paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

You want to someone to tell you she is seeing someone else? You just have to keep an open mind to see all the red flags. I hope you know once a lady knows you love her a lot, dey will manipulate you. I been dey blame Samson for Bible but once I grew up I no blame am


In as much as you love her do not be a simp. Always keep a open mind that women are smart cheaters. Trust me, even if you see something that is not strong enough and ask her. She will play the “You don’t trust me game…” become aggressive and all. If possible find someone else or something else to keep your mind and emotions in check.



One thing is I know is, as a man just enjoy the cruise while it last. Dem no dey die put for woman matter. Even after your death, another man would continue where you stop.

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

Your girl is not a virgin
You didn't meet her as one
MORE UNFORTUNATE, YOU DON'T KNOW HER TRUE BODYCOUNT.

She's definitely texting someone she's dating as well.

She must have told the guy

1, Her big phone is missing...
2, Her big phone is faulty
3, She's not active in Social media and she prefers texting...

SHE'S A VERY SMART WH0RĒ...
SHE KNOWS YOU CAN'T EASILY HACK OR CATCH HER ...

SHE'S WIPING OFF DETAILS ON THAT SMALL PHONE, DETAILS YOU CAN USE AGAINST HER...


This is the problem I have with girls that are no longer VIRGINS...
THEY ARE BIG RED FLAGS

YOU WILL PERISH IF YOU EVER TRUST THEM...

THEY WILL MOST LIKELY CHEAT ON YOU DURING DATING AND EVEN IN MARRIAGE, 90% OF TIMES....

Tymk:
i donr know why some of una no fit get sense

Can you imagine? I was shocked to see that too o

Deco7:
Tell her this. Your continous texting and smiling is making you insecure. And you are messing with my head. Just say this and she will do the rest

the Doc!

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

Please don't forget to update us after catching her.. on behalf of the comment Reader Association of Nauralnd we would like to know

Oyindidi:
Hello insecurity!

Sure. As always you females just support females without thinking with both sides of the brain. While it is possible that she isn’t cheating isn’t there also a possibility that she is? So every man who complains of his woman being secretive about her phone is a case of insecurity according to your small brain?
Anyway I understand where you are coming from. With the number of unmarried and desperate women out there you females will do anything to protect another one’s marriage even if she is a LovePeddler

Romanoff:
You've only known someone for 7 months and she's already your "fiance". Make I just keep quiet dey read comments as usual.

Long time @Romanoff

She might be plotting with her friends on how they will do a surprise proposal for you. Get ready to be married

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

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paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

Don't rush, take your time till you have evidence especially when she's fast asleep. Check the call history and text messages of the small phone...it will lead you to answer

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

guy investigate the beb... No go carry Olosho keep for house

Tallesty1:
No mind the werey, person dey on probation dey claim rights.


My lady kor, my queen ni.

He should be arrested for trying to personalize collective resources.

The last thing I’ll do is come here and talk about personal matters like this. You want to listen to random suggestions from different individuals from different home and upbringings. Here is filled with different kind of people, good and bad, mentally stable and mentally derailed people.
Boss you know what your mind is telling you, and often times, try get her phone without her awareness or tell her you want to create multiple accounts on something and if she agrees, no qualms she’s good to keep, if you observe her attitude just tell her she can stay with you till you’re done, if she agrees to stay with you lol bros run

Tallesty1:
Just 7 months and he proudly calls her My Lady

People meet and marry within shorter time.

Oyindidi:
Hello insecurity!

Dey play

For the mere fact that you are calling someone a fiancee (7months) without engagement, already tells me you are in a relationship with yourself, fooling yourself.
You are most likely having sex, she stays in your house, she cooks for you, etc. She don see you finish. Worst case scenario, you have been captured and caged. You hardly know anything about her, her friends, family, etc.
She has captured you as a simp, while she continues playing the field.
As a simp that you are, follow the advice of some above and confront her about it, while you allow her play the emotional blackmail card on you.
Don't be taken away by her body, beauty and acting. End the 'relationship' now. Stop sleeping with her, stop her from visiting you at your place. Free yourself for you to see clearly. Don't settle for what will kill your peace of mind. You have made her get all she wants within 7months, so why should she be committed to you/your feelings as a coded olosho, who isn't planning to retire soon?
Be wise!

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

7 months and you're already calling her your fiancee?

That you even had the boldness to say "My Lady" 😂😂😂😂

Tallesty1:
Just 7 months and he proudly calls her My Lady

Omo the guy Man fear me ooo

Text your own too na


You too get sense my guy/babe

1 big Heineken/ Hollandia for you

yommen:


People meet and marry within shorter time.

Majority don't end well

She has most of the qualities you desire in a wooman.. Is texting not one of them?

flokii:
She is cheating or likely a runs girl... most girls nowadays are into runs or escort or whatever name they choose to call it.

When you see a girl having multiple sims, two or more whatsapp lines, two or more phones like OP said, just know her way no pure.

@OP Ask her bluntly if she is cheating, if she says no, ask to see her phone chats and text msgs to be sure you're safe.. If she declines, you have your answer.

Which one is escort, please?

DND069:
Omo una wey dey relationship dey try. How will I be monitoring adults? 😅

All these things are pure stress.

Omo. I swear people dey try

Caugt mine once like dat after checking her phone i was able to unlock it with her finger print when she was sleeping
Funny thing when I confronted her she clear d charts and was still saying is it want i think
Since then na just fire i just dey fire no emotion attach again i already know d relationship is heading no where
My advice just dey fire dey go remember use protection

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

Don’t spook her, find out who’s she’s texting. You deserve better

Deco7:
Tell her this. Your continous texting and smiling is making you insecure. And you are messing with my head. Just say this and she will do the rest

You dey whyn? That’s simping in the highest level.. and she will find other means to outshine op..if actually she is cheating..

My advice is for op to be calm.. Anytime you see her textin and smiling,take that phone from her when she doesn’t expect.. Op needs evidence.. it’s obvious she is cheating..

The day I discovered that my ex was now deleting inbox and sent msgs,I knew something was playing .. I set traps and wasn’t up to a week.. I caught the bitch and gave her red card..

Hmmm may God give me a partner who trusts me and who I can trust in Jesus Name. Amen

Tallesty1:
Just 7 months and he proudly calls her My Lady

that's one sign of a Simp

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

How old are yo?

Hey Little man! Let her be, you met her 6months and you want to cage her without serious commitment. Don't you know women are like flowers and will become the property of the serious bidder.

Women are like Inec, just be a serious bidder like Jagaban.

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

She's up to something but surely not something good else she would have inform you but don't get too emotional, keep acting naive like you don't know what's going on as that will soon give her the notion of "my bf don't worry about me chatting others", she might be deleting the text , don't worry . The day she will loose guide and you will catch her like snail , that's when you will decide wether to continue with her or move on.

MichaelSokoto:
Op!

Go listen to "I don't wanna know" - Mario Winans feat. Enya & Puff Daddy

Have you listened to the new version now ft the weekend and 21 savage