide mission,one woman is enough trouble and you are advicing him to marry another trouble,God forbid,in your case as a faithful husband,pls my op just go and buy a jar of original baby grade Vaseline and aviod unnecessary dramas for your peace of mind,some people will add side chick on top of the vaseline and damn the pvssy until it comes begging again.

You shouldn't have brought that question here. Everyone is different. Some have it daily, some a few times a week and some have it once every three months. It is a beautiful thing that you find singular satisfaction in the wife of your youth. You've been married for ten years. There is no reason why you should not continue to do it three or four times a week, if that is what you want. What should be of serious concern to you right now is why the woman who has been doing it with you for ten years, has all of a sudden remembered that you like sex too much. Something is going on with your wife and the only way you can find out is by communication : A conversation that is truthful and honest, including you bringing to bear any additional context that should be know to you.

Don't bring serious conversations on here. You may not find serious people for such serious conversations.



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Bowij:
Discipline yourself man. You are not an animal. You no get problems?

discipline himself again of sex.
I thought women must times in relationship or dating go like "let's get married and yiu will be having it abhwhow and anywhere u want it"

What's happening then
That's deceit oo😆😆

Spidex19 Capsule

Three times a week is not much, some women don't like sex much like my wife and I am like you; just let her understand, you cannot go outside and she has to adapt.
Same happened to me, keep pushing and let her understand and let her enjoy it and carry her along too.

[quote author=lavylilly post=125149170][/quote] Bastard...!...

LARRYOBRAIN:
Three times a week is not much, some women don't like sex much like my wife and I am like you; just let her understand, you cannot go outside and she has to adapt.
Same happened to me, keep pushing and let her understand and let her enjoy it and carry her along too.

Mugu you are doing...

princeemmma:
even people wey never marry dey give advice


Person wey dey carry money pay olosho 3times in a week dey advice married man

You are a something 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bukola94:
I like your advice and u are a real or game man. But please take that cheating out of it,she may not be cheating, she may simply be stress out

You are wrong pls.
Of after all the cuddling, kissing and romance you don't go for sex and she is not still wanting it, then she is not a normal human being but a cheat

D woman done dey fine trouble

A childhood female friend said her husband demand for sex every fking day even when menstruating. And she wanna be virtuous woman and don't say no. After like 6yrs of marriage, the crack started. She shudders unknow anytime he touches her. She literally hates sex and men.
In the marriage till her kids are officially adults she will file for divorce.

When her mum came for the first omugwo, as an elder, she noticed what's happening cos this man had sex the day she came back from giving birth.
Mum was there before she put to bed. Asked her so they can discuss about it or take it to the family but she declined thinking she was protecting her marriage. Presently she is just a shadow of herself.
The worst is they processed visa for the cousin to come to live with them and wifey found out her husband sleeps with his cousin. Upon inquiry, it was going on before he married her. So family members knew but he is the one with the cash, everybody zipped mouth. I mean, what kind of man is this?
I would have divorced him the first Yr.

According to her, her vj is no longer sensitive, she don't have any sexual feeling. And if she object, he will start manipulating her that he can't live the next day without fking her.
He should go and join pornhub

Brandiebird:
When a woman refuses sex with you then you’re the only one cumming. The only thing worse than bad sex is frequent bad sex.

You have the highest point... The woman no dey cum. If your woman dey cum, na you go run from sexx.

You are a nitwi.t, in the first place are you married.

Emmanuel30a:
Mugu you are doing...

Op I hope your wife is not the married woman that I'm dating now? Describe her for make I see

IconicR:
I don't support any woman denying her husband sex for no genuine reason, she should always allow him have access at all times he wants especially if he's responsible and a good man.

access kwa?

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Mine allows me once in 2-3 weeks, the rest time always complain she is tired and going on about how she hates sex and how always painful is sex for her. If I can get a reliable extra partner, I'm open to relationship now. I never wanted it but I can feel the sadness of not having easy access to my wife is killing me gradually.

princeemmma:
even people wey never marry dey give advice


Person wey dey carry money pay olosho 3times in a week dey advice married man

Guy u funny die, single people nor get right to advise married man, those guy wen nor dey let their bahe rest, any time she visit them must sex reach 4 times b4 day break

Guy u funny die, single people nor get right to advise married man, those guy wen nor dey let their bahe rest, any time she visit them must sex reach 4 times b4 day break

lavylilly:
I am NL's payroll. Keep quiet and sip milk

Ohh. I see, you look a high level milk producer sef 😂😂

[quote author=lavylilly post=125149170][/quote]she has never reached orgasm with you, if she had, she'll be begging you for more.