KINGwax: ignorance is a disease dude, not a bliss. And besides, if u use the word, 'pseudo or pretence' in dealing wit a girl, i'll undstnd. But telling people to act like 'since-i-don't-knw-i'm-fine' is fuckin hypocricy! How u hypocrites succeed in wielding the word 'trust' as if it aint d tool for survival irks me. Why don't u pray for a bit_ch, and when u catch her pants down wit your dog, u can biliv it's nice to knw. How can i jes pretend it's fine when the signs say it aint? Mtcheeew!

member_126910: Hi guys, I need fresh eyes to look at this situation, as it is bugging me constantly.

We live apart, and he has always been obsessed with the idea of me "cheating". When we started, if he phoned me and I was unavailable for any reason, it meant that I was being suspicious even though I called him back asap.
Recently, I found out that he has (without my knowledge), not just hacked into my Twitter account but also set up his phone to receive an alert whenever anyone mentions me or sends me a message on Twitter. This is not just a hack which lets you log into my Twitter. This is an alert like a text message. This means that wherever he is, whatever he is doing, he wants to know what who contacts me on Twitter. He does have a Twitter account but isn't interested in anything I have to say and so he isn't following me. Rather he is interested in the private messages I get, and what messages people send me.

Mr..Cork:
if she walks in a straight line towards you. She is cheatin!

pro01:

Unfortunately, ignorance is not quite as blissful as you make it seem. Certainly wouldn't be nice for you to be walking around confidently as Suliya's Bf/husband, only for your neighbours and friends to be scoffing at you behind your back about how're you're a mumu and how your 'trusted' Suliya is a generous donator of her punana to xyz guys. The problem is that overly trusting and supposedly 'secure' cuckolds are always the last to know, because they had been living in a delusion of blissful ignorance and baseless confidence, which made them shut their eyes, ears and nose to the harsh reality on ground.

The major reason why most men would commit themselves to one woman - and shoulder her wahala (financial, material and emotional) is the expectation of some sort of possession and exclusivity to her affections/body. Otherwise, you wouldn't mind marrying/dating and taking care of a known prostitute/promiscuous woman would you? Imagine being blissfully ignorant of the fact that you're the 'monkey' wey dey work, while another 'baboon' somewhere dey chop? No nau, haba. It's certainly better to know abeg, so that you would take appropraite measures. From what I have observed severally, the most trusting and blissfully ignorant dudes are ALWAYS the most cheated upon. Freely given trust is often taken for licence to miisbehave: that's human nature.

It's better for you to know, just don't let her know that you're trying to know - lest she works extra hard to cover her tracks. If she's truly innocent and worthy of trust (cos trust must be earned, not freely given), then any trap you set for her would catch nothing. As the saying goes, a clean conscience fears no accusation.

Mr..Cork:
if she walks in a straight line towards you. She is cheatin!

danny212: Let the sleeping dog lie my bro. Cos there is no unique formula to life. Even the most faithful of women cheat a times. Just do your best and dont let anything get you down

Sijo01: 4d fact u ar doubting ur gurl's faithfulness, is nt enough 4u 2generalize gurls been unfaithful.

born2fuck: That is how I stylish deleted a girl from my life,we were dating,slept with each other twice and she claimed I am the only guy in her life. I took her out most of the time, someday I took her out and I took her phone right in front of her ,  I bought chicken pepper soup and I bought mine too with malta guiness while I was with Star, I was playing games with phone and she was concentrating not knowing where I was about going,  I used my two hands so she would think it was the game, Immediately she concentrated on eating and talking , I quickly gone through the text message, she didn't notice,

I felt the land should open and swallow me immediately, even me wey dey cheat nearly want die cause of her cheating styles.

come see different messages and one was written with meet me in Pab hotel in ikotun, could not forget the name til now,

my body use styles shivered but I quickly took my beer to increased my high level and ordered for another immediately and run back to game mode, she suspect what happened, I said nothing, I brought down the phone a bit and she looked and figure I was busy with game (likewise I was pretending). she thought I go knock down known in the game, dat day e bi like say make I die instantly , water commot for eyes on my way back home because this was the girl I would have date before meeting my current girlfriend. I love her then no bi small

Thank God I have ordered for the chicken before I saw the message,it would have been total war, I gave her 500 on transport which was kinda different from 2k  for transport anytime I took her out, I no fit forget lai lai, because I always spend 5k to 7k to at least give, I tooked her to fast food,beer palour,different kind of restaurant but rough and clean ones

anyway, I dump her, even I was wale 2  on her phone but worst was different messages from different guys but I end the love with tears

born2boink:
*The biggest reasons for bearing born2fuck ID was because of the cheating I faced when I was mumu stupid holly boy.
my ex girlfriend was sleeping with a married man of two children,she claimed the man was from her state that was why they were close. When the cat  was let out of her bag,I cannot commit suicide that day,I cried and sleep never come over night for a whole week, even landed in hospital but went on and after this incidence, I started fucking ashewo like madman and engaging in cheating and I add alcoholic by force

*until I found another one I love  whom I Bleep twice,which claimed she love me too,I was the only guy in her life and later found different text messages with the one message which was meet me in Pab hotel in ikotun, Na second time hurt be that, since then I add smoking to my lovely alcohol plus continue fucking ashi increases and street girls increase, change my id to from wale.star to dobodobo then born2fuck cause women hurt me,

**now I am with the 3rd relationship, we are 4 yrs now but I never trust, we bleeped wella while 3 years of the relationship was between fucking her and ashewo but since stop ashewo and concentrate on her alone since last year december while I am planning to launch Oyinbo ashi this december as my  stop ashi-birthday to make 1 year of no ashi, since tried to play me too but she has not succeed because I dey catch girl red handed before I vex madly, we are still together up to date but I will never trust until death and still verify her unsuspectingly,

kpolli:
With a girl, its hard to know unless she wants u to. . . . so give up trying to find out n prepare for the worst

born2boink:
*The biggest reasons for bearing born2fuck ID was because of the cheating I faced when I was mumu stupid holly boy.
my ex girlfriend was sleeping with a married man of two children,she claimed the man was from her state that was why they were close. When the cat  was let out of her bag,I cannot commit suicide that day,I cried and sleep never come over night for a whole week, even landed in hospital but went on and after this incidence, I started fucking ashewo like madman and engaging in cheating and I add alcoholic by force

*until I found another one I love  whom I Bleep twice,which claimed she love me too,I was the only guy in her life and later found different text messages with the one message which was meet me in Pab hotel in ikotun, Na second time hurt be that, since then I add smoking to my lovely alcohol plus continue fucking ashi increases and street girls increase, change my id to from wale.star to dobodobo then born2fuck cause women hurt me,

**now I am with the 3rd relationship, we are 4 yrs now but I never trust, we bleeped wella while 3 years of the relationship was between fucking her and ashewo but since stop ashewo and concentrate on her alone since last year december while I am planning to launch Oyinbo ashi this december as my  stop ashi-birthday to make 1 year of no ashi, since tried to play me too but she has not succeed because I dey catch girl red handed before I vex madly, we are still together up to date but I will never trust until death and still verify her unsuspectingly,

noblegrex:
keep deceiving yourself. Thats d smartness u girls think uve got. U always believe u cannot b caught in d act.Bt I bet u,its only a foolish guy that will nt knw his girl is cheating. I've been in a relationship n I've cought ladies cheating,of wich dey later confess after they saw that I'm sure of wht I'm saying.

kpolli:


Is this one okay? What makes you think I am female? No manner of approach at all.... Kilon worry e gan sef? No vex me oo

noblegrex:
is there a way I've abused u or mayb its your problem to comprehend. Either u r a boy or girl, I'm sheding light to your believe,so don't b deceive by that.I don't c anything difficult in recognizing a lady that's cheating.

You cant know. And why are even bothered? She's only your galfrnd, so it is allowed 4 her 2 cheat until u marry her then it becomes an abomination.

195:
Pour RAT POSION in her water then you'll know when shes cheating on you