What destroyed your feeling for someone you were once deeply in love with .

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Thise that have been in a relationship before kindly come share your experience let's learn one or two.

Her attitude changed as the relationship grew older. She became more argumentative,she stopped talking and smiling flirtatiously at me,she started nodding instead of laughing the way she use to(at my jokes). I got bored and fell off.
She forgot why I liked her in the first place.
The way my present girl giggles, tickles my fancy and she still gives that flirtatious smile😁

Anytime we had issues..she always make this statement..even if we dont end up together bla bla bla.i kuku bullet proof my heart .kill all feelings.wen we break up.i no wrry.onto the next one

I was never and will never fall in love with a girl
I easily throw a tantrum
Don't want to ruin my life or the life of somebody

He was always snooping through my phone meanwhile his own phone had a password which he refused to give me.

Male classmate sends message to discuss class group assigmnent, wahala

Male cousin sends me birthday wishes, wahala

The monitoring spirit in him was just too much abeg!

I once had a crush on this other guy in varsity, but once I found out that he had a baby, the crush immediately died down.

Two different things for two different episodes.

1 Tiime spent apart was too much. With absence, we both fell out of love.

2. The other was third parties. Third parties constantly being called in to mediate. I so hate that thing.

Well, I can't say I was really in love with her as I never really told her I love her.

We had been good friends from 2011 till that year 2016. I had even visited her parents and she had visited mine.

The unrest in Jos forced her parents to flee to Osun state but we still communicated and kept in touch. I can say we were kind of fond of each other. We could communicate non stop over the phone for 45 minutes and we won't be bored. Physically I didn't see any thing wrong with her and even thought of marrying her. But deep down, I had that fear - she was a cherubim and seraphim. She had told me about '7-days trans and 14 days trans stuff'. It sounded demonic and scary to me anyways.

Well early 2016, she joked about coming over to meet me in Zaria and getting pregnant for me. Haaah, me that they called 'pastor', I had never had anything sexual to do with a girl, not even a hug or kiss (I was very shy though). I had to be alert, it won't work cos that wasn't the way I planned to live my life. Funny enough I was recording that conversation (I still don't know why I did?) before she uttered that statement.

Well, she came over (I was already comfy and living in my own apartment). Before then my mum had already warned me. So immediately she came over, we didn't stay in my apartment instead I brought her to the family house. Everything moved on smoothly at home till it was time for her to go back.

I brought her to my shop (I had a little business center then). We gisted as usual till she started saying 'she's going and I am not behaving like I have known her'. Well, I didn't get the message till she left.

She looked happy before she left sha. But to my greatest shock, I received one of the most degrading text messages. I have ever received in my life. Well, the words were unprintable and won't want to ever push them anywhere. Truth is, the less offensive sentence she wrote there is that [/b] she thought she was dealing with a man, but I'm a woman and she can never deal with such. [b]

Well those words didn't make me a woman. Instead it made me more passionate to succeed. I knew instantly nothing could ever happen again between us.

We are still friends anyway, but I can never forget those words . I went on to marry the woman God had in store for me. She's also married too.

Recycled topic

He couldn't afford the biggest planet and it moons. This shows that he can't be faithful.

Cheating!

I gave her duty but she couldn't deliver

DannyG8:
What destroyed your feeling for someone you were once deeply in love with .

Hypocrisy, Immaturity, Judgemental, Moronic, Selfishness!

When she asked me for Urgent 2k.

Crush/feelings, Whatever DIED! 😕😒

Disrespect....

The moment I noticed she was becoming too disrespectful,na once I kane my lane leave her.

Samantha124:
I once had a crush on this other guy in varsity, but once I found out that he had a baby, the crush immediately died down.

Nothing new in having a child amongst young people in South Africa. From my observation, most youths have at least a child outside wedlock, it's crazy. Promiscuity doesn't seem to be a big deal over there.

joelsky:

On the contrary, you are actually a man. A man is one who has control over his emotions. Kudos.

1. Discovered she was a Lesbian
2. Saw her naked picture somewhere online. She no even get explanation for that one.

Cynthia doesn't have sense, overtly self centred, opportunistic and selfish.

Favour whom I took serious after NYSC, foolishly agreed and went out to hotel with her boss's boyfriend who once asked her out, simply because the guy said he wants to take her out for her birthday. She said nothing happened and swore but I can't trust such person.

Loveth said she will do court wedding because she doesn't want my people to take my properties when I die.

Says someone from a country with high abortions rate in Africa, yet abortions are illegal in Nigeria, but almost all Nigerian ladies have done one or two abortions.

Shame on you, murderous hypocrites.

zed7:


Nothing new in having a child amongst young people in South Africa. From my observation, most youths have at least a child outside wedlock, it's crazy. Promiscuity doesn't seem to be a big deal over there.

Samantha124:
Says someone from a country with high abortions rate in Africa, yet abortions are illegal in Nigeria, but almost all Nigerian ladies have done one or two abortions.

Shame on you, murderous hypocrites.

Better having an abortion than having bast*rds everywhere. That's why most black South Africans are lost, lazy and broken. A dysfunctional home takes a toll on people, it messes them up. That's why xenophobia is so widespread.
If you can't take care of them, don't have them.

Murderers claiming to be saints..🤣🤣🤣

zed7:

Better having an abortion than having bast*rds everywhere. That's why most black South Africans are lost, lazy and broken. A dysfunctional home takes a toll on people, it messes them up. That's why xenophobia is so widespread.
If you can't take care of them, don't have them.

Murderers claiming to be saints..🤣🤣🤣

Continue nagging and tell me when you're done...🤣🤣🤣

zed7:

Better having an abortion than having bast*rds everywhere. That's why most black South Africans are lost, lazy and broken. A dysfunctional home takes a toll on people, it messes them up. That's why xenophobia is so widespread.
If you can't take care of them, don't have them.

She doesn't care much as I do for her + she no dey take call only when she feels like

Samantha124:
I once had a crush on this other guy in varsity, but once I found out that he had a baby, the crush immediately died down.

Are you saying single mother, don't deserve love from single men looking for love. .

I don't know... Every person has got his or her own personal choices.

Bunkbars:
Are you saying single mother, don't deserve love from single men looking for love. .

lies

PussyGalore:
He was always snooping through my phone meanwhile his own phone had a password which he refused to give me.

Male classmate sends message to discuss class group assigmnent, wahala

Male cousin sends me birthday wishes, wahala

The monitoring spirit in him was just too much abeg!

Eyah!
I guess the " Monitoring Spirit " as you termed him was just trying to do all he could to prevent you from ending up as the love vendor that you eventually became. Eyah... All his efforts were in vain.
Good thing, though, is that he dodged a dirty , dangerous bullet (you)

He's lucky. Not many men were lucky.