Oyindidi:
Hello insecurity!

This is what you people always say. That's why I Bleep nonsense from the head of all these hook up girls all over the place. I Bleep them with my big dick as if they will die. I Bleep the hell out of their public pussy.
The OP is naive. How can he think a public pussy belongs to only him.
I Bleep them with passion.
Let me not catch you too. I will Bleep Gaza out of your sweet pussy

Magnoliaa:


Keep quiet, please.

Exactly. Instead of the guy to Bleep nonsense out of her sweet pussy he's here complaining. Pussy is meant to be hardly bleeped

As in heavy Bleep

If all what you said here is the truth, you are only wasting your time: call her fiancee or girlfriend or anything, you are a mere tool in her hand. The red flag is so clear and if you ignore it, blame only yourself.

With what we are facing in this country, if what you stated above is your problem, then you are lucky your own better.
Did you think you are the only one she is going out with?
Any body wey no get sense for this Tinubu regime no go ever get sense again , Wise up.

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

Tallesty1:
Just 7 months and he proudly calls her My Lady

Make him dey play

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

1. Marry her to settle your mind if you are serious.

2. Dont worry about what she type, she will manifest by herself if she is cheating.

3. If you dont trust her you are on shaky foundation that is why you are shaking.

4. If you still want to clear your doubt, request for the phone from her wisely to be used as light to search for something, or use the calculator or to listen to FM radio ...If she does not give you freely that means you are playing with Ronaldo.

Kobojunkie:
Lack of communication is the root of many marital issues. You came here to tell us your fears but you forgot to communicate the exact same to the one who is right beside you. We have no way of reading her mind for you on this so if you want to get answers to either allay or lend support to your fears, the best person to approach for just that is your partner.

I’m yet to come across any of your submission that makes any modicum of sense. But I admire your commitment to it tho. Someone is suspecting another party, you said he should “communicate” such suspicion with the person. So if the person is guilty, the conversation will make her confess or what? SMH. All these feminists sef…

Don’t follow this advice

Deco7:
Tell her this. Your continous texting and smiling is making you insecure. And you are messing with my head. Just say this and she will do the rest

I score this comment 💯

kereman1:
She's doing it on purpose, ladies are very smart in covering their tracks,
If she is indeed flirting, you won't even know.

She dey tuant you

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

If it's a Whatsapp chat, there's a way you can see her chat on your own Whatsapp chat.

If those demons can betrayed The creator of the universe, who are you not to be betray?

Continue putting your health at high risk because of a loose infected hole.

Take my advice..

Don't ask her nothing, Check her phone, if it's something you can handle, talk to her about it.

If it's something you can't handle (like cheating), break up immediately, and never look back, this can be hard, but just do it.

If you ever try to probe her or know what went wrong or try to fix it or all of those simp stuff, she'll ride you, you'll regret your life, your heart will crack and then it will break.

I know you won't listen to me, but its cool. But understand this, In a relationship, only one person feels pain and true love, and if that is you my friend, you are fu.cke.d.

Please leave if you find out she's cheating

TINTINABULATION:


May God pardon the insensitivity of the social media, I am old enough to be your father.

Then act like one old man. Give the younger ones advice when necessary and stop behaving like a schoolboy tout.

Throwing direct suspicions doesn't end well. Here is my hack. Oops 🤫 I can't even say it here cause most ladies will.become smarter with this too... Just act calm. No matter how smart they are, we guys have advantage of knowing technology more than ladies so bro use technology to fill in your presence when you are long away and you'll get information that you seek.

kponkedenge:


There's nothing wrong doing a little digging on the lady or guy you intend settling down with.

It's only a careless fellow that would go into a marriage with someone without making their own findings first.

Sure I get you but it is pure stress. It is just like looking over toddlers from time to time.

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

you've already concluded. Don't be surprised that she's setting you up. The best thing is to be open, ask her who she is texting or chatting, find a way of accusing her of poor attention when she's texting and insist on knowing what's so important that will take her time this much.

TINTINABULATION:
May God pardon the insensitivity of the social media, I am old enough to be your father.

Go and demand respect from your kids.

Insensitivity?

Remind me again what this place is. Someone came here with a real issue on his mind, and that was your comment to him. Does that response belie your age? What's even the correlation? Was it a sensitive comment?

This is social media, not your family house. Go there if you don't want to be spoken to 'anyhow'. You're actually right; nobody gives a damn for who you are here.

Completely ignore her and act normal you'll definitely catch her if you're smart.
If it were over here I would have delivered the job for you to know the truth

SIXTEENTH:


Have you listened to the new version now ft the weekend and 21 savage

Yes I have buh prefer Winans own.

TINTINABULATION:
May God pardon the insensitivity of the social media, I am old enough to be your father.

A father and more.

Somebody's best dad in the world. 🤡

TINTINABULATION:


May God pardon the insensitivity of the social media, I am old enough to be your father.

Old enough to be a father and not old enough to give a solution to an aspiring husband who would probably turn a father one day.

How do you disseminate knowledge to your kids and what are they learning from u?

Wotoporiously speaking

God knows I don't be checking this bitches phones, I'll rather keep my distance but trust me the truth always reveal itself to me cuz I ain't stupid like they think.

It shows that you are not even friends with these lady abi girl.
If you were, you'll jokingly ask her laughing over it and she'll tell you what she's doing.

You should end that thing you called relationship. That's rubbish

georgeakins:


Which one is escort, please?

Fem.ale escorts, their own is to do you well.
Instead of securiry, na ashaw0 go dey follow you around.. you gerrit?

Person wey u never marry you wan control.
Fornicators everywhere.
Oga, gosn pay her bride price then you'll have all the right in the world to worry over what she does with her phone.

Op it's better you open up to her about your thoughts. Don't allow your insecurities or suspicious allow you throw away a beautiful relationship, as you said she posses most of the qualities you want in a lady.

Have a one on one discussion with her and get to find out who she has been texting

DND069:
Omo una wey dey relationship dey try. How will I be monitoring adults? 😅

All these things are pure stress.

Asin eh serious stress

paulosan:

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

@OP right now 👇

Did she carry it into the bathroom and toilet too

So check it then

MichaelSokoto:

Yes I have buh prefer Winans own.

How do you feel to hear 21 savage spit his verse on that?

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

You see, that is the problem with all these relationship, she is probably seeing another man or multiple men, but do you blame her? What if you do not marry her.

That is the reason I stopped anything about relationship, for my mental health, when I think I am emotionally ready to keep a woman at home, I will go get a feminine young and gentle woman. But you see love, its a fallacy.

Tallesty1:
Just 7 months and he proudly calls her My Lady

You dey call 7 months just? As much as they agree to but in a relationship, it doesn't matter how long they've been together