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Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 9:43am On Aug 17, 2023
Why do men pay for sex. The sensation is equal why will a man pay for it


It's ridiculous just thinking about it
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Taylor90: 9:44am On Aug 17, 2023
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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Puss360(f): 9:58am On Aug 17, 2023
Lol.. this one say "The sensation is equal".....
Normally sex isn't supposed to be transactional..

But imagine say Rice dey hungry you, and who suppose to give you free rice isn't available shey you will use your money and buy it outside?.. Or you wait till it's available...

So Money for hand, back for ground grin grin grin grin..
Or you go wait till any year madam open free leg

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 9:59am On Aug 17, 2023
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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by talented321: 10:01am On Aug 17, 2023
If you ask many men why they pay for sex, They don't know the answer because they think it is their right to pay for sex'
1. Men pay for sex because 80% of them think with their dick''
2. Whenever a man think about sex, many of them can carry their last cash to go and dash one olosho and sleep with empty stomach where as the woman can control and maintain her last cash despite fighting d same konji''
3. The average nigerian man think it is his right to beg a women and live with her.'
4. He get anybody wey konji no dey affect, both men and woman but the average man lack control and ready to sell his house to please the next olosho.
5. Sex is an exchange of pleasure which the person that enjoys most should pay the other''
6. Imagine a 75yrs old man killed his wife because of konji'' how can u control such men.
6. The reason women always starve their men of sex is because the average woman know that many men think with their dick.
No woman can starve any real nigga of sex''

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Puss360(f): 10:03am On Aug 17, 2023
talented321:
I dey come
Quick cum o grin
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 10:04am On Aug 17, 2023
Puss360:
Lol.. this one say "The sensation is equal".....
Normally sex isn't supposed to be transactional..

But imagine say Rice dey hungry you, and who suppose to give you free rice isn't available shey you will use your money and buy it outside?.. Or you wait till it's available...

So Money for hand, back for ground grin grin grin grin..
Or you go wait till any year madam open free leg
what an analogy
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Puss360(f): 10:19am On Aug 17, 2023
Virgohills:
what an analogy
Yes... We move....

Next Case Please!!!! grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Dyfynezz12(m): 10:40am On Aug 17, 2023
Cox most no fit control their konji
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 3:58pm On Aug 17, 2023
Never
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by slawomir: 3:58pm On Aug 17, 2023
Damnnn niggar

Very good questions

Funny enough the sensation is not equal
na women enjoy sex pass
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by oyewale0001(m): 4:07pm On Aug 17, 2023
Virgohills:
Why do men pay for sex. The sensation is equal why will a man pay for it


It's ridiculous just thinking about it




Op, the only answer to your question is because it as being like that since the days of old. Some called it appreciation fee. Because not every man pay directly for sex. Some pay indirectly inform of transport fee.

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by FreeSpirited: 4:14pm On Aug 17, 2023
Apart from lack of self control, men pay for sex for that sense of control and power over the female gender.........and since certain hot ladies make themselves out of reach except for money.....Man's ego wants to control and conquer such womans pride. So paying to overcome her ego and commanding her on bed is some thrill for many men......

Only God can tame this part and pride in men....it takes full expression when a man touches money and lacks discipline

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by talented321: 4:36pm On Aug 17, 2023
I want this to go front page before''
Puss360:
Quick cum o grin
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Puss360(f): 4:38pm On Aug 17, 2023
talented321:
I want this to go front page before''
Lol
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Quality20(m): 4:45pm On Aug 17, 2023
because d woman would be used n can get spoilt, age more quickly, or for a flimsy excuse as body or vaginal odour that might increase
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Karleb(m): 4:56pm On Aug 17, 2023
It is just the way the biology is.

Testosterone will make you want to have lots of sex with lots of women, while female sex hormone is not as sexually demanding.

So you need to give women an incentive to sleep with them, for some the incentive is love, marriage or attention, for others, it's just money.

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Rickmann: 5:56pm On Aug 17, 2023
Virgohills:
Why do men pay for sex. The sensation is equal why will a man pay for it


It's ridiculous just thinking about it

The answer is simple.

Men crave sex more.
Women enjoy sex more.

Body count is a thing of pride for men.
Body count is a thing of shame to women.

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 8:40pm On Aug 17, 2023
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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by SenatePresdo(m): 10:27pm On Aug 17, 2023
They pay for Sex because it enables them to sample different women in a short time.
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 10:53pm On Aug 17, 2023
All is well
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by frozen70(f): 11:41pm On Aug 17, 2023
Virgohills:
Why do men pay for sex. The sensation is equal why will a man pay for it


It's ridiculous just thinking about it

If he is paying a sex worker, then he is paying for service rendered, she is on a business

If he is giving money to his girl friend after a good time

He is appreciating her for honoring his invitation and that's an appreciation not payment

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 2:25am On Aug 18, 2023
frozen70:


If he is paying a sex worker, then he is paying for service rendered, she is on a business

If he is giving money to his girl friend after a good time

He is appreciating her for honoring his invitation and that's a appreciation not payment
really?


So women are never in need of sex

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by lavylilly: 8:05am On Aug 18, 2023
It all goes back to economics, opportunity cost, and “scarce means, which have alternative uses". I will like to establish two facts.

1.Men always pay for sex

2. Sex is a scarce resource for men

1.Men never have sex for free:"Whether you are already dating or taking a potential girlfriend on a date, as a man you will have to provide at some point.
There is no escape or back door that can be exploited. The only men who can have unlimited sex for free are the top 1% of men which include hot, handsome celebrities like Zac Efron and Michael B Jordan. Don't get it twisted, women do not sleep with these guys for free to be precise, they do it for the prestige and reputation of being associated with such men. In other words these men PAID with their reputation, good looks alone are not simply enough to be getting that amount of sex. A man's sexual prowess will increase significantly in direct proportion to his reputation and prestige.
What about the so called “Bad Boys" with game?do they have sex for free? The answer is no. Some of those bad boys were born with the gift of manipulation while those men who became bad boys INVESTED(we can say PAID for) countless hours into understanding female psychology.
Casanova was a renowed bad boy and player who had sex with countless women. The Lacuna is the fact Casanova seemed to have no other purpose in life. He devoted almost 100% of his life to learning female nature and he pursued countless women with a high degree of success while all other areas of his life suffered significantly. In other words Casanova PAID a price for his success with women and most bad boys do. When a husband for some reason decides to stop providing and starts sitting around the house playing video games all day one of the 1st things his wife will do as a reaction to his behaviour is to withdraw his sex subscription card. All men pay for sex, whether they like it or not. As kanye west once remarked on his song “New Slaves” “Cochie AIN'T FREE"

2 The opportunity cost of sex: let me give an example : A man will take a woman on a fancy date and spend 500 in the hope she would have with him sex at some point. For some reason she decides this man is not worth F*cking and doesn't have sex with him. How do you think this experience will make the man feel? Not too happy i guess.

The fact is NO MAN is entitled to sex from any women and women in general do not owe you anything. In other words the fact you spent 1,000 dollars to fly her out, payed 1,500 for her hotel and spent 500 dollars on a date with her does not make you entitled to her body and she MUST give consent before you get freaky with her.

Some men wonder “if sex is what i really want and i have to jump through different hoops to get it, why don't i just pay for it?” And this is were the opportunity cost comes in, some men have sacrificed going on dates and hoping to get sex to just paying for sex that is guaranteed(to a large extent).

3.Sex is a scarce resource for men: think about it? How many young attractive women pay men to have sex with them? Almost 0

How many young attractive men pay women to have sex with men? I do not have the statistics but I'm quite sure the numbers might be shocking.

Women don't need to pay for it because its too available, men on the other hand pay because its not available enough. Think about it, if most men were having lots of sex without much difficulty why would they pay for it? If i opened a store that sold sunlight during the day people would think I'm nuts. So far so good, sunlight is available to EVERYONE during the day(depending on the weather) so there is no sense in charging people for something they can get without any effort and this why most women do not pay for sex. It is not because they are more righteous or more moral than men but rather due to the fact that for many women getting sex is easier than ordering a pizza. smiley

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by qtguru(m): 8:11am On Aug 18, 2023
Try being broke and see how sex disappears. We just like beating around the bush.

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Oyindamolah: 8:15am On Aug 18, 2023
The guy who approached you awkwardly isn't a creep. He's just not a player and doesn't have his pick up lines down to an art.

Some of the most charming men who seem to be able to say and do the perfect things to get your affection early on are the creepiest, most abusive guys.

Charm is good at first impressions but doesn't tell you who the person really is until you get to know them more. Actors are charming. Charm can be an act.

If a man is a bit awkward when trying to talk to you, that might actually be a good thing. It indicates he's not constantly going around practicing his game and hitting on tons of women. He doesn't do this often and it's genuine

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Meteng: 10:28am On Aug 18, 2023
Soja man once told an olosho that he finished knacking, “ e sweet me, e sweet you. Who go pay money “
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Meerahbel: 12:53pm On Aug 18, 2023
Whats funny
Taylor90:
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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 1:52pm On Aug 18, 2023
[quote author=lavylilly post=125185923][/quote]men are cheap
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Virgohills(m): 3:04pm On Aug 18, 2023
smiley
Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Eyinju112(f): 3:23pm On Aug 18, 2023
Puss360:
Lol.. this one say "The sensation is equal".....
Normally sex isn't supposed to be transactional..

But imagine say Rice dey hungry you, and who suppose to give you free rice isn't available shey you will use your money and buy it outside?.. Or you wait till it's available...

So Money for hand, back for ground grin grin grin grin..
Or you go wait till any year madam open free leg
What did I just read🤣🤣🤣🤣. Omoh 😂😂😂😂

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Re: Why Do Men Pay For Sex by Oyindamolah: 3:39pm On Aug 18, 2023
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Virgohills:
men are cheap

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