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Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by IamKizzbrown10(m): 2:38pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
It is a known fact that men are the bread winners of the
family. So naturally it’s expected that Men should be
more richer than the women.
However as technology and civilization sets in, the status
quo is beginning to change. More and more women are
becoming richer than the men folks.
Though when looked into from the family perspective, this
of course means more money for the family. But will a
husband with a super rich wife still be respected and seen
as the head of the family?
It can be intimidating. Imagine driving an old fashioned
Toyota Tundra and your rich wife is cruising on her
Mercedes Benz.
So as women now smile to the bank everyday, getting
richer than some men, it leaves the question:
Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You?
(Yes or No) 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by yrhuhfy113: 3:27pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
IamKizzbrown10: IF DURING DATING, the man can not LEVEL UP either through a loan or grant from her, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT MARRY, HE IS NOT MENTALLY FIT ENOUGH TO MARRY HER AND WILL NEVER BE SECURE. A MAN WHO IS NOT RICHER BECAUSE HE DOESN'T HAVE FUNDS TO PUSH IS IDEAS/VISION is VERY VERY different from a man who is DEAD TO CREATIVITY AND WHOSE FACULTY OF REASONING IS SHALLOW AND WEAK TO PERFORM BETTER. example, she is having 50-100m.... AND I HAVE JUST 20M......... or even 10m It is simple, I have too many practical ideas for credible businesses in NIGERIA that would give me a monthly turn over of at lowest 30% ROI if i invest 50M into it.... So, in 2 years of dating before MARRIAGE, I would have reached up to her level and even surpass her and paid her back her money with interest. THAT IS WHAT I MEAN. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by HellVictorinho6(m): 3:48pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
marriage is not a prison I can marry her if i want It will be 4 as long as we want If either or both get tired,then we divorce. Do or die wont work Itz a matter of certain agreements 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
If I was a man, I wouldn't want to get married to a lady richer than me... I like the idea of being in charge and dominant as a man... I was gonna feel emasculated by the rich woman. You guys are enjoying. 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by almarthins(m): 4:34pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: We are not enjoying, it is hard now than then. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by skj1377(m): 4:37pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Not advisable. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by skj1377(m): 4:39pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
In Nigeria you don't need to be richer than your husband to dominate him. All you need is diabolic powers. Nigeria has many women with such powers. Samantha124: 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
I don't do anything diabolical, because those things always end up backfiring. skj1377: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Sonnobax15(m): 4:50pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by EmperorCaesar(m): 4:54pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: And as a woman, do u still like the idea of being dominant and in charge? Op, all the Ladies I've dated have always been more financially buoyant than me and its kinda hellish dealing with them They arent arrogant or boastful but i tend to see all objections/disagreement from them as being deeply rooted in their financial advantage over me...In fact, Insecurity wan kill me The bad news for me tho is the fact that i get turned on by "Richer Ladies", so i would prolly continue in this circle till i completely conquer my insecurity |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Mikespecialone(m): 5:08pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
If she’s not from the east but from the north |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
As a woman, I just like being me and not dominating anyone. But I don't mind my man being in charge every now and then, especially in the other room... ![]() ![]() ![]() Dominate me baby...😂😂😂 EmperorCaesar: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by finallybusy: 5:47pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
I will return when OP drops his opinion on the matter. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by mysticwarrior(m): 6:04pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Na heavy UGBA be that, ask any warri person the meaning of UGBA |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Fahvvy: 6:23pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Ofcourse! ![]() It's no big deal ![]() But y'all are getting all this thing wrong ![]() Men are not afraid of getting together with a lady far richer than they are, the issue is that will these women submit to them? ![]() It's no news that men value respect above all else, so are these women willing to respect a man who is financially less than they are? ![]() Cause I've noticed that most ladies who are well to do look down on men who are below them financially ![]() They'll talk down on the man, disrespect him and then when the man walks away from them, they console themselves with talk of "men can't handle richer women cause of their ego", how amusing! ![]() Well... I'm not surprised ![]() Cause we live in a world where a man's respect (and value) is closely tied to the depth of his pockets, thus questions like this ![]() |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Boogyman557: 6:23pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
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Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Marynwachukwu21(f): 6:51pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
IamKizzbrown10:The vote goes for the 👉guys |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by CandidAdmin(m): 7:21pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
It's not about money but the respect. Food for thought - You just have to respect the man of the house. My siggy! 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by mosdii(m): 7:22pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 4 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by rickleye: 7:26pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
What’s the problem ? It’s her money . As long as she contributes to the household and understands that I am the head of the house - I do not see an issue. Is she humble or flaunts around that she is richer. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Streetmovement(m): 7:35pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Samantha124: Wotoporiously ![]() Your mind is rotten 🤣🤣🤣 |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
🤣🤣🤣 Streetmovement: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:48pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Na that type of woman I dey find sef,i have alot of them but they are older than me too much.i prefer a young woman who is more rich than me.Nothing fit make me settle for less 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Tallesty1(m): 7:56pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Samantha124:Money isn't all that is required to command authority. Good leadership skills come first. Placed side by side, a woman is more likely to choose a man with effective decision-making skills, someone who can inspire her and guide her, over the one with cash. Money doesn't guarantee respect and influence, but a woman will always respect a man who, when confronted with complex challenges that require well-thought-out decisions, will make sound and strategic choices. A woman will naturally submit to a man that she can trust in his judgment. It is just unfortunate that a large number of men have only money to offer 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by luminouz(m): 8:10pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Men are the only creatures who spreads their wealth to benefit everyone. A man comes into money and the first thought is to get married, have babies, build a legacy. So wealth flows from him to everyone around him. It's the same even for politicians and public office holders(even though they embezzle). Most women believe they don't need men once they have money. They equate a man's presence to source of living or nourishment and once they are richer, they believe,he is useless to them. This mentality has made so many households barren of joy and laughter because later in life, these women come to realize that money will never be equal to the presence of a man. Money gives you comfort, companionship gives you life. Two different things but women erroneously think they are the same. Now, back to the topic. It is only a very few percentage of women who have superceded the level of mentality I mentioned above, either by experience, pain and a critical self-check, coupled with repentance, to arrive at this truth: That you are richer than your husband doesn't mean you don't need him. Infact, that's when you need him the most. You are the wife, the queen, the princess, you make the HOME. You need to be humble, follow his lead(even though he is poorer) and love him like you did(if you ever loved him at all, maybe like sha). Personally, I have seen just three women since I was born, who never let money change them. One of them is from this website. Any man who marries them will enjoy that marriage because they see their money as nothing compared to the joy of having a good home. The rest? Make I no just talk but the consequences are dealing with them sha. Summary: Money gives you comfort; Companionship gives you life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Figger(m): 10:25pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Tallesty1:awon motigbetional speakers, which planet are u typing from? Seems like u're not in touch with reality. Late Saint Obi is a case study to this topic |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:11am On Oct 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: If the guys are enjoying why do you prefer a man that provides than a man that doesn't? Why not switch rikrs then . |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:13am On Oct 24, 2023 |
It's no big deal if the person's character traits isn't influenced by affluence. |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Quality20(m): 9:15am On Oct 24, 2023 |
No |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by Nobody: 10:12am On Oct 24, 2023 |
Why are you trying to turn this into a gender war? I honestly don't have the energy for this... ![]() ![]() ![]() ExudeLoveToAll: |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by youngreezy(m): 10:12am On Oct 24, 2023 |
if I see woman wey get money,I go rush am!!!....how una dey reason sef?why una dey fear women wey get money pass una?no be woman again?if my wife like make she get money like dangote,that one na for her pocket oooo,so long as you dey my house,you go loyal or else carry your millions go find another man to disrespect ooo,no be for my house you o come do that one......me wey be day even my niggas/relations wey get money,I no dey gree for them,if you do anyhow we fit fight sef........e come be my wife....abegiiiii |
Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You? by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:21pm On Oct 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: I only replied based on what you asserted , it has nothing to do with gender banter. I only engaged your notion of reasoning, it's highly flawed. |
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