fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

How many married people can really say they got the right one?

When someone is ready to Marry
He will do so

All these ones na just excuse

He who looks to the wind
Will not sow

Like John doe use to say, make money and olosho will come.

Plight21:
Uhmmm!

A man should gets a stable income first.

Imagine finding it hard to eat one meal perday to feed yourself?

How about when you get a wife and other things to settle?

Sometimes, Marriage do open doors when the partners have vision, they're committed and focus.

Nevertheless, a man should have something coming in for him no matter how small it might be.

Your first paragraph🤣

God Abeg Sir🙏

Jamie1000:
The difference is taste. The gals you used to like as a broke man, will no longer look attractive when you become rich. You begin to see through too many imperfections and offcourse with your money, you won't tolerate many shits

Story story

You are not married or even in a relationship
Neither are you Rich

Because of this your mindset

What many guys even want in marriage is peace of mind

If you go begin look all those things you wrote up there

You don miss road completely

One of my mentor was telling of a billionare that can't go to his home
He sleeps in hotels or guest houses

Because his wife is a terror

He can't also leave the marriage because of his children
She will mess them up if left alone

Dshocker:


Just like Jowizazaa is finding it hard to find true love.... Man is heading to 38yrs.

Any made man in such situation who wants to find a genuine woman will need to Diguise and do his thing.

Or better still, He should go all out for Ladies from Wealthy/Rich background.

How is it the money that makes marriage difficult?, or simply the man lacks the ability to identify a true love when he sees one.[color=#000099]

SyrusdeHansome:


He even became an Imam sef but after de marriage de man switched. My grand mom, aunties and cousins are now christians because of my dad.

Lol. What about you?

djon78:

Story story

You are not married or even in a relationship
Neither are you Rich

Because of this your mindset

What many guys even want in marriage is peace of mind

If you go begin look all those things you wrote up there

You don miss road completely

One of my mentor was telling of a billionare that can't go to his home
He sleeps in hotels or guest houses

Because his wife is a terror

He can't also leave the marriage because of his children
She will mess them up if left alone

I have witnessed something like this too.

But i can bet you the woman might know the source of wealth of that man and his Secrets.

So many Shiiits are going on in Nigerian Marriages. Believe me. Most People won't tell you the Whole Story.

A lot of Nigerian Married Men who are Rich/Wealthy. Their Wives walked them through the Journey and they know most of their Secrets.

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

You think it's difficult for a man?
Ask single successful ladies. It's like picking a needle in a haystack.

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

FOR ME AM NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN MARRYING GIRLS BETWEEN THE AGE OF 20 TO 28 OR 30 THIS CATEGORY OF GIRLS ARE AFTER MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS NOT LOVE, THOUGH AM 25 I WANT TO MARRY WOMAN FROM 33 UPWARD

Evolutionlove:


Any made man in such situation who wants to find a genuine woman will need to Diguise and do his thing.

Or better still, He should go all out for Ladies from Wealthy/Rich background.

Apparently he is known and popular, there is no way for him to disguise.

mrrandomguy:
Feminism and socialism go hand in hand. Just like in the 10s and 20s of 1900, we now see a resurgence of socialism in the form of woke-ism.

The goal is to destroy family, because family is a strong unit. Humans can be very strong IF they have the support of a healthy family. Take that away and you can easily manipulate and control them.

That's why governments gladly help women to become totally privileged and for men to be broken down and brainwashed. It will hurt humanity, the country and the government economically, but I guess they either ignore that or have some plan for after the big crash.

Feminism (whether Nigerian feminism or Somalian feminism) is all about pulling men down, making men miserable, and breaking men in any way and every way possible. Don't ever believe the definition they give it in any dictionary. The earlier you know this the better.

Men should man up and put women where they belong. Stop encouraging women to become firefighters. In case you don't know, the moment they start doing these risky jobs and succeeding, that is the end of your happiness as men. That is when you will know that men are "scum".

The reason why feminism has become this successful is due to men like you and me ignorantly encouraging women to take over your responsibilities. Men should be alive to their responsibilities and build up their fellow men.

thank you sir, this deserves reposting, shall i sir?

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

Marrying the right person or at the right time has nothing to do with being poor rich. It's just your priorities and how you planned your life then luck .

IamKizzbrown10:


FOR ME AM NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN MARRYING GIRLS BETWEEN THE AGE OF 20 TO 28 OR 30 THIS CATEGORY OF GIRLS ARE AFTER MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS NOT LOVE, THOUGH AM 25 I WANT TO MARRY WOMAN FROM 33 UPWARD

you have some level of experience but are you sure the 33 upwards are better? Please share your knowledge with me, thanks..

Evolutionlove:


Frustrated and Lonely ENP😂

Midnight NP

Dshocker:


Apparently he is known and popular, there is no way for him to disguise.

Chaiii

I suggest he travel to other Nations. Or better still he should tow the path of my latter advice.

IamKizzbrown10:

FOR ME AM NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN MARRYING GIRLS BETWEEN THE AGE OF 20 TO 28 OR 30 THIS CATEGORY OF GIRLS ARE AFTER MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS NOT LOVE, THOUGH AM 25 I WANT TO MARRY WOMAN FROM 33 UPWARD

Okay i respect your choice and decision.

But one more thing, When you Clock 30years of Age and beyond. Do come back here and share your experience.

I wish you best of Luck.

I'm going for the best... Please stop spreading this negative thoughts here..

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Op your assertion about the Hausa is very wrong. As a matter of fact, civilization is evolving now and the upcoming northern boys don't buy this kind of marriage idea you portrayed above. I don't know of the Igbo people despite the fact I am affiliated to the Igbo linage. As a born middle belt man I am here to correct your notion on that.

Civilization is catching up?

Evolutionlove:


Chaiii

I suggest he travel to other Nations. Or better still he should tow the path of my latter advice.

He is a silent billionaire, until Obi Cubana dem drag him feet come out.

Facts
Facts
Facts
But truth is don’t be too broke while in your 20s

Saintmary:



If you're a good man, you will find your woman, but you people want to eat your cake and have it.

Good man as in how? Define

IamKizzbrown10:


FOR ME AM NOT EVEN INTERESTED IN MARRYING GIRLS BETWEEN THE AGE OF 20 TO 28 OR 30 THIS CATEGORY OF GIRLS ARE AFTER MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS NOT LOVE, THOUGH AM 25 I WANT TO MARRY WOMAN FROM 33 UPWARD

Every woman is after material things and love is subjective. We all define love differently as it suits us but don't expect a marriage which you cannot provide materially to be peaceful no matter the love.

Ebymyk:
you have some level of experience but are you sure the 33 upwards are better? Please share your knowledge with me, thanks..

WELL BRO EVEN THE 33 UPWARD ARE NOT 100％ BUT BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE THEY ARE THINKING DIFFERENT NOT AS TWENTIES THINKS.

AT LEAST THEY WILL BE ABLE AND READY TO FACE IT WITH YOU KNOWING THAT THEIR AGE IS BEHIND THEM

Evolutionlove:


Okay i respect your choice and decision.

But one more thing, When you Clock 30years of Age and beyond. Do come back here and share your experience.

I wish you best of Luck.

I WILL DEFINITELY

Abagworo:


Every woman is after material things and love is subjective. We all define love differently as it suits us but don't expect a marriage which you cannot provide materially to be peaceful no matter the love.

i disagree with you don't mention every woman, because girls on their early twenty don't even care about love all the want is money to live like their fav so don't be decieve

SyrusdeHansome:
In this age of technology nd sophistication i'm yet to see a girl that's ready to have something serious with a poor man. Maybe, our moms were the last set that could comfortably do that without thinking of what they'll eat or wear after the marriage. The olden days women married by faith while the ones of this age marry by sight. In those days what u wrote up there was possible but not now. For instance, my dad went for youth service in Edo state, met the daughter of a senior army general nd woo her nd now she's my mom. Dad is a christian but had to join Islam just to marry my mom. They got married when dad was a nobody nd relocated to our state after his program. But that is very rare in this age. So as a poor man it'll also be hard to marry the right person this days.

You sef don talk am finish na ...
Even a similar story I heard of happened to be one of my gf that her brother, he is not well off but the wife came from well to do family. She told me that some girls that are from well to do family don't too reason materialism in choosing a soulmate

emmaodet:


My dad also married my mum with virtually nothing.
As a matter of fact, it was the money they were given that they used to buy the mattress they slept with on that wedding night. That was how bad it was.
Funny enough, my mum was a graduate.
I do think to myself that the man was very very lucky.
If he had come in this age, even a pepper seller won't touch him with a long pole not to talk of a graduate.
Which graduate go marry you for room wey no even get mattress? He was lucky he married in the 80s

All of una don turn this thread to motivational thread

Eyin oloyinbo yi , brain nah substance ? , brain no be water or blood nah , how you go use wrong word just to abuse an innocent man for spitting the truth

Caaz:

And I use to think you have that substance called a brain all these while,what a disappointment.

fineboynl:
If a man doesn't marry when he is broke. Marriage become difficult when he is rich. Especially getting the right one without money influence or family interference.

Ask any successful rich guys they will admit the simple fact about getting the right one since everyone is drawn to success.

Fact!!

Obierika:


There was no SS3 then.

I think they used to call it Form 5, the highest class in secondary school (Which is the equivalent of today's SS2)

There was form 6
But not ss3 as it is presently called